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We are ready for sex. Recommendations?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...

A.   18 May 2008: Sex without a condom always feels better for a man. I've had mixed feedback from women as to whether it's better with or without. Most women I've been with seem to prefer the ribbed and studded condoms, when we use them. You should always use a co... (read in full...)

I'm confused, am I missing something here?

Q.   Hi Me a my boyfriend of 4 years have talked about marriage, i wanted to go ahead but he's not so keen. He says he's not in to marriage, what difference is a piece of paper going to make, and that he loves me. Then the other day his friend came ...

A.   18 May 2008: I don't think you're missing anything. You want to get married, your boyfriend doesn't. You want more commitment, but he's happy with the way things are. The bottom line is that he has to want marriage too. He isn't going to do it just to please y... (read in full...)

What are the rules of cheating?

Q.   i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?...

A.   18 May 2008: You have to set your own rules, the point is that both partners have to agree to them and stick to them. Someone who is into swinging doesn't mind if their partner has sex with someone else, so long as it is within agreed boundaries and at agreed ... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?

Q.   Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?...

A.   18 May 2008: Well your first time should perhaps be someone you feel comfortable with and who is understanding about your lack of experience. Someone with whom you can talk openly about sexual stuff and not get embarrassed. Doesn't matter whether he's 25, 35 or ... (read in full...)

Why does she seem to want more than I know how to give her?

Q.   I am in a troubled relationship right now of one and a half years. We fell in love with each other as soon as we met. She is very fun to be around when she is actually in a good mood and when things are going her way. Lately, she has given me the ...

A.   18 May 2008: You can only work things out if you can make her concede that she can't be number one all the time and that she needs to give as well as take. Do you want to spend your life catering to a pampered princess? She's only happy to be with you when ... (read in full...)

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