I'm scared I'm turning into a horrible person
Q. i'm scared i'm turning into a horrible person, i keep being mean without the intension, like being nasty without me thinking about it. please help me stop! should i appologise? recently i have become a model for absolute and i'm scared it will go ...
A. 10 May 2008: i'm actually 16, i wrote the wrong age as i thought you had to be 18 on this site i'm normally mean to my family, on the odd occasion to my friends and basically people who i dont know well to their backs, who will find out because i said it to ... (read in full...)
My ex dismissed our plans because she loves someone else. What do you think?
Q. Me and my ex have been apart for 4 months now (after a brilliant relationship) and she's been seeing someone else for three months, however a week ago they broke up. She broke up with him because it wasn't right and she doesn't have time for a ...
A. 23 March 2008: I think she is trying to avoid her feeling for you, by being with somebody else and hiding love. she doesn't want to hurt you and is protecting you (so she thinks). talk to her and tell her you love everything about her and always will and she is ... (read in full...)
I don't fancy him any more but how can I tell him without hurting his feelings?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and to be honest I just don't fancy him much anymore the 'spark' has gone, I've told him this and then he started to get upset so I told him that it's back again. He's told me he feels the same as he did ...
A. 14 March 2008: thanks everyone! i think im going to try and make the 'spark' come back though, i've thought it through and our relationship has so many happy times, and we have never argued properly .i keep changing my mind what to do :S one minute i love him the ... (read in full...)
My heart tells me it will be fine and there is no need to upset our 11 year old by kicking his daddy out, despite of his affair and his soon-to-arrive child. Any insight, please?
Q. A few months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, as is natural. He decided however that he was going to break it off with her and make it work with me and our son. About a month ago (2 or 3 months after they ...
A. 31 December 2007: i was 11 when my parents split up and the worst part of it was the argueing before the break up as they wanted to stay together for me. i was relived when they broke up as my mother was happy. 1/3 marriages split up and it is comman and i have found ... (read in full...)
He likes me alot more than I like him, should I settle for him?
Q. I have had the ultimate worst luck with men! From being in a serious relationship for 6 years, to being with another guy for 2 years who ended things with me cos his mother controlled his every breath and hated my guts for some reason :o@ Now I have ...
A. 31 December 2007: get to know him more and see if your likeing to him increases. if not stay as friends, there is no point for settling for less then your best x... (read in full...)
We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?
Q. hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...
A. 31 December 2007: he just wants a friendship with sex without all the strings involving argueing etc. he wants something simple and to keep him feeling young.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a ve...
A. 31 December 2007: you can buy condoms to increase the time. i cannot think of the name but it is durex and a clock is on the cover. 'perfomance' may be it x... (read in full...)
Do condoms really work?
Q. Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...
A. 31 December 2007: why not try the pill which is 99.9% accurate- aswel as the condom if you wish to be extra safe!, the condom does work and i have never knew of a case which it hasnt in me and my friends, pregnancys are usually caused by missing the pill/ getting ... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to be hurt that I've found someone else, and I don't want my church group to think I'm a slut
Q. So I met my ex through my church youth group. We dated for a little over 3 years, but then i broke up with him. Only a few people in the youth group know that I have a new boyfriend. I'm afriad that if someone finds out, they will go and tell my ex. ...
A. 31 December 2007: do not tell them out of the blue, only if a question asked is related to your currant boyfriend. The fact you broke up with him doesnt mean your moving to quick and your a 'slut' as you are the one who ended the relationship due to not wanting to be ... (read in full...)
I want to know whether my husband's comments and attitude towards me are "normal" or whether they are an indiciation of an inappropriate temperament.
Q. I want to know whether my husbands comments and attitude towards me are just 'normal' or whether they are an indiciation of a much worse temperament. It seems ridiculous of me to ask but, having put up with things for so long I feel somehow ...
A. 31 December 2007: not at all- your marriage is bad in both areas, physical and emotionally. you need to attempt to stop with the put downs from him and if that does not help,talk to him about it and say it is effecting your health. if this does not help a divorce is ... (read in full...)
He dumped me and now I find myself...going past his place everyday to see if he's in...advice?
Q. Ok you lot will think im a complete idiot here but im not. I was kind of seeing this guy he was a few years older than me and to be honest ive never before had a relationship and this guy was so special i was so happy to have a guy like me. anyway c...
A. 30 December 2007: No, this is quite comman. you think this is a normall relationship as you have not experianced others, relationships should be equal effort and the reason he stopped it was probably due to the no sex- this proves that he is shallow, you will find ... (read in full...)
