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I love music with the passion...singing makes me happy, I like writing...I love cooking...& I love having a great time when the opportunity presents itself. Oh & I'm single too. What makes me tick are people that are so quick to judge,assume, & think they are better than otherswww: www.myspace.Com/SalemsWhispers |
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Why does he no longer want to talk to me?
Q. Ok well here is another update For those of you that have no idea what is going on here is the link so you can read what's going on http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-develope...
A. 15 November 2007: here's another update..I finally realized that I had a crush on my EX friend...I have not talked to him on the phone for about a month Now...I have come to realize that he is a piece of crap & that he is not really my friend....I do not need to be ... (read in full...)
How do you get over falling in love with a friend?
Q. Well, this story goes on for a long time, but to cut it short, me and one of my best mates have a history, but no matter what i do i can't get over her, and i really need to because its badly getting me down. I cant just cut her out of my life ...
A. 7 October 2007: I wish i could tell you, but unfortunately I am in the same boat as you...the only difference is that nothing has ever happened between the 2 of us....only friendship...he has a girlfriend but she is in a different country for a whole year.....he ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my feelings towards my friend?
Q. I've fallen for my best friend but she has a boy friend. She is currently in a long distance relationship with him but she tells me about her feelings more than she does with him. I love her very much, much to the point where I care about her more...
A. 7 October 2007: Well to tell you the truth I am in the same situation as you.....I currently have feeling for my guy friend.....He has a girlfriend....but she has gone away to school for a whole year in London......I care for him a lot he is in California & I am in ... (read in full...)
I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop
Q. Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...
A. 29 September 2007: I can understand how you feel, but I suggest keeping away from them for a while & seeking professional help.For it looks like you might need it. In the future you might never know yet run into your future love & how will she feel when she learns the ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?
Q. Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...
A. 29 September 2007: I'm sorry but I can not keep shut & I have to say what I feel without insulting anyone...but what you & your lover done is so hurtful....I mean she has a family doesn't she? You have a family right? Do you have children? Why do adults commit such ... (read in full...)
I like boys... But when it actually comes to being with them, I become this shy person, and dump them! What's going on?
Q. HIyyas im ur average kinda gal im happy go lucky lifestyle come what may never unhappy. But just one prob whenever i talk to my friends i always say "ooo i would snog him" but when i comes to it i dont understand i mean when i first snogged my bf i ...
A. 29 September 2007: I think there is something wrong with your subconscious mental state...It seems like you are suffering from some sort of past trauma that will not let you move on....If I were you I would make a list & write down all the things you like about boys ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?
Q. I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes ...
A. 29 September 2007: I don't think you should pursue it for many reasons that could probably mess up the beginning of your music career...If he comes onto you & you want to let it happen then by all means go for it, but if he doesn'.... then don't think to much of it & ... (read in full...)
A colleague fancies me, but he knows I love my partner with all my heart, so as a result, he wants to quit his job! What should I do?
Q. i am 24 and in a happy relationship with my partner to with im engaged to i work at asda and i have friend called mike we are good mate and have been there for each other at our time of need but resantly i have resived text messages frome him sayin ...
A. 29 September 2007: In my opinion you should let him leave....it is obvious that he cares to much for you to want to ruin your relationship with your future husband. SO he is being a real man & stepping aside just to make sure your happy. Quit being a worry wart & ... (read in full...)
I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...
Q. I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ag...
A. 26 September 2007: 150 miles isn't very far & even if he hasn't been with his ex...his behavior is not correct. In order for one to make a relationship last they have to meet each other half way...Is he meeting you half way? Also to be in love & to be in a ... (read in full...)
Do you think he wants to get back with me? I ended the relation for he was abusive.
Q. I broke up with my bf just over a month ago, he was verbally/emotionally abusive. We were going out for 7 months. Anyway up until yesterday we hadnt spoken to each other since the break up. I dindt try to contact him at all and he made a few lame ...
