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Hi people I'm Roadman Digital aka Tsunami Sound,

A man of many places and faces..

I'll always tell you the simple way no hype no drama..

Some won't agree but I'll only talk about what I know, from what I've

been through not from what I think..

MSN wssa@hotmail.co.uk ( Feel free to add me )

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My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

Q.   I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...

A.   2 January 2009: Thats what its all about brother the key to everything in this life is understandings...lack of understanding tents to = outrage Keep smiling and laughing out loud!! :D... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

Q.   Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...

A.   1 January 2009: If she still loves him she'll need to still talk to him or connect to him to cure her own sickness in time it will die if you stay close in my view..I've had this problem myself in the past but it don't mean she has no feeling or love for you,the ... (read in full...)

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

Q.   This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...

A.   31 December 2008: You know something about love,most of it all in your head,what will be will be in the end of it and feelings will die and new ones will grow,if you love someone then if they are there or not then all you can do is love them,but you still have to get ... (read in full...)

She tell me I'm not in her life plan but I love her!

Q.   what do i do when the person i love tells me i am not in her life plan. we have not been together for over a year, however, we remain in contact and i saw her very recently. i asked if she still loved me she said in a different way and not in love ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well pal you can't really go by what a woman says.. If you love her then just always be there for her until one day you wake up and say I've had enough of this or new love walks into your life where you number 1,,love is one crazy feeling that can... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my former science teacher...please help!!

Q.   Ok so about 3 years ago I moved from my hometown. It was the start of my eighth grade year. New friends, new achievements, and a new life. I had just lost my grandfather and my life was shattering right beforemy eyes. When I moved I was scared that ...

A.   31 December 2008: I'm sure we all go through this at some stage,but the trick in these stories is look but don't even think to touch,keep your feelings to yourself,time will pass and you grow out of them,and get on with life!... (read in full...)

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

Q.   Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get ...

A.   31 December 2008: You got married to young Mrs..You needed to live a little before getting married,but hey its only a bit of paper..Follow your heart if you feel to have fun then do so! If your husband is making you feel depressed then you'll need space from him,... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

Q.   Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well she being very honest with you,and as she has deep love for another guy who not around which is taking her time to get over,most people won't tell you whats going on in their mind,shes trying to move on with you but finding it hard to let go of ... (read in full...)

How can I make it up to her?

Q.   My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask ...

A.   31 December 2008: ouch!!! I don't think she'l ever let you off the hook with that one,but if your a smoothie and got some cash,I'l sign in with a nice big gift,or some tickets to Chris Brown @ the o2 next month... All you can do is beg forgiveness,tell her how much... (read in full...)

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

Q.   This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...

A.   31 December 2008: If the man wants to hit the road to get some and your not giving any then if you love him all you can do is be there when he gets back..or drink more wine!... (read in full...)

My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

Q.   I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...

A.   31 December 2008: Biggest mistake to have told her mate... Women always use old fuel to start a new fire. Your just going to have to ride it out & agree to everything she has to say,don't dispute nothing!... (read in full...)

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

Q.   My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

A.   31 December 2008: Tell the both of them you love them,and which ever one leaves then you'll be left with one!... (read in full...)

My husband has beaten me up.

Q.   Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. ...

A.   31 December 2008: Who does the baby belong to him or the brother? Not being funny but sounds to me your lucky to have just got a punch in the face for what you put this guy through,but the end of the day its all about how you both feel for each other,if you both... (read in full...)

Sleeping with the boss

Q.   hi everyone, i want your opinion in this matter. i work in a small firm and just lately i got into an affair with my boss, she's a really nice girl. i started to hear multi reviews about this realtionship, some say that i might lose my jop if any...

A.   31 December 2008: I'd work the cash and the middle! Could go up, could go down! Who knowns but if you're having fun enjoy it!... (read in full...)

Are these red flags in our relationship? Advice please?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 26 y.o male in a relationship with a 27y.o girl, who I've known since I was 17. We went out for 3 years then met up again 11 months ago (the split was due to me traveling abroad). I was delighted when we ran into each other again and foun...

A.   31 December 2008: Well she could be just on the rebound and in need of a bit of company & ran into you while lonely,younger women tent to jump from one ship to the next quite fast and don't understand what they really want or let old feelings die,it helps to know who ... (read in full...)

Broke up with ex because of my lack of experience, now he wants me back

Q.   ok me and my ex broke up I dumped him cause I'm scared to move forward I'm not talking about sex or anything like that but like making out and actually acting like were in a relationship. I have never made out with a guy and I suck with ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well this is a simple one, if you want him and he wants you.. Then it's all good! :) go for it, forget pointless detail!... (read in full...)

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

Q.   I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well as your only dating I'd spend time with both,as your only in your teens its likely not to last for ever and more hot dates will come your way..Just let them both know your hooking them both up,who don't like it will take a walk and then you'll ... (read in full...)

I'm still dreaming with my ex but I am now married! I don't know what to do!

Q.   My problem... I keep dreaming of my ex-boyfriend. I've been married for 3 years and have a child with my husband. I love my husband very much and I always have. I dated my husband before I dated the ex that I am dreaming of. My ex and I dated ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well the other simple thing to do,is do nothing..if you have no plans to leave your hubby for what ever reason your with him,then forget the other guy completey,and just ride out the love for the other with in you.. As I don't think your hubby wi... (read in full...)

I'm afraid ill lose him

Q.   Ok well my boyfriend has sooo many friends that are girls and he hands out with them more than me and he's always sayin jokes like sayin he madeout with another girl. He talks to other girls more than me and he liked 4 other girls awhile back. He ...

A.   31 December 2008: At your age its likey the love won't last any how..when your in your teens its wise not to get to hooked up in the love business,they come and go,later on down the line it gets a bit more deeper..... (read in full...)

How long should I leave it before telling my ex I have someone new?

Q.   I would like to know peoples opinion, especially males on what is a good amount of time to make it known that you are dating someone new, if you broke up with someone and remain friends with them. I don't want to hurt this person, but I want to move ...

A.   31 December 2008: No time like now...there no point holding off facts or details anyone you feel should be aware off.... (read in full...)

I'm still dreaming with my ex but I am now married! I don't know what to do!

Q.   My problem... I keep dreaming of my ex-boyfriend. I've been married for 3 years and have a child with my husband. I love my husband very much and I always have. I dated my husband before I dated the ex that I am dreaming of. My ex and I dated ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well I believe you should chase your dreams,if your dreaming of your ex and your ex is your true love,then you should get back together.. There no point in being with someone you don't deeply love just for the sake of it,if your true happines... (read in full...)

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