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He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 3 January 2009: I put it to you like this..
If I listened to people who said get rid of things I wanted when they was running bad I wouldn't have the things today I loved.
Never give up on what you love.
If you see your actions are damaging then change... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 3 January 2009: If he keeps knocking at your door time and time again then there a big chance he loves you more than you know and he in fact can't let go,but if there been endless years over fussing and fighting he's feelings may be damaged towards you where he ... (read in full...)
How can I get my beautiful, older girl?
Q. i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...
A. 2 January 2009: Buy a nice card and write to her with a nice little gift,a nice bottle a perfume and a red rose works wonders..Show interest but don't push it or demand it,be bold but at the same time humble,let her know your willing to wait it out..:)
Let m... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 2 January 2009: Well the reason you may find your self hurting becasue you make too much fuss and its the fussing and fighting that leads to you losing what you what,and then when you lost what you want you find pain.
I never said anything about having sex and ... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm just reading into what you said,the key in your question that got me is that you said you keep breaking it off with him and he keeps coming back to you,which would say to me he has feelings towards you and is not happy with out you..
Like ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience
Q. This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...
A. 1 January 2009: Just let it go..there no point beating yourself up about the past.. what was done was done, look forward!... (read in full...)
Does having sex in a car mean the couple is desperate for sex?
Q. Is having oral sex/having sex/making out in a car seems that the couple is desperate for sex?? how many times per week (having sex) is healthy for a relationship?...
A. 1 January 2009: Most of the time it means they may be stuck for a building to have it in,or there just on the road and fancy and quicky..... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex wife..confused!
Q. iam so lost i think im still in love with my ex-wife we have been spending the past two months together note she is currently separated and filing for divorce from her new husband now we just got divorced back in june and she remarried a couple ...
A. 1 January 2009: Nothing wrong with you at all, you're not confused, your 100% right, you're still in love with her, if you were married and had kids it's likely you always will love her, you have kids together so now you have the change to be a happy family again ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of the ex?
Q. Well after a messy end to my 4 yr relationship, I started seeing a lovely guy I'd met through friends. He treated me great, we got on well, and things were looking good. The my ex came back on the scene causing mayhem. And the guy just couldn't ...
A. 1 January 2009: sometimes you never let go,but the feelings die down to a point where they no longer bother you as much..Some times this process takes years,but it will happen as new adventures come your way..... (read in full...)
He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?
Q. I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am g...
A. 1 January 2009: Some people like new cars some people hang on to old ones some people don't care as long as the cars drives..
My point is what your man interest is not importent,what he desires belongs to him,the key to any good love is understanding other pe... (read in full...)
Is Teen Pregnancy Cool These Days?
Q. I just thought I'd speak out about this because I'm 15 years old my friends range from 16 to 19 but a lot of my friends and people I know are 16 /17! And to be honest I'm shocked that girls now a days in this day and age were contraception is so ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well I had my 1st child when me and my mrs was 18 - 19..yea it was tough but its great!!
in my view best to have kids when your young,you grow with them and they make you grow up to,and years later when they are grown your still young enough t... (read in full...)
He's looking for a wife, and I havnt told him hes my dream guy yet :S
Q. What do I do What do I do What do I do?... I fell in love with him in 9th grade, he spoke to me in my freshmen year of college we've talked ever since (5 years now) we've shared love sexually and intellectually but we never dated. I always kept a c...
A. 1 January 2009: go 4 it!... (read in full...)
How can I make it better re sex?
Q. Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...
A. 1 January 2009: get on to youporn.com there loads of action there to learn from..... (read in full...)
Depressed with no improvements...
Q. Another year older and even more depressed, I have nothing to show for it, not even a freind, no job, no car, no life, no social life, never had boyfriend at this stage there is no point, never travelled, the country is in recession. Life is going ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well the internet is a great place to start to make friends and build a social life,online there always people to talk to and build friendships,once you start to build soild friendships in different areas then you can travel to see your friends and ... (read in full...)
How can I get my beautiful, older girl?
Q. i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...
A. 1 January 2009: depending on the build of your body and how much bigger you are than her may play apart in this stroy..as she 18 and your only 16 you'd have to be quite a bold boy to win this girl if she such a hottie..
If it was me I'd break the ice with som... (read in full...)
I can't cope with this hurt while my boyfriend is away! Should I send him this letter?
Q. I have written this letter to my boyfriend who has just gone travelling for 6 months to make me feel better. I am not sending it but want to get some thoughts and feelings off of my chest. I cant cope with feeling this way! Please e-mail me ...
A. 1 January 2009: Find new friends to spend time with and build bonds with..It helps to ease the pain in these cases..Your already miles apart so not alot will or can happen no matter how many words are sent backwards or forwards..If he not keeping in touch then just ... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well in this story its like this..if you love someone then no matter who or what should be able to tear it apart,we all get mad or feel rage when someone we love acts in away we don't like,but it sounds to me,you guy was just having a bit of company ... (read in full...)
Leave him alone for good?
