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... Send *ichard_EMids a private message | | | *ichard_EMids's profile:Hi - I'm Richard.
Good to meet you. I live in the East Midlands of England, just in case you thought my surname was EMids!
I have had a wide range of life experiences - from ecstasy to tragedy. Like anyone who finds this site, I have had some ups and downs on the relationship front, despite being a "decent guy." Single or relationship status, they both have their merits. Neither is better, they are just different. I have two fantastic children sorry, fantastic teenagers. Life-loving, sensible and well mannered.
I'm into many different outdoor activities. Also reading, travel, biking and learning. I play badminton and go the gym. I like history in it's widest sense.
I had a 30 year career in management until the accountants and lawyers cut all the fun out. I work part time now which allows me to do all sorts of other things with my life. I am the same age as the number of cards in a pack. All of them....... Clubs, Hearts, Diamonds, and Spades (in that order).
I'm happy to try and help anybody solve their own problems by stimulating their thoughts, providing perspective or simply passing on some practical suggestions.
(where do I put my favourite car/ favourite film/ most unusual place.....)
AMENDMENT: Could you please change it from teenagers to young adults and add the word 'beautiful.' Thanks. |
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How can I sing with a sore throat? Any remedies?
Q. Hi everybody. Slight change from the norm; I have a health related question. As some of you know, I'm in a rock band for my Music course in college. I have to give a performance this Thursday in front of all my fellow students and friends. It is a...
A. 20 December 2007: It's always worse when you lie down. Fluid irritates. Try sitting up a bit.
You have prob got this from stressing over your ex. Your immunity is suppressed.... (read in full...)
He have "minor" trust issues (which we handle very immaturely.) What should we do to solve them?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend almost 10 months and she fell inlove with me after a month and I soon recipricated the feelings. We are so close with eachother all the time and in my opinion have a great relationship. We have minor trust ...
A. 20 December 2007: Ok buddy - you are starting to hurt and it'll probably get worse. She is only 18. In a way, she's right. Why get tied down at that age? I think you can guess where this is heading. All I will say to you keep hold of your dignity. If she wants to ... (read in full...)
My friend nearly made out with me until I asked him to stop. What was he thinking?
Q. Hi I moved to a new city one year ago and my former flatmate from my old one visited me last weekend. While the weekend was fun, it got kinda weird on Saturday night. We were watching TV and my friend sort of started touching me. We nearly made out...
A. 19 December 2007: Hi - I have returned to link you a similar story from a girl who wanted to take things further with her male friend.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-did-everything-but-have-sexand-now-he.html... (read in full...)
Missed a call the other day and was wondering if it might be my ex.
Q. Hey all ! Me and my ex have been split up since may this year, we slept together until september, but this didnt work for me so i decided to try and forget about him. My ex hasnt called or text me in 3 months, he said he hated me and didnt want a...
A. 18 December 2007: Stop waiting for wrong numbers on your phone and start living your life. You've got around 50 years left. Sounds like you have just wasted half a year.
Good luck with your life.
Richard... (read in full...)
I am trying to rid myself of my porn addiction. Any ideas?
Q. I am 20, I have been with my girlfriend now for 2 months and it is starting to get serious. The problem I have now is that I have a porn addiction that I want to get rid of. I've tried to get help on it but when I told my counsellor about it (who ...
A. 18 December 2007: Ask for a refund from the counsellor. Can't do what it says on the tin!... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 18 December 2007: The reason that would make you look desperate is because you are desperate. You don't want to look desperate - it's not a good image. To stop being desperate you need to spread the risk, increase the chances. Talk to more females, get more phone ... (read in full...)
My fiancee has used porn in the past and lied to me about it!
Q. Pornography is effecting my relationsip..Help! My fiancee has used pornography in the past and lied to me about it. He has done it whilst i have been asleep, or gone out for a while. We have always had a very healthy sex life until this cropp...
A. 18 December 2007: Stand up for what you believe in. One of you has got to give. You or him. If it causes a big problem, you were never meant to be together. It he stops, he truly loves you. After a month, let him have a little porn back, he's yours.
Richard... (read in full...)
I'm bored and lonely, and newly single...
Q. I am bored primary school teacher looking for a change in carreer. I want a job which excites me. A job where both men and women work. Basically I want a job that offers social networking as well as financial stability. just gone through a break up ...
A. 18 December 2007: Hi - I hope you didn't mind my little joke. I'll give you a few ideas for jobs that excite you - Police Force, Armed Services. Or you could go and do Voluntary Service Overseas etc for a year, somewhere wild and dangerous! That is probably quite ... (read in full...)
