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Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   9 March 2008: It's been almost two months since I posted here. In that time I have tried to get my wife to learn how to keep track of her money, make deposits and write checks. I have since given up trying to teach/guide her with this. As it led to arguments... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   14 January 2008: After writing my post this morning, we talked, it hurt her allot. But she seems to be understanding why I have been pushing for her to learn how to use the checking account, depositing money, writing checks to pay utilities. Keeping track ... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   13 January 2008: dearkelja you have been very helpful and I know you are trying as best you can to help. Thank you very very much. OK, some background and more.... I met my wife shortly after she separated from her second husband. I was very lonely and w... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   12 January 2008: Hello everyone, Wanted to add another question comment to this. During the last few weeks i have been teeling me wife I was going to leave but didn't have a place to go to, or the money yet. Two nights ago, I started out saying something dif... (read in full...)

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

Q.   I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

A.   30 December 2007: I have rad this with wonder and amazement. Such self restraint and control. You have held to your requirements. Don't think of last night as a failure. You both have/had physical needs, and maybe after last night. Both of you can relax a bit an... (read in full...)

How could it happen that the next day after asking me for reconciliation, they declared their love for each other and became a couple?

Q.   I decided to end my relationship with my alcholic boyfriend 3 months ago - we were together over 5 years, living and working together 24/7. He spent a week in hospital early in 2007 where he underwent detox and suffered the most dreadful ...

A.   29 December 2007: I am so sorry you are going through this. But as you said he is a " alcholic ". My dad is one also, and I believe it is part of what caused my mom to become mentally ill. he did many things that still don't make any since. They did split, but it w... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   29 December 2007: First for Everyone who responded, THANK YOU very much. The last two weeks have been the worse in my life, my heart has been so lonely, and I have felt so empty. I have read, and searched for imformation concerning Legal Separation and D... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   25 December 2007: I was going to let the comments from "leonard j, Douglas " pass without a comment, as the others were helpful. And I don't want those trying to help here, to feel I am not very thankful. I am, and "dearkelja " leading the pack. :) But I have a f... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

Q.   I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

A.   24 December 2007: Hello, thank you for replying and offering your support. Our current income isn't able to support separate households. But if i just move in as a room mate with someone(s) we could make it. I am looking for either a new higher income job, or ... (read in full...)

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