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He's abusive and then buys me presents. Mixed signals? What should I do?

Q.   Hi all! Back here again to seek your kind and generous advice. I have been married for 3 years and have a two year old kid. During the past three years I've had a lot of ups and downs with my husband because we have totally different personal...

A.   19 July 2016: He would never agree to counselling nor divorce. I suggested divorce/separation once and he went berserk. He taunts me about that topic till today, saying that only a shameless and disrespectful woman like me would speak of a separation. I have left ... (read in full...)

He's abusive and then buys me presents. Mixed signals? What should I do?

Q.   Hi all! Back here again to seek your kind and generous advice. I have been married for 3 years and have a two year old kid. During the past three years I've had a lot of ups and downs with my husband because we have totally different personal...

A.   15 July 2016: Thank you for your kind advice. I agree with you and you make total sense. He is basically trying to manipulate me by thinking he can abuse me and then forget everything by pampering me with gifts. But in all honestly, it doesn't make me a single ... (read in full...)

Can anyone understand why I am so distressed about my husband masturbating to porn when I'm at work or when I'm asleep beside him?

Q.   Hi A couple of months ago I discovered that my husband masturbates to porn while I am asleep or while I am not at home or working late. Our sex life is average, we have it at least 1-2 times per week, but I am always the one initiating i...

A.   9 June 2016: Thanks for all your feedback. I thought I was abnormal to feel this way but I guess what I am feeling is totally normal. Just to add on to this, he is not just a lazy lover but lazy in most things. He prefers just sitting on the couch doing nothing, ... (read in full...)

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