I'm confused as what women really want from a man?
Q. Hi there, i think i am a bit confused on what you women do really want in a MAN, i mean do you prioritize being physically mascular or having a good personality? i am not physically mascular but people told me i have a good personality, i havn't had ...
A. 18 December 2007: What do men want in a woman? Depends on the guy doesn't it. And the reverse is true to answer your question. There's no point in trying to be something you're not. What if you met and a girl and she wanted to marry you based on the false image you ... (read in full...)
Is this a rebound relationship?
Q. A guy is dumped by his wife who tells him she has never really loved him, and whilst he is stinging over that, his temporary assistant is there (unhappy in her marriage), mopping up his tears. She has to return home 1000 miles away so he tries to ...
A. 18 December 2007: "although it tears me up, I would rather keep his friendship........... because I would like more."
Which translated means, I am in pain but I am going to live in hope and be in pain for longer.
Hey it's your choice. I'm just trying to help you... (read in full...)
My long term friendship appears to be fading, do I fight to save it?
Q. hi i just wanted some advice. i have been friends with a girl for about 15 years now, since we were in primary school. in school we had a few problems as she often talked behind my back or turned other friends against me...just silly childish stuff ...
A. 18 December 2007: Giving up on the friendship is a bit extreme, but don't put as much into it as you have been because she doesn't seem to value it. Stay in touch, but maybe less frequently. Who knows, things might change in the future and you might bcome closer ... (read in full...)
Is this a rebound relationship?
Q. A guy is dumped by his wife who tells him she has never really loved him, and whilst he is stinging over that, his temporary assistant is there (unhappy in her marriage), mopping up his tears. She has to return home 1000 miles away so he tries to ...
A. 18 December 2007: Hi - sounds like you love him and he loves her; he doesn't love you and she doesn't love him. Or is that an over simplification?
Does he know what your feelings are? You described it as 'intense friends.' Is that your view or his? Why not tell him ... (read in full...)
I'm bored and lonely, and newly single...
Q. I am bored primary school teacher looking for a change in carreer. I want a job which excites me. A job where both men and women work. Basically I want a job that offers social networking as well as financial stability. just gone through a break up ...
A. 18 December 2007: How good are you at looking after computer discs with sensitive data on them? Might be some vacancies at HMRC!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's had over 100 lovers and I'm finding it hard to deal with
Q. I am having problems dealing with my girlfriends past. I have read other questions on this site where men say their girlfriends have had lots of partners but mine has had 136 and she is only 24, this is really eating away at me and I dont know what ...
A. 18 December 2007: Wow - she's got a good memory!
Look, either you can handle this or you can't. I don't see any middle ground.
If it were me, I would be wondering why it didn't work with the other 135. Is there a personality or behavioural spike somewher... (read in full...)
Is this relationship worth saving?
Q. I hava a boyfriend who has a short temper who I luv very much little confused, an incident occured yesterday where he got so pissed off because he wanted my son who is 13 to help him with some bags. I told him that I would take care of it and then ...
A. 18 December 2007: If this is this is the only incident and you are both happy then yes, of course it's worth saving. If though, this is just one more incident in a whole line of others, then you should reconsider.
Having a short temper is not a problem. Study afte... (read in full...)
This disturbs me, my ex was a player
Q. I met a guy over a month ago and we've been texting each other casually with a view of meeting up over New Year. We normally text twice a week, but I was really shocked when he texted me 1am Saturday, which is out of character. Needless to say I ...
A. 18 December 2007: Hi. I can't give you any answers, but I can give you three questions, which you can either respond to, or just consider their implications. (1) Do you think that you are drawn to the same type of guy? (2) Would you say this is following a similar ... (read in full...)
We split up after 10 months. I'm really down about it and want him back. What can I do?
Q. I love my boyfriend(now my ex :( sadly)very much and i really can't live without him, he said that we aren't right for each other, and he listens to other people too much, because we both work in the same company and people in there think alot of ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi Brokenhearted. I know you feel so sad right now. What you describe happens to so many of us. Someone once said, "Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop." This can happen to you many times before you settle with ... (read in full...)
He have "minor" trust issues (which we handle very immaturely.) What should we do to solve them?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend almost 10 months and she fell inlove with me after a month and I soon recipricated the feelings. We are so close with eachother all the time and in my opinion have a great relationship. We have minor trust ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi - The simple answer is that she likes to have men interested in her. She is either encouraging their behaviour or not turning down their interest. So if you are at the stage of an exclusive commitment, then yes, I would say you need to be.... ... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past torments me, especially the visual side. She didn't know for ex. she was giving me a sex show (organised) by the time she dated my friend. Please help.