I slowed things down a notch between us, but don't want him dating others. What should I do now?
Q. Hey I was just wondering I met this guy on myspace and he lives here in my state and it will be easy for us to meet question is I hardly know this guy we've known each other for months but haven't really talked much due to me not having his yahoo sn ...
A. 30 December 2007: you made the right choice, in my experiance people act different on AIM then face-to-face . even in my friends. this is because they can plan out what they are saying. make it clear you are interested and dont meet him alone in case of awkwardness, ... (read in full...)
I'll do a lot to make her happy but I feel our relationship slipping away..help?
Q. hi, im 20 and my g/f is 19. i have been with her for just over a year now. i really love my g/f so much and i would do anything in this world to make her happy. if shes ill i do my best to bring her things to make her feel better. if shes unhapy ...
A. 30 December 2007: the reason you havnt argued is probably because you havnt voiced your opinions and have kept them inside!, I have not argued with my boyfriend but a few heated discussions are there. You need to base your relationship on communication, if you both ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I don't want sex, without her thinking there's another girl?
Q. Ok as strange as this might sound i am not really interested in having sex, don't get me wrong i enjoy it very much and my girlfriend has a very high sex drive so we constantly have sex. the problem however is that no matter how safe we are i wo...
A. 30 December 2007: Do not tell her, but sort your issue out. your paranoia will get her angry. ask her what she would do if she was to find herself pregnant. most likely abortion if it is not serious. if you ask her to stop sex she will feel like she isnt physically ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her I think she is cute? Do I make the first move.. or let things go slowly?
Q. I have met this girl a few times, we get along OK, laugh and there is attraction there. We haven't slept together but have kissed and I have been to her house. She is concerned about her appearance, it seems to be holding her back a bit, (she is a ...
A. 30 December 2007: this girl seems to be scared off commitment and being treated badly, explain to her you like the way she looks and you find her attractive. go out for meals and walks and she will slowly become less shy around you as you will gain a friendship. She ... (read in full...)
Upon meeting up with him--I got shy and awkward. I think it put him off! How do I deal with this?
Q. Well, this old classmate and i who never talked back in school recently started talking online. we got quite close, it was quite apparent we liked each other's company, although until now, i was convinced both of us just considered each other just ...
A. 30 December 2007: umm. this is a hard situation, next time you meet you should bring both your friends
then the situation will be less awkward as others are talking
explain to him you are the same person and you will be after a short while of meeting, if he doesnt w... (read in full...)
I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom
Q. i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...
A. 30 December 2007: write a letter, then place it downstairs for her to read.
explain to her you have decided to keep the baby no matter how much you have thought about it. you need to have a scan, therefore tell her as soon as possible, the longer you leave it the ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and we're going on our first date. I need help with dating tips...advice?
Q. okay, well im a 15 atm was asked out by this guy, also 15, a couple of days ago, and sayed yes as iv liked him for ages. so now i guess we go out, the problem is i never really had a proper boyfried before, and im not sure how to react around h...
A. 30 December 2007: heyy its fine i am also 15 Let him do the first move about the holding hands situation. when i first met my currant boyfriend we didnt hold hands on the first date also in town (lol) but we did kiss when saying goodbye.this may be in a hug. It ... (read in full...)
I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.
Q. I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...
A. 30 December 2007: first you need to work on your self esteem
if you feel beautifull it will show and people will be warmed by your warm personality and friendlyness. why not start gaining a friendship with this boy?
If you feel fat why not start a diet or exercise... (read in full...)
I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. ...
A. 30 December 2007: Firstly, whilst going out did you both say it would last forever? Your ex seems to believe you are 'the one' you need to explain that he will again feel the same with another women, even if he may not think it at this moment.Also inform him you will ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to achieve an orgasm?
Q. I have lots of sex with my boyfriend, and I really do enjoy it. The only problem is that although I get really close to having an orgasm I seem to be on the edge for a while (especially during oral) and then stop having any feeling at all without ...
A. 30 December 2007: just relax and do not think of achieving one, and enjoy the sexual experiance... (read in full...)
Is this weird or is it just me?
Q. Have been in an "emotional" relationship with a younger man for almost a year now (younger by 5 years. I am a married woman, he has had a girlfriend. We have been working up to finally leading to something sexual. So here's the confusing part...he ...
A. 30 December 2007: The most likely answer to his unusual behaviour is that he wants both of you-without the guilt. It seems you do not feel the same guilt ,and your relationship with your husband doesnt show much love. You must decide if there is any point in your ... (read in full...)
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