My GF has bad news that cannot be discussed over the phone, I'm left wondering what it could be until I can see her again in a few days...
Q. Hi everyone, I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We are both 20 years old. Recently, I had to come back to my hometown for 3 months and I have been away from her. We have been writing to each other, chat...
A. 17 June 2014: Well, update after several years, but after I arrived to the airport with my mom, she took me to my apartment first while my mom got a rental car and told me she had cheated on me (she slept with a co worker of hers 3 days before I arrived).
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She loves me but doesn't want to get back together because of the text I sent her!
Q. Ok so towards the beginning of summer, I came out of a really bad relationship for 7 months and it hurt because she dumped me for another guy... anyway, I went to my friends for comfort and this one girl who I had a crush on me before the previous...
A. 16 November 2009: Girls are excrutiatingly difficult. If she continues to be wishy washy like this just move on man. "Done with Boys"? Come on. You deserve better than that. All you did was send one lousy text. You didn't insult her, you didn't cheat on her, yo... (read in full...)
She loves me but doesn't want to get back together because of the text I sent her!
Q. Ok so towards the beginning of summer, I came out of a really bad relationship for 7 months and it hurt because she dumped me for another guy... anyway, I went to my friends for comfort and this one girl who I had a crush on me before the previous...
A. 15 November 2009: If you are already on a talking basis that generally is a good sign. She still wants you in her life, but is unsure if she wants to start a relationship with you again. I guess the important thing here is what you talk about. If you continue ... (read in full...)
She loves me but doesn't want to get back together because of the text I sent her!
Q. Ok so towards the beginning of summer, I came out of a really bad relationship for 7 months and it hurt because she dumped me for another guy... anyway, I went to my friends for comfort and this one girl who I had a crush on me before the previous...
A. 15 November 2009: Ho boy. You got yourself into a wee bit of a mess man. I honestly would say that your best way to defend yourself is simply explain to her that you felt exasperated and texted that out of frustration. Please do not do that over another t... (read in full...)
Did she shoot me down or should I ask again?
Q. Hello, There is this girl I have been talking to in and out of class for the past few weeks (I'd say about a month and a half), and tonight I decided that I would finally call her and ask her out (I had already gotten her number about 2 weeks ag...
A. 14 November 2009: Hello,
Thanks for the help! I did talk to her the following day and just pretended like I wasn't planning on asking her out.
I did figure out that she indeed had a friend coming over this weekend, so I am planning on delaying asking again unt... (read in full...)
Never been in a relationship, unlucky streak, or is it me?
Q. Hi ppl this is my first time but i have a concern thats weighed heavy on my mind for ages now. I'm 21 and thus far, never had a long term relationship or anything remotely close! the past few guys i met all did exactly the same thing, showed loads ...
A. 10 November 2009: Unlucky streak.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is doubt yourself. Don't be your own enemy.
So what if it still hasn't worked out for you? I am 22 and didn't have a real relationship until I was 19. These things take different amount... (read in full...)
I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?
Q. hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont ...
A. 14 October 2009: You need to figure out if you still like him or not. If you still have STRONG feelings for him, sex can get better, just be more specific with what you want. If when you are not with him, you find yourself looking at other guys, perhaps y... (read in full...)
I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out?
Q. I am horrible at these kinds of things...never really had any relationships in HS, had 2 in college so yeah...Im pretty much new to all this. I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out??? He... -Pokes me (...
A. 14 October 2009: This "Halloween" request is absolutely and positively a date. He is just disguising it a bit, and avoiding saying the word "ask out" or "date" because he knows it usually scares off girls. I think you already have your date, and I would reco... (read in full...)
Should I tell her it's over?
Q. My girlfriend and her roommate (male, also my childhood friend) are getting too close. He is getting sexual and crossing the line and being disrespectful. We both met my girlfriend about 4 months ago and I started dating her, but then he moved in ...
A. 13 October 2009: You need to tell her its over.
She is clearly not a good girlfriend if she takes these sexual advances so lightly, and even takes part in initiating them.
Why continue being in a relationship with some girl you can't fully trust who isn't ... (read in full...)
Meeting girls in the gym- a good or bad idea?
Q. I don't have a huge social scene these days,I'm getting too old for clubs etc, really (I'm 35 but an told I look alot younger) and am not too keen on them if I'm being honest anyway. The only social thing I do regularly is that I go to the gym al...