Q. ok here it goes, i've been with my wife for 13 years and we have a 7 year old son. when i met her it was with my buddy who met her the day before i did and he was ALREADY engaged to another girl. To make a long story short we all were friends and ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hey buddy - you know that this is totally illogical don't you! I know it's all real in your head right now. But it is totally and completely illogical. Are you allowed to have a sexual past? Yes you are. Is she allowed to have a sexual past? Yes she ... (read in full...)
How can I sing with a sore throat? Any remedies?
Q. Hi everybody. Slight change from the norm; I have a health related question. As some of you know, I'm in a rock band for my Music course in college. I have to give a performance this Thursday in front of all my fellow students and friends. It is a...
A. 17 December 2007: Have you thought of an instrumental piece?... (read in full...)
I am so sorry for the pain I caused her when cheating on her and I'm ready to change, but don't know what to do to make her trust me again?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years i have been unfaithful to her twice with the same person who call my girlfriend and told her every thing we did .she forgive me but after 5 months she says cannot forget and trust me. we are still ...
A. 17 December 2007: You prove you have changed by showing you have changed and not by saying you have changed. Words are easy. Your only chance is by demonstrating you have changed day after day, week after week, month after month, and maybe year after year. If you ... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can show a girl that I am interested without actually saying it?
Q. hi. im a single guy, athlete, and i have a lot of friends(girls) but ive never hooked up with them. I kno the attraction is there but ive never made a move. Is there any way i can show a girl that im intrested without saying it. any advice would be ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi buddy - well there are lots of ways you can show a girl that you are interested BUT I never found that worked very well. Let's say you manage to convey to her that you're interested - then what? Nothing - thats what. Unless you're relying on ... (read in full...)
I've just moved in with my boyfriend. What should I write in his christmas card?
Q. Hi I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been hard going but its pretty good now. I have got him a card for xmas and i was wondering if someone could give me some suggestions what to write in. I want to make it nice.. n...
A. 17 December 2007: You know when you're stuck for words such as these, it is permissible to look to the work of other great writers. As it's a Christmas card, it seems it would make sense to look at the lyrics of some Christmas No: 1 hit records and see if there is ... (read in full...)
My friend nearly made out with me until I asked him to stop. What was he thinking?
Q. Hi I moved to a new city one year ago and my former flatmate from my old one visited me last weekend. While the weekend was fun, it got kinda weird on Saturday night. We were watching TV and my friend sort of started touching me. We nearly made out...
A. 17 December 2007: You never thought of you two as anything more than friends. He, on the other hand, did think beyond flatmates. Never mind, you've put him straight now.
Richard... (read in full...)
My best friend wants to marry her man... after 1 month. Do you think it'll work out?
Q. Hi my best friend has met a man only a month ago and he wants to marry her. He is 42 and she is 28. He is a military officer (Colonel) high rank in the army and she just graduated as a medical practitioner. Her parents are encouraging her and her ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi. The critical date is the date when they plan to marry. They might decide now to get married in two years time, in which case there is plenty of time to learn more about each other.
Richard... (read in full...)
She seemed like a wonderful woman... But it seems like she'd have sex with anything with a pulse! I don't know what to think. Please advise!
Q. I'm troubled that I'm currently a father, 35, of a special needs son. I have custody of the little guy. In May, I met a seemingly wonderful woman, who was about to turn 34 years old. She has no children. She's wonderful with my son. After about ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hey - there is such a thing as moral compatability. Nothing wrong with her, nothing wrong with you. Just the way you are. Sometimes there's a close match apart from a couple of issues. Sounds like this is a "match-breaker" for you. That's just the ... (read in full...)
Married and tempted by a co-worker. Help!
Q. I am in need of some advice...actually am relieved to have come across this site to find people are in similar situations...makes me feel so much better to know that I am not alone in this. I am happily married to the love of my life but more ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi . Are you groomimg this guy for betrayal or is he grooming you? Imagine the day that it all blows up when the "love of your life" confronts you. Maybe you don't think this will happen. To some it does, to some it doesn't.
Or perhaps a diff... (read in full...)
Do all men prefer anal sex and why? I do it to quench my husband's curiosity that drove him to an affair.
Q. please do all men prefer anal sex and why, i dont care for it my husband does....i am having a hard time because he was in an affair in trying this anal stuff out i think this is the curiousity that he proposed to some whore on the net and ended up ...
A. 17 December 2007: Do all men like a certain car? Do all women prefer the same food? Why don't we all like the same book? Don't be hurt, just my simple way of making the point.
I do understand you are having a hard time after your husband's betrayal. You are seek... (read in full...)