Q. I recently had a fight on christmas day with my boyfriend after we've been together for a year and I slapped him, he got mad and left. I called him we argued and he said "you what we should just be friends for a while because I'm tired of fighting", ...
A. 1 January 2009: Time to cool off is a good one..space always helps people work out their own feelings.... (read in full...)
Letter from the heart
Q. I just wrote this letter to my boyfreind. i'd like to know if what i wrote will seems like it will help him understand how i feel or if it is just confusing.. here's what i wrote.. I don't know how to start this letter.....here...how a...
A. 1 January 2009: Best to make the letters shorter to much data can be a bit much to understand at once to get through to the person in question,keep it short and sweet and direct to the point,I find this helps.... (read in full...)
I can't figure out what women want!
Q. ok so I am a 19 year old guy who is very frustrated. I am pretty good looking with my life in order. I have been through 6 relationships in my life. And this is basically how they have all gone: the girl and I fall in love, we love each other very ...
A. 1 January 2009: Your a young guy,love gets a bit deeper as you get older,young women are also still just finding themself and just testing the waters so to speak...don't worry about it,when the right one comes along you'll both settle for a longer time...Its part ... (read in full...)
Do I fake it or tell him the truth?
Q. if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?...
A. 1 January 2009: If you love him then teach him where to touch and how to..sex in it self is an art so it takes time to master it,
youporn.com is a good place to get info on tricks of the tade get him to watch it and learn from it..books are also handy..b... (read in full...)
Do I have to attend ex husbands fuctions?
Q. Help me please. I would like to know what others think re as follows: I am divorced for 15 years. I am a successful Doctor. Do I have to talk to my ex husbands new wife. My adult children can not stand her. His sisters cannot stand her. His ...
A. 1 January 2009: Your a free person,you go where you want,when you want with who you want,if your not at ease in someone company then stay apart its that simple..
... (read in full...)
I just don't think I'm in love with him
Q. I've been married for 2.5 years now and I'm not in love with my husband anymore. In fact, I was never or am attracted to him and now it's really affecting our marriage. I did love him and married him because he made me feel so special and that i ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well for a start you sound like you need some space apart thats the 1st step,2nd you need to let him really know how you feel and that your sick and tired of the fighting,writing to him as you have done here is also a great start,,,in this case if ... (read in full...)
My sister is dating my Wife's Ex and its killing me
Q. WIFE's EX (EXCELLENT) LOVER NOW FUTURE BROTHER IN-in-LAW Sis and I are close; only 2 years apart. Last year, Sis started grad school and met this great guy, she told me. Sis beamed after each date with him, and enthusiastically said he was the ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well best to worry about your own love life and not your sisters,if she gets in any problem then just let her know you'll always be there for her.... (read in full...)
Always horny but then feel guilty
Q. hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks....
A. 1 January 2009: Many horny people can't get enough..Keep up the good work and enjoy the feelings,it gets better as you age and find some one to do it with who also knows how to play!... (read in full...)
How should I react if I run into my ex?
Q. Hello there! My ex had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship. He asked to still be friends but he only wanted a friends with benefits deal, which made me angry. So after that, whenever he called or texted me, I didnt reply.I have ...
A. 1 January 2009: tell him how you feel...there not much more you can really do,putting the blind folds on,not really the way to deal with any problem.... (read in full...)
Going to visit ex--good sign right?
Q. I have an update on my situation. If you remember my ex boyfriend dumped me, then got back in touch before he went travelling, we had sex and declared our feelings, then he went. I was all over the place. He said I could go visit him but I wasn't ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well your in with a chance if he wants to see you..and he mailing you..it could be a lot worse..So its sure looking up!... (read in full...)
How to get my husband to loosen up and enjoy sex?
Q. I will soon be getting married to a Ugandan man, and our relationship is wonderful. I sometimes worry that he will be very withheld during sex and will be very conservative. He was raised in Uganda, basically as one of those kids you'd hear about...
A. 31 December 2008: I'd get him to watch youporn.com and show him some tricks of the trade he just might like to try..If he don't know to much about sex then you have to show him the way!... (read in full...)
How to resolve this?
Q. hi, i just posted the other one, look, anyway, i just told her about it, god i wanna kill myslef, i don't deserve to live. she says she won't break up with me and that i gave her a chance when she hurt me and she said she won't tell her parents. god ...
A. 31 December 2008: 1st think 1st she not worth killing yourself over,so forget that...have a good cry let her know how sorry you are,and if you love her you'll always be there for her,have a good nights sleep and you'll feel better in the morning... (read in full...)
Is it love actually?
Q. First i would like to say i have been looking at this site and i only chose it because the answers people give are always polite, not like some other sites where people are rude anyway. MY question is, i went on a date with my boyfriend yester...
A. 31 December 2008: don't sound to bad,but the lips and other areas are better targets to kiss!... (read in full...)
How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?
Q. HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get...
A. 31 December 2008: If you hang around this site and have a good read you'll soon get over it!... (read in full...)
Why did he do this terrible things?
