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Her bad moods are bringing me down!
Q. I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy ...
A. 14 January 2009: another tip is just agree to everything..,just think at the end of the day you have to live and pay those bills so nothing whats ever said is going to matter to what has to happen each day...
If she starts snapng just reply i hear you honey an... (read in full...)
Her bad moods are bringing me down!
Q. I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy ...
A. 14 January 2009: Well before I can even think to judge the matter,what in fact is she snapping at you about??? Rather than shout back,listen to what ever her problem in fact is.. She must have some point to what is her problem,she can't be in fact jus... (read in full...)
Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?
Q. Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...
A. 4 January 2009: I'd say 90% of men who go down LOVE it! ^_^... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD from myself? What harm can my own sperm do?
Q. I'm really really worried. Well, my friend said that jacking off is really addicting, so I tried it. When I did, sperm got out, and got onto my hands. I forgot to wash them. ( I just cleaned my hands with a piece of tissue ) Then I ate a bag of ...
A. 4 January 2009: You'll be fine mate ^_^
You got nothing to worry about..... (read in full...)
Her bad moods are bringing me down!
Q. I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy ...
A. 4 January 2009: Learn to enjoy the 5% of the woman you don't like..
You fight fire with water..So if she snaps then laugh and smile..
Then make love to her.... (read in full...)
I can't act normal around my ex now
Q. I got my ex back it seems she wants me but I can't act normal when I see her I hardly can laugh any of yall can help me how to start we are going out for a bbq tomorrow how should I act? thnx...
A. 4 January 2009: Be yourself and nobody else..When someone left you and just returned it takes time for old memories to die and new ones to take over and the bond to grow again..
... (read in full...)
Not sure what to do now?
Q. So i've a crush to a guy from another country .I meet him online.We talked till late at night everyday for like around a week.He did say he likes me in a joking way and after we talk and talk again,I said I like him and he said he likes me too.But ...
A. 4 January 2009: Keep the connection and if its still running in a years time then think about visting..you can't just follow someones words online you have to study the action..if their there for you every day and always in touch then its safe to think to take ... (read in full...)
Why do I suck?
Q. Why do I suck? I can't seem to find anything positive about me. A microdick, no gf, no sex or love in my life, and OAB. Please help me rebuilt my confidence....
A. 3 January 2009: Take up a sport or hubby you enjoy!... (read in full...)
Background and getting on better in life.
Q. Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...
A. 3 January 2009: anonymous female there could be some strong fact in what you've said..but not all people from the hood are shallow,but I do see your point.... (read in full...)
How do you know when its over?
Q. how do you know when your relationship is over? my partner and I are always argueing! and I just dont know what to do anymore! Iam pregnant, and love him but everything else in life just seems to get in the way of us actually enjoying each other ...
A. 3 January 2009: Well try listening to what ever point is being made and not argue but in fact enjoy talking and listenings..Same goes for him..Dispute will for sure get in the way of enjoyment..Work on the art of talking and hearing each other sides of the ... (read in full...)
I always fake it!
Q. When my boyfriend fingers me I never let him finish, I always fake it. So after awhile it gets really boring on my part. He likes it so I let him do it, but it doesn't really feel good anymore. I don't want to tell him because I'm afraid it will ...
A. 3 January 2009: good point Phil I'd support that.... (read in full...)
My b/f now wants to be FWB
Q. my boyfriend of 1 and half years, told me that he wanted to be just friends with benefits, i agreed as i still love him, and it was a way for me still to see him. i cannot bare the thought of not seeing him, and i am hoping that he realizes ...
A. 3 January 2009: He may do...I think your playing this one correct..
Getting what you can get even when the chips are down.
Give it time he may want you a 100% as your the woman who lets him be himself and still keeps up friendship and contact..... (read in full...)
Are there any places where abortions are free?
Q. Are there any places where abortions are free?...
A. 3 January 2009: I'l say this if your are breeding thing before you killing it....There nothing sweeter than your own child
I've had women abort children for me in the past when we was younger and we sure as hell wish we didn't now..
There nothing sweeter ... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 3 January 2009: I put it to you like this..
If I listened to people who said get rid of things I wanted when they was running bad I wouldn't have the things today I loved.
Never give up on what you love.
If you see your actions are damaging then change... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 3 January 2009: If he keeps knocking at your door time and time again then there a big chance he loves you more than you know and he in fact can't let go,but if there been endless years over fussing and fighting he's feelings may be damaged towards you where he ... (read in full...)
Background and getting on better in life.
Q. Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...
A. 3 January 2009: Well we only have to look at the new guy in charge of the USA..He'll for sure will be a good subject to watch to help answer this question..:-)... (read in full...)