A. 26 September 2007: don't ever get back with an abusive guy no matter what unless he proves that he has changed by getting professional help...that is the only way... (read in full...)
He might just want casual sex, and if I tell him I might lose him as a friend, so what shall I do?
Q. my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still ...
A. 26 September 2007: He isn't a real friend to begin with if all he wants is casual sex...if he cares for you at all he will understand & not expect sex from you anymore, but you have to make things clear to him....you need to know where the sex is leading to... (read in full...)
Large breasts, should I get a reduction?
Q. hi, im a 27 year old from canada. im just like every other girl except that i have extremely large breasts. im a 48 eee and im not fat im only 140 pounds, and every time i go out i get stared to death by guys. at first i like it but after a while it ...
A. 26 September 2007: well I am a 52 D My breast don't look very big..anyhow I suggest a reduction...if you go for the reduction I suggest that you go for the lollipop twist it is an amazing procedure what they do is get the access skin & twist it & tuck it in underneath ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and have never had a bf - what am I doing wrong?!
Q. Im 18 and I have never had a boyfriend before. I have no idea what im doing wrong. I go to college, I am physically attractive (Guys look at me all the time), and I definately have a nice personality (I make friends easily and keep them. S...
A. 26 September 2007: girl you think you have problems I am 23 & have never had a boyfriend either...my best friend is 24 & has never has a boyfriend..we are both virgins...except for the whole sexual abuse thing that happened to me as a child, but anyhow that is beside ... (read in full...)
She's 21 now, but when she was 15 she had sex with her teacher! What should I do?
Q. I'm stuck for what to do. I've been with my girlfriend a few years now, and a few months ago we told each other's deepest secret (Here I was thinking it would be an interesting game to play, but really didn't expect anything like she told me). ...
A. 26 September 2007: In my opinion I suggest you have a serious talk with her about the whole thing...he took her virginity away...How do we know that he is not going to try this with another of his students?..tell her that it is not her fault & that she was a young ... (read in full...)
His gf will be away for 1 year. He said he'd flirt if we weren't friends, how do I find out if there is a chance for us without jeopardising the friendship?
Q. Ok I Had this one friend in 6th grade and I had a crush on him. after 6th grade he moves away and I haven't heard about him since. Years pass and I join Myspace I enter his name and find him...it has been 11 years since 6th grade and we ...
A. 26 September 2007: i don't believe he wants his way with me & also wait a year for his girlfriend....he is not that kind of guy...He's sweet, honest straight forward no kind of B*ll Sh*t kind of guy. He has never disrespected me in any sort of manner...Except when he ... (read in full...)
His gf will be away for 1 year. He said he'd flirt if we weren't friends, how do I find out if there is a chance for us without jeopardising the friendship?
Q. Ok I Had this one friend in 6th grade and I had a crush on him. after 6th grade he moves away and I haven't heard about him since. Years pass and I join Myspace I enter his name and find him...it has been 11 years since 6th grade and we ...
A. 26 September 2007: well he is not a player...He is a very serious person. He would not hurt her....but as for me. I really care about him & I feel that I love him, No I have not told him & no I am not going to tell him, cause I feel it's not right & I do not want to ... (read in full...)
Do I carry on having sex with this guy or not???
Q. i have a friend with benefits. we have been sleeping together for a year now. 6 months into it i told him that i was starting to develope romantic feelings for him and he suggested that we end the sex before anyone gets hurt. i agreed but the next ...
A. 25 September 2007: In my opinion sometimes a person does not realize what they have until they lose them..
I have a friend that had a friends with benefits kind of relationship...after a while she fell for the guy & he said that he couldn't be in a relationship... (read in full...)
I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...
Q. I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ag...
A. 25 September 2007: Have you ever seen the Movie Premonition with Sandra Bullock? If not i suggest you watch it.....There is a great lesson to be learned from that movie...It makes me cry & just listening to your story kind of reminds me of that movie to some sort of ... (read in full...)
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