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... Send *oshii a private message | | | *oshii's profile:I try to give advice based not only on what's being asked but what i see in the question.
There are a few things ill never do, (Tell someone to leave a partner there in love with being an example of these) This is down to experience and i know what its like for someone to tell you to get out there and find someone better when all you want is an idea of what you can do to help the situation.
I expect that you already know you can do better but have chosen to try and make things work.
a little about me then.
Im 24 from liverpool uk, im training to be a psychologist this September after experiencing probably the most challenging thing in my life. I went manic during '09 and as a result wasn't allowed to look after my (then) 1 year old daughter till i got help. it hindered me for half a year, the guilt i felt that i wasn't looking after my daughter (which i had done since her birth on my own) was heart wrenching. And i was diagnosed with bipolar June or July last year. I have spent the time since trying to gain what little control i have left over my moods and thus came to the realization that i wanted to help people.
I believe Experience is more vital than age when it comes to advising people. I believe i have had a pretty eventful 24 years which in my eyes "qualifies" me to help people.
I will help anyone i can. And will answer every inbox i receive.
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Can I tell from her poonani if she's sleeping with other men??
Q. I am 25 years ols and very healthy.I am dating a female who is 35 years old and mother of two.I have sex with her twice a month.She is seperated fom her husband.Our sexual relationship is going fine.I am planning to settle with her.I sometimes feel ...
A. 22 July 2011: Oh as an after note to anyone who may have found this question through a google search etc. Yes semen can be found with in her panty's if shes cheating on you but There is something you should make note of here, During a woman's period cycle her ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: i post not out of anger, nore am i following some rightous path that im trying to force upon you.
Look at the facts, you love your wife.
Your hurting by her past too.
Your torn by this whole thing as much as she is, im sorry if my directne... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 19 July 2010: Which is exactly what your problem is, this isnt about the fact you found this out after 26 years. Its about your inability to deal with your wifes past. Dont patronise me saying i dont understand what your going through because i do. What i was... (read in full...)
We fight ALL the time and it gets really out of hand. How much is too much?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. For the first 6 months, it was great, hardly ever fought, we had so much fun together, we went out places, he bought me things and vice versa. We just loved doing things for eachother. But for the pa...
A. 18 July 2010: im sorry but that is a violent relationship. You have issues you both need working through.
you need to spend less time together, and do more things on your own with seperate friends.
And even though the Violence might not be "that" bad to yo... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend won't let him go!
Q. i am looking for some advice. my fiancee has this ex-girlfriend who won't let him go. i have found notes that she has written him and they make me feel uncomfortable. i have talked to him about this and he swears up and down that he doesn't ...
A. 18 July 2010: No and why should you, He should of nipped this in the bud long before it got to this stage, You might need to give him a push to do it, and i think your right to not believe hes note encouraging her in her endless behaviour. He should be showing ... (read in full...)
Can I be sued?
Q. I am dating a married woman. Can her husband sue me? ...
A. 18 July 2010: No, i dont think you need to worry about being sued here.
I mean what type of person gets involved with a woman whos already married to someone else.
heres something for you to think about.
1, she wont leave him for you, shed left him already... (read in full...)
Help! Is there a chance for us to be together again? Does she still have any feelings for me?
Q. I met this girl online and we went out and we got very close, we would text all day every day, talk for hours every night, and I made her my gf. We did tell each other "I love you." We are no longer together because she started talking to another ...
A. 18 July 2010: This is a difficult one, Shes obviously Not in a phase, But that doesnt mean she doesnt like you.
Shes with the other Girl now, So the chances of you getting back together depend on your ex. Noone can guess this.
You need to let the girl do ... (read in full...)
My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.
Q. I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...
A. 18 July 2010: ok this is a short one,
1 this happened before she knew you
Making it none of your business. the fact she told you parts of it is good enough.
2-
That was probably something she wanted to forget, she did it for two months, suggesting i... (read in full...)
We fight ALL the time and it gets really out of hand. How much is too much?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. For the first 6 months, it was great, hardly ever fought, we had so much fun together, we went out places, he bought me things and vice versa. We just loved doing things for eachother. But for the pa...
A. 18 July 2010: Ima point something out here, One Your age, Your full of emotion now anyway, Hormones still ect.
2. You have an anger issue. you made that apparent , but lets be honest who doesnt.
You relationships passed whats known as the honeymoon pe... (read in full...)
Can I tell from her poonani if she's sleeping with other men??
Q. I am 25 years ols and very healthy.I am dating a female who is 35 years old and mother of two.I have sex with her twice a month.She is seperated fom her husband.Our sexual relationship is going fine.I am planning to settle with her.I sometimes feel ...
A. 18 July 2010: It seems to me that theres a issue with your own self confidence. Thats just a personal opinion though.
From a rational angle though, lets look at what you put in your post.
First you mention the age difference, How many times you have s... (read in full...)
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