How can I avoid choking on it?
Q. Godness, the only reason why I dare posting this is because this is anonymous. I'm in a long distance relantionship with my beloved boyfriend and I love him lots. We both got tested and are noh healthy and I'm on the pill. We have a very expl...
A. 17 December 2007: Hi. It is not necessary to swallow to give pleasure. It is the sensation that gives the pleasure. When he is about to ejaculate move your mouth away from the head and go down the side and keep hand action going. Good luck.
Richard... (read in full...)
Should I go for therapy or separation?
Q. Hi. I have been married for 8 years. My wife was a virgin at 23 when we married (I was 30 when we married). We have not had sex for 5 years because of lots of reasons (too many to get into here), but I have looked at pornography out of frustrat...
A. 17 December 2007: Fix the sex problem, everything else will probably sort itself out. If the sex problem can't be fixed for some reason, a counsellor will help a couple work out a compromise, particularly when an issue like this has existed for such a long time. ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hmmm - Here is range of responses I get from my beautiful daughter who is 17, when I ask why she didn't reply to my texts: (1)Forgot to charge it. (2) Topped up yesterday but its gone. (3) I think I left it in the taxi (4) I lent my friend my phone ... (read in full...)
How do I get to the next level without appearing to be 'easy'?
Q. What's the best way to let a guy know you're interested without acting like an idiot or scaring him off? I'm already scared to talk to the guy I like about the potential for more. I think he has an idea that I like him because I smile, then blu...
A. 16 December 2007: Well if you think he's not going to ask you then ask him. But you want to make sure you don't appear 'easy.' So think of somehere very innocent to go, like a Sunday afternoon event, and ask him very nicely if he would mind being your companion for ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with him any more. What should I do?
Q. my husband has not had a job in one year. he always have an attitude and he seems jealous that i have a job and i've been on my job for ten years. i really am tired of his attitude and him not working. i dont want to be with him anymore. what should ...
A. 16 December 2007: This is a very short paragraph for a major life event - four lines!!
Children? You don't say why he hasn't been working? Deprived area? Medical condition? Self-esteem problems?... (read in full...)
My mom read my diary and now I feel all traumatized! What to do about her??
Q. My Mom read my diary this morning, I'm traumatised. She knows my sex life in huge, digusting detail, she knows that I'm a good child brought up very well and I never wanted that to change. I'm a 14 year old female who initiated sex with my ...
A. 16 December 2007: OK - I'll tell you what you do. You hold your head high knowing that you are entering the world of adulthood. Your Mum will know this to be the case from reading your diary. I can virtually guarantee there is nothing in your diary that your Mum ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me and now I link sex to her and haven't been able to have a sexual relationship for 4 years. How do I regain my self confidence in this again?
Q. So here is my problem some of you will say its not a problem but its ruining my life. So since my ex 4 years ago i have had no sexual contact with anyone i found my ex cheating and now i link sex to her and that i easnt good enough or couldnt please ...
A. 16 December 2007: Hi. Four years!!! You have formed an association between her cheating and sex (or the poosibility of sex) and it seems deeply embedded. You probably need Cognitive Behaviour Therapy to 'break' the association in your mind. In view of the affect it's ... (read in full...)
I am a married woman falling in love with my lover, what should my next move be?
Q. i have been married for 12 years there has been nothing between my husband and i for about 2 years and I have been having an affair for the past 12 months with a man who is also in a relationship. Iam falling in love with my lover and think he has ...
A. 16 December 2007: Ok - I've read your post. I haven't read answers below. Two things strike me: (1) Falling after year of sex? That is very very very slow. (2) Known him a year but can't bring up a topic of discussion??
On those two points alone says something is w... (read in full...)
I get an erection everytime I hug or kiss my gf; this embarasses me. What should I do?
Q. I can't help getting an erection when I hug or kiss my girlfriend, I'll hug her and then realise hes gone stiff and then i'll detatch myself to try and stop her noticing, we've only been together for a few weeks and I dont want to have sex yet and ...
A. 15 December 2007: Hi . As you grow up and become a man you find you learn to control your car; your career; your bank balance; and even your kids. BUT this one will beat you. So don't even try.
Instead, learn a number of diversionary tactics: Look up to a night sky ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 15 December 2007: Hey Andy - there's too much focus on one person. Go out and get some more phone numbers! Set yourself challenge of getting two phone numbers next time you're out. And two more the next time. They don't have to be potential 'life partners,' just ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent
Q. My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married fou...
A. 15 December 2007: Hey - glad you were able to work it out.
Richard... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 15 December 2007: Hhhrrrraaaaay.