A. 13 October 2009: Like Gretzky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
Just go for it! Take into consideration what Sweet thing said however, don't waste your time with some girl who clearly does not want to engage in a friendly conversation. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with his best friend, so what should I do?
Q. hello, i am having a little bit of trouble.. i am going out with someone, but there is someone else i love, who is my boyfriend's best friend. i dont know what to do! i meen, i sort of love the person im going out with now, but i like the other g...
A. 13 October 2009: You shouldn't be dating somebody you "sort of" love. That's painful for both you and him.
So if you really like the best friend, my suggestion is to break it off with the guy and see what happens. If the friend really likes you, he may make a m... (read in full...)
I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out?
Q. I am horrible at these kinds of things...never really had any relationships in HS, had 2 in college so yeah...Im pretty much new to all this. I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out??? He... -Pokes me (...
A. 13 October 2009: In light of recent events, I am pretty damn sure that he in fact likes you in that way. I am puzzled as to why he has not made his move yet.
If another week goes by and he continues to put it off, I would suggest trying to sneak a date in there... (read in full...)
I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out?
Q. I am horrible at these kinds of things...never really had any relationships in HS, had 2 in college so yeah...Im pretty much new to all this. I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out??? He... -Pokes me (...
A. 12 October 2009: Yes, he likes you.
But I don't know if he likes you in that way.
Guys usually take very little time to determine whether or not they would like to date a girl, and if he continues to be friendly to you but does not make a move, he is stil... (read in full...)
How do I dump him?
Q. I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...
A. 11 October 2009: He is a complete toolbag. Please, please dump him. You can do so much better!
As to how, just straight up call him, ask him if you can meet up with him somewhere, see him, tell him how you feel, and say goodbye.
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He is giving me a lot of mixed signals and confusing me. How do I unravel my feelings?
Q. Okay so I am in highschool and there's his guy I really took a liking to..So I kept admiring him from a distance. There were a few times we talked but it wasnt really a conversation. So after a while he started giving me signals that he does like me ...
A. 6 September 2009: Go for the gold.
If you really really like this guy, then just try to chat him up. If he continues to just "look at you" and talk to other women, then just move on to the other guy because this guy is not interested.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do I get back the love of my life?
Q. Dear Cupid (I guess it's an appropriate why to start), I have been going through quite a bit of distress and frustration the last 2 months or so. I never thought I would turn to a service like this for advice or answers but I've come to the poin...
A. 6 September 2009: I just went through an extremely similar situation to this. You are not in love with her, you are in love with the idea of being in love. Take a step back and look at all the things she has done to you. Looking at it rationally, you would see th... (read in full...)
How can I stop obsessing over my girlfriend?
Q. I know the title is a little bit misleading, but I find myself obsessing a little bit too much over my girlfriend. I am a 21 year old male and she is a little bit younger than I am. I care a lot for my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 6 ...
A. 6 September 2009: I agree with what has been said. She likes you man, don't fret over the tiny little details. Girls in general aren't extremely punctual about things like that. If she trusted you enough to tell you about her past relationships, I think you have ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should make a move?
Q. Theres this girl i Like in my class, and i'm ok friends with her. We talk quite a bit in class, but not really out of school. I really like her, and I want to ask her to be my gf, but i don't know when to, and I don't know if I should wait a bit. If ...
A. 27 April 2009: Dude, just try it. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. The barmitzvah coming up seems like a perfect opportunity to really talk to her and set up a future date. Don't ask her to be your girlfriend without at least going on a coupl... (read in full...)
Why do guys ignore girls they're attracted to?
Q. do guys ignore the girls your attracted to even when she shows you interest . she even attemtps to be with you.. do you behave like this BUT WHY ?...
A. 23 April 2009: I think that is too much of a generalization. Are you sure this guy is attracted to you? If I am attracted to someone and she shows me interest, I do not ignore her, that is for sure. ... (read in full...)
My GF has bad news that cannot be discussed over the phone, I'm left wondering what it could be until I can see her again in a few days...
Q. Hi everyone, I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We are both 20 years old. Recently, I had to come back to my hometown for 3 months and I have been away from her. We have been writing to each other, chat...
A. 19 August 2008: Thank you all for your responses, I appreciate them very much.
Today I called her again and she seemed fine. But after just a few moments of talking to me she started to once again cry. I told her that we would see each other soon so she could be... (read in full...)
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