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My friend's fiancee has given bj's to probably 30 or more guys and he can't deal with it!

Q.   My 'work friend' is engaged getting married next year. He has a problem with his fiancee's past. She is still a virgin and wants to wait until they're married. He is fine with that, however, due to what she calls 'sexual pressure' by guys she has ...

A.   10 May 2010: Your friend's fiance was extremely misguided to think that as long as she remained a virgin, she was not being sexually promiscuous with men. Giving thirty to forty bj's to different men is a whole lot of sexual activity with a whole lot of ... (read in full...)

My husband does not know how to be affectionate to me

Q.   My biggest problem is that my husband does not know how to be affectionate to me. He tells me, "you don't accept the love I have for you." He thinks that because he feels love for me, that should be enough. He doesn't understand how much I need ...

A.   10 May 2010: Absolutely yes, his upbringing has to do with him not showing you physical affection. He brought into your marriage everything from his life growing up with his family. Every family is different and usually a person goes into a marriage expectin... (read in full...)

He sees me only for casual sex and I care about him a lot! How do I deal with this?

Q.   I feel so lonely... I have great friends,I am surrounded by great people but I feel so low. I found out the guy I was seeing only sees me as someone for casual sex, and I know for a fact that he is sleeping around. There are 2 other guys who I...

A.   10 May 2010: Sweetie, you HAVE to force yourself to forget this guy. He does not care about you. He is only using you for sex. You need to understand this point: Men use "love" to get sex from women and women use "sex" to try to get love from men. Men are much ... (read in full...)

Changing his passwords on his accounts--says its "his business not mine"

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year, living together for 6 months. Last week he changed his hotmail and facebook passwords out of no where. He says its his business and none of mine. Why the sudden change? Should I be worried something is ...

A.   10 May 2010: My initial reaction is to tell you to get out of the relationship with him immediately. My husband of 25 years slowly started doing this to me and he was having an affair with another woman. The man I loved and trusted completely is a liar and a ... (read in full...)

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