Next post ???...... "This new g/f is so hot and I need sleep"... (read in full...)
Both in a relationship, but thinking about eachother 24x7
Q. To keep it brief, i dated my ex about 13-14years ago, only for a month.I was 17 she was 15, we only ever kissed, I split up with her and apparently broke her heart. She's recently gotten back in touch with me online and we caught up with the past...
A. 14 December 2007: Hey - Yes - I do understand. I am trying to get you to see the situation in reality. You have gone from being a logical guy to someone who's feet are not on the ground anymore.
You might feel you are dying, but I know it's a bad feeling. Inst... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail for abusing his sister when she was younger... Am I stupid for staying with him?
Q. Well, my boyfriend is in jail now. He has been in there for almost 7 months. His sister called the cops and told them that he raped her ever since she was 8 and he was 10. Of course, i didnt believe her, but he is in jail, but then again, all the ...
A. 14 December 2007: Hey - thanks for the update. The first poster hello1 who wanted him locked up forever will have a surprise, she has sent me abusive mail today. So sad. Hope things will start to get better for you and your boyfrnd.
Take care
Richard... (read in full...)
Are people interested in dating a mixed-race person?
Q. Are people interested in dating a mixed race person? the reason i ask is i am a mixed race girl , 23 years old , a virgin never had a boyfriend or date and i don't know why . my father white and my mother black. any way i would mind being with som...
A. 14 December 2007: Hey - we're all mixed race. Only those people in remote or isolated parts of the world might still be one race.
Richard... (read in full...)
I want to end the attraction for my own mother. Please help, I'm ashamed of myself.
Q. hi guys i'm a guy and just turned 16 last month i live with my mom after my parents divorced i have a problem which i can't tell anyone, i'm attracted to my mom sexually. it's been 2 years now i love going through her underwear, smilling, playing...
A. 14 December 2007: Hi - it's the Oedipus Complex. It's a deep, deep, deep desire according to Sigmund Freud. I never had these feelings, but then they are supposed to be so deep that you don't know about them says Mr Freud. As for going to a psychotherapist, they are ... (read in full...)
Both in a relationship, but thinking about eachother 24x7
Q. To keep it brief, i dated my ex about 13-14years ago, only for a month.I was 17 she was 15, we only ever kissed, I split up with her and apparently broke her heart. She's recently gotten back in touch with me online and we caught up with the past...
A. 14 December 2007: Of course it would make it easier for you. You start to behave unlovingly first, then unreasonably until she starts to react, then you justify that for more bad beahviour on your part. She does the same. Eventually, she makes the decision to split. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail for abusing his sister when she was younger... Am I stupid for staying with him?
Q. Well, my boyfriend is in jail now. He has been in there for almost 7 months. His sister called the cops and told them that he raped her ever since she was 8 and he was 10. Of course, i didnt believe her, but he is in jail, but then again, all the ...
A. 14 December 2007: Hi. Are you stupid for staying with him? YES and NO is my answer.
For boys, when the sexual awakening occurs, it can produce a very powerful drive. That is nature's way of sending a young male out in search of a 'mate' to continue the species. Unfo... (read in full...)
Both in a relationship, but thinking about eachother 24x7
Q. To keep it brief, i dated my ex about 13-14years ago, only for a month.I was 17 she was 15, we only ever kissed, I split up with her and apparently broke her heart. She's recently gotten back in touch with me online and we caught up with the past...
A. 14 December 2007: I see that you want to leave it to fate/time. I did mention the dangers of this approach in my last paragraph.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 13 December 2007: Chlez has sent a very good question all the way from Zambia......."Are you gonna tell her when you find a girlfriend?"... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 13 December 2007: Andy - there is some very good advice on this page.
The two anonymous females are giving you the benefit of their perspectives on what you have described. They haven't given you short sharp answers, they have thought carefully about what to say ... (read in full...)
Both in a relationship, but thinking about eachother 24x7
Q. To keep it brief, i dated my ex about 13-14years ago, only for a month.I was 17 she was 15, we only ever kissed, I split up with her and apparently broke her heart. She's recently gotten back in touch with me online and we caught up with the past...
A. 10 December 2007: Hi buddy - I'll give you my view. We make choices as we go through life. You made a choice not to be with this girl originally. You made a choice to have kids. They depend on you to some extent. I think you have to weigh up how much disruption and ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent
Q. My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married fou...
A. 27 November 2007: Hmm. This seems quite simple to me unless I am missing something!!! As a couple you have gone beyond the traditional limitations of marriage. You are creating your own rules - fair enough if you are both happy. The exploration is continuing, but you ... (read in full...)
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