Q. Let me list what what my ex did to me 2 months after the break up (he convinced me to start talking to him again after a personal tragedy. For the next two months (4 months after the break up): Txted about how something reminded him of me Txted...
A. 31 December 2008: Sounds like he loves you..but also loves other women to!... (read in full...)
When I'm drunk I get violent
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we live together and we're very happy, but when i go out and get drunk i am violent towards him. I dont know why, im not at all like that when soba and there is nothing wrong with us. He has stuck by me and ...
A. 31 December 2008: well stop drinking!... (read in full...)
Should I stay with a money leech?
Q. my question is why does my boyfriend keep asking me for money? he says he needs help paying rent. hes got a job i think? not unless hes been kicked out of work and not bothered to tell me? sometimes its £100 or £300. i told him all this money ...
A. 31 December 2008: get going he damaging your weath!!!!GEt some one who will invest in you!... (read in full...)
What can I do about his controlling, manipulative ex?
Q. I'm so unhappy. I'm losing my boyfriend and feel I have to give up on him. I don't want to. I've tried to be there, stick it out and cope with the awfulness we have had from the Mother of his child, but I can't. Basically his life is being ...
A. 31 December 2008: No point fighting it,if its not working in your favar then leave it..... (read in full...)
Just how important is sex in a relationship?
Q. I'm a virgin. My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a year. Why on and off you ask, or maybe you don't, but I will briefly explain why. He had feelings for me for 9 months and I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship, but as soon as ...
A. 31 December 2008: Sex helps but not the be all and end all!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my brother and need to tell my family.
Q. My brother is really cute and I have been havng sex with him. One time, we had too much to drink and we kinda forgot the condom. Now I am pregnant and my brother and family don't know. I am really scared and don't know how I'm gonna tell my family I ...
A. 31 December 2008: See a Dr. and flush the egg down the bog..There could be to many complex issues if this baby born..
Hoax or not it has been known!... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for cheating and neglecting me?
Q. should i forgive my boyfriend of one year that cheated on me and neglected me when i was pregnant?? ...
A. 31 December 2008: 4give and forget if you both love each other!!
People drift slip and slide in life...
If you love him and he seen his mistake then keep on going..I always have done..and I've had some great women around me for plenty of years..If you ha... (read in full...)
9 years age difference?
Q. I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...
A. 31 December 2008: I've done 10yrs above and 14 years under in my time both legal I'll add for the record.With the age gap thing it works if the 2 people who are in the mix are happy with it and get along..Mine both worked quite well for a number of years..and I still ... (read in full...)
He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?
Q. Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well you need to find out if her got credit?
You know how it is in your teens its rough for phone cred's out here!
If your chasing someone then its never going to be a waste of time letting them know how you feel from time to time,it does get... (read in full...)
How to end my relationship, without breaking her heart??
Q. I have recently posted a question asking whether i should stay with my girlfriend or not. After alot of thinking i have decided to end things, my question is How do i tell her i want to end things, i love her so much and i know this will upset her ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well if you love her why would you want to end?
and if you want to end,then your going to have to just tell her or bring things down to a gental stop,which ever way it goes if she is not finished with you,she going to hurt for some time after th... (read in full...)
She's married I can't have her but I love her!
Q. I've fallen in love with a colleague after very recently splitting with my wife. She wasnt the cause of our breakup but we did intially start seeing each other the same week I walked out - it was really just the little push I needed! Anyway, we have ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well your the 2nd man in this story but a 2nd man who gets a hell of a lot of play time with the woman in question..What your feeling is very normal for someone who is not a pro player in the 2nd person role..
The art to this game is to know you... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?
Q. I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well this is simple,if she can't get a kid out of you then if she wants a kid she'l have to get it out of someone else,if she wants to be a mother at some stage then she going to need a guy who can fire live shots..its never going to be up to ... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: You know something about love,most of it all in your head,what will be will be in the end of it and feelings will die and new ones will grow,if you love someone then if they are there or not then all you can do is love them,but you still have to get ... (read in full...)
Myboyfriend is living with his ex, its killing me!
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for approx 20 months. I love him very much and we get on really well. However, I am really struggling as he lives with his ex (they have lived together for 20 years now). I trust him and am ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well you got to see the facts in this case,your the 2nd woman in this story..
If you love him and don't want to lose him then your going to have to deal with your feelings and get on with it,and say well he's at home with his woman but to hell wit... (read in full...)
She tell me I'm not in her life plan but I love her!
Q. what do i do when the person i love tells me i am not in her life plan. we have not been together for over a year, however, we remain in contact and i saw her very recently. i asked if she still loved me she said in a different way and not in love ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well pal you can't really go by what a woman says..
If you love her then just always be there for her until one day you wake up and say I've had enough of this or new love walks into your life where you number 1,,love is one crazy feeling that can... (read in full...)
He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"
Q. This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...
A. 31 December 2008: If the man wants to hit the road to get some and your not giving any then if you love him all you can do is be there when he gets back..or drink more wine!... (read in full...)
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