Are there any places where abortions are free?
Q. Are there any places where abortions are free?...
A. 3 January 2009: In the UK with have the NHS system that takes up the bill,but nothing really free its paid by the tax payer.... (read in full...)
Background and getting on better in life.
Q. Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...
A. 3 January 2009: Well it wise b4 you comment on this one to have walked both life styles...
I've personaly felt a tighter community sprit and friendship on housing blocks than living on a street in a house,there more people in a smaller area on the block more int... (read in full...)
Background and getting on better in life.
Q. Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...
A. 2 January 2009: There may be some fact in this ghetto life and friends do run deep.. and can last a very long time.. I grew up on an large housing block and have known the same people for many years and where I now live in a house on a normal street, people pretty ... (read in full...)
She dumped me via text, can I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend dumped me today after 6months by text message. what can i do to get her back?...
A. 2 January 2009: Tell her how much she means to you and you'll always be there for her and wait till the end of time..
Ask her what is the problem why she ended the connection.
Tell her you'll change to be the man she wants..
Through some money it the problem... (read in full...)
Grief from loss of my daughter and pain from husbands confession to an old affair - how do I handle it all?
Q. Reading who am I? I walk alone 31th dec. prompted me to write to say how I feel at the moment. I have been married 38 years and blessed with 3 daughters. Sadly my daughter of 35 years died after a very sudden heart problem. The pain of losing her ...
A. 2 January 2009: Keep looking on the bright side of life and what you still have that makes you happy..smile it happened don't be sad about the loss..... (read in full...)
He treats me more like a slut than his GF.
Q. hey i really love my boyfriend, but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated. the way he talks 2 me is always dirty (sexual) and i want him to b more romantic and chivalrous towards me. he says that he is romantic cos he gives me pres...
A. 2 January 2009: Well he'll be in trouble if you meet a real gent..who gives you some smooth lyrics..If your not feeling the treatment then may be wise to look else where..... (read in full...)
Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?
Q. I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't ...
A. 2 January 2009: I agree leave people business alone and mind your own!... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Please help me!
Q. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he was only inside me for about 5 mins, but before he went inside me i noticed the tip of his penis was very wet and i think i might have ovaleted the day before. could i be pregnant? and what are the ...
A. 2 January 2009: You sure could be,get a test done you can by them up the high street...for less than a tenner.... (read in full...)
We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??
Q. ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having ...
A. 2 January 2009: If your ready to pop shots to breed and having sex with out protection then nothing can stop the process what anyone things...
At your age I doubt very much you have the cash or know how to support a child...give it a few more years then think ab... (read in full...)
I read his e-mail to another woman and now I think he'd rather have her.
Q. hi i read an email which my boyfriend had sent to a work colleague on new years eve, saying how he is upset she is being distant, and how he wishes that she thought of him in a different way. he goes on to say that he is older, they do the same job, ...
A. 2 January 2009: Well he told you the reason why,look on the bright side he not with her he's with you..
Don't beat yourself up about what you haven't got enjoy what you have got..
Your never going to be able to control ones mind or desire,I feel its safe to... (read in full...)
Am I making a move on a man or a statue?
Q. I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm with honey pie on this one..if that don't work then get a new lover that can give it to you how you want it..... (read in full...)
My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!
Q. I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...
A. 2 January 2009: Thats what its all about brother the key to everything in this life is understandings...lack of understanding tents to = outrage
Keep smiling and laughing out loud!!
:D... (read in full...)
How do I let the Ex know I'm doing well?
Q. I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ? How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? How would he feels i...
A. 2 January 2009: I agree with hunny pie..If you still feel the need to get back at him your still feeling him..may be love or may be hate but you've still got this ex in your mind to come here and speak about them..
Question is do you want him back or just to ... (read in full...)
Have a partner but in love with my ex-brother-in-law
Q. what should i do? hi im 18 and have been in a relationship for nearly two years, we are engaged and i have a baby girl with my partner. but all we do is argue with each other. i love him but, i have had a crush on my ex brother-inlaw si...
A. 2 January 2009: Well if it was me I'd let everybody know how you feel,it may kick off dispute but you may just find peace in yourself..
Or you may have to live with these feelings learn to control them and be left with the thoughts of what could have been,but... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man, what do I do?
Q. i've been married for 20 years and fell out of love with my husband and now having an affair with a married man which i know he loves his wife and probably will never leave her.I've know him for a couple of months but whenever were together there's ...
A. 2 January 2009: Enjoy what you got and what you are getting don't let small detail damage that special feeling you are both feeling..... (read in full...)
