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What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   29 September 2012: Well, my original point has been proved beyond all possible doubts recently. I attempted to talk to a couple of women recently in a pub and all i got was ignored, laughed at and they moved on. All i said was 'Is this a busy place normally and can i ... (read in full...)

Abstinence from masturbation before first time sex?

Q.   I have visited an escort agency for first time sex and failed miserably to achieve an erection. I am 44 and have always masturbated with no problem and get erections. I have always used straight sex images and softcore porn for inspiration and ...

A.   5 September 2012: I am currently planning on seeing an escort in a months time. In the meantime i am going to abstain from watching internet porn and even masturbation to see if that helps. I will request a 2hr session involving mutual petting and kissing with a ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   2 September 2012: There is nothing that a stylist can do for my appearance, i don't have a 'base' as such to work from. I had no luck on the 'casual' (i think that is the word) sites either and even paid a months subscription on them. Another waste of time. I always ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   1 September 2012: One of the sites i used was 'Plenty of fish' but was a waste of time-and i mean a complete waste of time. I used a photo for 6 months and then took it off for 6 months but received no interest/views whatsoever.I can't change what i look like ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   24 August 2012: I live in England, not Canada. I had 3yrs on dating sites and the results are depressing.....i was always positive in outlook and sent interesting messages about my interests etc. I have been called ugly by women my whole life and am getting fed up ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   23 August 2012: The 'confident' man stuff that people talk about is pure garbage. I see it even in the workplace....attractive people get attention all the time. I see confident not so attractive people largely ignored. It's human nature. If you have no looks you ... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   23 August 2012: Personally speaking i don't actually judge anybody else in regard of looks, it simply does not matter. The whole thing bores me actually.... (read in full...)

What are the best casual dating sites out there?

Q.   I have tried a few of these online dating sites recently but have had no replies and windered if anyone knew the best ones to keep faith with. I stopped using photographs in the end because i was getting nowhere-i am an ugly guy-but still had no ...

A.   22 August 2012: I had no replies on sites WITH a photo, never mind WITHOUT one. I can't win either way.... (read in full...)

Ladies: Is it right that I be treated like I have the plague for being a socially inept, shy and awkward 42 year old virgin?

Q.   Hi, I am a socially awkward, socially shy, 42-year-old virgin and am wondering how ladies across the spectrum would view such a situation? I can learn but should I be treated like I have the plague? ...

A.   15 August 2012: As a 44yr old virgin i have continually had to put up with disrespectful remarks about the way i look....and to me the people who do it are losers and lowlife. I don't bother even replying or reacting in any way, not worth it.... (read in full...)

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

Q.   I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

A.   9 August 2012: Yes, i must admit that it felt strange in the room with the escort, a receptionist just outside and around the corner. I'm going to a different place next time....a nice apartment with a bedroom further away. Hopefully i will be able to relax and ... (read in full...)

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

Q.   I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

A.   9 August 2012: I don't have any confidence to join any groups as suggested and i don't like clubs and bars-never have done in fact-i always felt strange in places like that surrounded by good-looking folk. But at the present moment i'm plucking up enough courage ... (read in full...)

Abstinence from masturbation before first time sex?

Q.   I have visited an escort agency for first time sex and failed miserably to achieve an erection. I am 44 and have always masturbated with no problem and get erections. I have always used straight sex images and softcore porn for inspiration and ...

A.   8 August 2012: I am going to book another session at the escort agency, this time for a couple of hours. I need to be able to relax and hopefully 'perform'. You know what, when i last visited an escort she was the only woman who never had a detrimental comment ... (read in full...)

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

Q.   I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

A.   7 August 2012: I have been a gym member in the past, done various classes and have plenty of interests. I have done all the things that people have suggested. None of it matters if you are physically unattractive..believe me i have had 30yrs of comments and being ... (read in full...)

I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

A.   7 August 2012: Try being a virgin at 44!! I have attended evening classes in the past, have various interests including keep fit, country pubs, driving, sports etc but physically i am unattractive and always have been. No woman has ever shown any interest in me or ... (read in full...)

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

Q.   I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

A.   6 August 2012: I have always been able to masturbate-but of course with porn/images all too readily available it becomes all too easy. Perhaps i should cut back on viewing images and go back to the escort for a couple of hours in amonths time or so. On the s... (read in full...)

Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.

Q.   I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...

A.   4 August 2012: I can masturbate with no problems whatsoever-perhaps that is the problem, that is all i have ever done. I have never been in the situation in real-life.... (read in full...)

I'm a 44 year old virgin, 1st time will be with escort. Any advice?

Q.   I posted an earlier question about losing my virginity to an escort agency because i have never had sex or been on a date. Many thanks for the responses!! Someone answered that i couldn't possibly be so ugly, well you don't get to be 44 and not...

A.   18 July 2012: I'm re-joining a gym next month and will be setting some fitness goals. And perhaps a month after that a nerve racking call to an escort agency for an in-call. Not sure what to expect when i go and what she will think of me but it's a new experien... (read in full...)

I'm a 44 year old virgin, 1st time will be with escort. Any advice?

Q.   I posted an earlier question about losing my virginity to an escort agency because i have never had sex or been on a date. Many thanks for the responses!! Someone answered that i couldn't possibly be so ugly, well you don't get to be 44 and not...

A.   16 July 2012: I'm too old and too nervous to go to bars/singles clubs because i have had a lifetime of listening to comments from idiots (and that is what they are) about being ugly. I have had women pretend to do other things than talk to me....for example get a ... (read in full...)

I'm a 44 year old virgin, 1st time will be with escort. Any advice?

Q.   I posted an earlier question about losing my virginity to an escort agency because i have never had sex or been on a date. Many thanks for the responses!! Someone answered that i couldn't possibly be so ugly, well you don't get to be 44 and not...

A.   16 July 2012: I'm in England and the cops are not an issue here!! I have found a respectable seeming escort agency and have the number written down. It is going to take guts to even phone up let alone go. I reckon about a months time is ok. Going to book 2 hours ... (read in full...)

I'm a 44 year old virgin, 1st time will be with escort. Any advice?

Q.   I posted an earlier question about losing my virginity to an escort agency because i have never had sex or been on a date. Many thanks for the responses!! Someone answered that i couldn't possibly be so ugly, well you don't get to be 44 and not...

A.   15 July 2012: Being laughed at and ridiculed for 30yrs isn't fun believe me. I haven't got a clue where to go from here, too old for clubs and bars, no sexual experience, no response from internet sites. Looking at it from a matter of fact viewpoint i actually ... (read in full...)

I'm 44 and still a virgin. Should I lose my virginity to an escort?

Q.   I am a virgin at 44 and was looking for advice on how to remedy the situation. In my case i have always had comments aimed at me because i'm let's say not exactly nice-looking. Ugly in fact, let's not beat about the bush.Because of this i have never ...

A.   14 July 2012: I have also thought about signing on at a gym again. I was a member between the ages of 28 and 35. Actually i don't even judge myself on looks really-i can only go on what i have been told and what i've heard people say about me. It isn't nice-wha... (read in full...)

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