I make all the money, take care of the children, and clean the house. Should I go for my office mate whom I love?
Q. I am married for 11 years now, and my husband doesn't work, he works on his own art which is good but makes little or no money. He is dependent on me for 10 years now. He has many issues like he cannot talk to people who are in a respecta...
A. 5 October 2012: Writing this as a feedback as what happened to me after a year. It was nice receiving advise fom you all. Thank you all.
I did try to stay on with my relationship after this message for a year, asked my husband (now ex) to help me at home and be c... (read in full...)
Can a serial cheater stop?
Q. I am seeking advice from men who have cheated repeatedly or other wives who have been married to serial cheaters. I have been married for 11 years and I have been able to prove and also receive confessions from my husband that he has cheated 5 ...
A. 1 June 2011: There is no point in living in a marrage like this just for kids. You will be always unhappy and that will affect the kids anyway. It will end up like your kids might know how many more times he cheated and you wouldn't know in the future.
Bette... (read in full...)
My wife admitted to cheating, but she can't bring herself to end it with them!
Q. My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, ...
A. 1 June 2011: To be honest this not even a marraige. Most wierd thing I have ever heard. I know people have cheated their partners etc, but not disrespected their husbands like this. ... (read in full...)
I never imagined I would end up here
Q. I have been married to my husband for 24 years, and we have two teenage daughters together. I thought I married my best friend, and for awhile we were very happy. I don't really understand how things went so wrong, but over the years, our marriage ...
A. 1 June 2011: First get a job for yourself, and make sure you both come to an agreement of what the kids will do. The kids can handle parents being in different houses as teenagers. ... (read in full...)
Kissed another....Should I tell my hubby???
Q. I've been married 2 years, together for 9. Last year I kissed another man on 3 separate occassions. I felt disgusted about what I did and put an immediate stop to it. I never told my husband. I was able to live with it up til now. We just bought a ...
A. 1 June 2011: You kissed him, as long as there wasn't any affair its okay. Try not to concenterate, and come out of this. ... (read in full...)
Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?
Q. Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having ...
A. 28 May 2011: First you should see if she can sort her marraige out. Has she done that, and if hasn't still worked, then she would leave herself. Its nice to give her time.
If she really loves you, you both will be together anyway.... (read in full...)
Can men and women be friends with the opposite sex?
Q. I am a married man. Most of my friends prior to meeting my wife were women. Because of issues relating to jealousy and competition (on the part of my wife and on the part of my female friends) all of those relationships were lost. I have not repl...
A. 28 May 2011: Being friends with a male co-worker is normal, meeting them is also normal, is she over doing it. Is she really confident in her work, or is she trying to win them as friends in order to cover her incapability in her work.
As a husband you shou... (read in full...)
If I am going to break up with my husband what things do I need to consider?
Q. If I am going to break up with my husband. What things do I need to consider? I think I have enough reasons to do it. Do I have to go to a councillor before I can see a divorce lawyer? I am not sure how this works. Why do I think I have enough r...
A. 28 May 2011: Do what my friend did to his ex-girl friend. Before he is back, pack all his stuff and keep it ready for him to pick hem up quickly and leave.
Lawyer. You need to see someone.... (read in full...)
My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce
Q. I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...
A. 28 May 2011: He has a friend for 17 years and you thought they might have any relationship. Hope you have friends too I mean male friends and what if your husband thinks you have a relationship with them.
This is a 17 year friendship, it wont stop all of a sud... (read in full...)
Everything has to be perfect for my wife to have sex!
Q. My wife is only open to having sex once between day 5 and 8 of her cycle. Everything has to be perfect. The house has to be empty. We have three teenagers that are in and out of our house constantly so that doesn’t happen very often. It can’t be ...
A. 13 May 2011: Your wife may be over working. She thinks of work at home all the time, thats why probably sex is another extra work for her. Sort your house out with cleaners, or share half her work, get her to relax probably go on a holiday etc. May be being a ... (read in full...)
My children or the woman I love?
Q. Hi. I am in love with another woman and I am married. But I no longer love my wife of 12 years. It has become a marriage of convenience. We have two young children who mean the world to me. If my wife and I separate, I would not see my chi...
A. 6 May 2011: Talk to you wife about what she thinks about the marriage. Its not fair to live in a marriage just for kids. If she is still in love with you, it would be tough. If not just separate and go for your new friend. ... (read in full...)
I feel very lost, please help me?
Q. I need some real help. I feel so lost. I went through a separation from my wife a while back. During which time I had an affair that was the biggest mistake of my life. I invested all my love into the wrong person. This person broke my heart into a ...
A. 1 May 2011: I dont know why you went back to your wife again. You like your ex, she left you or broke your heart. Its better talking to her and getting the situation sorted, or forget your ex as a bad dream and live with your wife.
Things are better for you,... (read in full...)
Wife is just using me, she no longer loves me and is in love with a female friend!
Q. Hi there about 18months ago my wife told me she had feelings for her female friend. I took this on the chin and we carried on about a year later she told me she loves this woman but no longer loves me or fancyss me. We no longer have sex she ...
A. 29 April 2011: Do yourself a favour, please let her go. if she thinks she wants to be with her female friend let her live with her. Its tough to understand but at the same time good for both of you. Kids might have some problems, eventually they will understand.... (read in full...)
My husband lost his job but never told me! He let me believe he was working when he was home sleeping!
Q. hey all, Ive been married for 4 yrs but been with him for 10 yrs. I have a 2yr old baby! My husband lost his job 2 months after we purchase a house but never told me. I used to go to work and so did he and so i thought! He used to drop my son at h...
A. 8 April 2011: Some men take it too personally when they lose their jobs. They are not confident of the job they do and are scared to take any other job. These people end in a form of depression and sleep a lot, to forget it. He might need more encouragement fr... (read in full...)
How do I just walk away from my wife?
Q. I'm separate from my wife sunday after 21 years she is 10 years youger than me and it happen when I lost my business and then the prob started we alwayys fighting over money and a monster and law I love her still and she is my whole world how do I ...
A. 8 April 2011: Money comes and goes. There are always ups and downs with regards to money in every house.You need more mental support to earn it back and in the right way tha you wont lose. If you talk to your wife and both of you take a good descision it would be ... (read in full...)
I make all the money, take care of the children, and clean the house. Should I go for my office mate whom I love?
Q. I am married for 11 years now, and my husband doesn't work, he works on his own art which is good but makes little or no money. He is dependent on me for 10 years now. He has many issues like he cannot talk to people who are in a respecta...
A. 28 March 2011: I am the one who posted this question as per the answer to LoveGirl, I have supported my husband fully and totally for 11 years. He is well educated and knows more than me. I have no financial problems as my salary is enough to support the whole ... (read in full...)
I make all the money, take care of the children, and clean the house. Should I go for my office mate whom I love?
Q. I am married for 11 years now, and my husband doesn't work, he works on his own art which is good but makes little or no money. He is dependent on me for 10 years now. He has many issues like he cannot talk to people who are in a respecta...
A. 27 March 2011: I cant see the answerfromchick pea2011 even though I got an alert.Yes it is helpful, I am trying to move out of my marriage.... (read in full...)
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