I still love my ex-wife and can't get closure
Q. I've been divorced two years now from Rose (we were married for 20 years, 2 wonderful and beautiful daughters . I am still deeply in love with Rose. She was the one who wanted the divorce, even though for 5 years I pleaded for us to get counseli...
A. 2 January 2009: Find your lover tell her how you feel like you have done here take time and try and rebuild the bond that has been broken..... (read in full...)
2 years and I'm not over my ex
Q. I split up with someone almost two years ago and I can't seem to get over him. Everyday I think about him and feel sad. I don't know what to do, I miss him so much and feel there is a big hole in my life since we split. I know I have to move on, ...
A. 2 January 2009: Try and get him back..... (read in full...)
How can I get my beautiful, older girl?
Q. i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...
A. 2 January 2009: Buy a nice card and write to her with a nice little gift,a nice bottle a perfume and a red rose works wonders..Show interest but don't push it or demand it,be bold but at the same time humble,let her know your willing to wait it out..:)
Let m... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 2 January 2009: Well the reason you may find your self hurting becasue you make too much fuss and its the fussing and fighting that leads to you losing what you what,and then when you lost what you want you find pain.
I never said anything about having sex and ... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm just reading into what you said,the key in your question that got me is that you said you keep breaking it off with him and he keeps coming back to you,which would say to me he has feelings towards you and is not happy with out you..
Like ... (read in full...)
How do I let the Ex know I'm doing well?
Q. I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ? How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? How would he feels i...
A. 2 January 2009: Revenge makes you know better than the person who hurt you in the 1st place..
If you've moved on just get on with your life..and let it go,if you plan a revenge attack it may just back fire on you,you may say your living well and he says fine I'm... (read in full...)
How long on average does a guy last in bed?
Q. Just a quick question, for guys or girls, probably mainly for the guys but, how long on average do you last in bed? I haven't had sex for a while and it's getting to the point I'm avoiding it because I'm afraid I'm going to be premature and get ...
A. 2 January 2009: You can make it long as last as you want to... If you feel your going to blow your beans before time then take your foot of the gas.... (read in full...)
I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour.
Q. Hi, I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour. I only get to see her about once every couple of months and we have a good sexual relationship in the short time we're together. However, on my last visit a few days ago, I was about ...
A. 1 January 2009: I've got to agree with hunnypie if shes smelling then don't be eating down there..ask her to see her dr.... (read in full...)
What is the name for this kind of threesome?
Q. Me and a friend came up with an interesting thing to do while having a threesome (2 f, 1 m) but dont know if there is a name for it... It would involve the 2 girls lying on top of each other (face to face) while you go down on both of them simultan...
A. 1 January 2009: play safe girls and boys!
safe sex and safey belts..
ouch..double muffin sounds good!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in love with her ex
Q. Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...
A. 1 January 2009: If she still loves him she'll need to still talk to him or connect to him to cure her own sickness in time it will die if you stay close in my view..I've had this problem myself in the past but it don't mean she has no feeling or love for you,the ... (read in full...)
Why did I do something like that? Now she doesn't trust me
Q. Dear Cupid i cheated on my girl friend, and i hate myself for it. i'v hurt the love of my life so bad, iv broken hers and my heart, and the thought of life with out her is killing me. last night (new years eve) i kissed this girl i didnt know and...
A. 1 January 2009: If you love each other then you'll both get over it.. girls can get really pissed about these matters and hold it against you for a long time!Been there and done that.... (read in full...)
Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience
Q. This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...
A. 1 January 2009: Just let it go..there no point beating yourself up about the past.. what was done was done, look forward!... (read in full...)
How can I get my beautiful, older girl?
Q. i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?...
A. 1 January 2009: depending on the build of your body and how much bigger you are than her may play apart in this stroy..as she 18 and your only 16 you'd have to be quite a bold boy to win this girl if she such a hottie..
If it was me I'd break the ice with som... (read in full...)
He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!
Q. I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" ...
A. 1 January 2009: Well in this story its like this..if you love someone then no matter who or what should be able to tear it apart,we all get mad or feel rage when someone we love acts in away we don't like,but it sounds to me,you guy was just having a bit of company ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in love with her ex
Q. Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well she being very honest with you,and as she has deep love for another guy who not around which is taking her time to get over,most people won't tell you whats going on in their mind,shes trying to move on with you but finding it hard to let go of ... (read in full...)
My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!
Q. I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...
A. 31 December 2008: Biggest mistake to have told her mate...
Women always use old fuel to start a new fire.
Your just going to have to ride it out & agree to everything she has to say,don't dispute nothing!... (read in full...)
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