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| | rhythmandblues2's profile:Hi I am a from the midwest and lived in Texas for years as well.
I am college educated, have owned my own business, worked for the number one Telecom company selling data networking services to high growth markets, Fortune 1000 companies. Have started Human Resource Department, have worked in Vacation Ownership and live in in a Vacation Destination.
What qualifies me to help people? Mostly life experience, I'm 53 as well as a degree in Psychology and an ongoing interest in the field and in relationships.
I have a several long term relationships in my history, but am currently single after ending a 2 year relationship with someone 15 years younger than myself. My longest relationship was with a man exactly my age, so I have a lot of experience with different things.
I believe that most personal problems involve a problem with thinking and we all need help with that when we are too close to be objective. I don't believe in hand holding and coddling folks if, you come here for advice then I assume you want the truth and you want a solution, so that is what I try to provide.
Sometimes you may not like the advice, but that is OK, too.
Bottom line is no one can really make your decisions for you when it is your life we are speaking about, so I try to make you think or ask you some questions to ask yourself so that you can come up with your own answers.
Hopefully, I have done that, made you stop and think.
I am owned by two Russian Blue Cats, named Rhythm and Lilly, that is where my name for my account comes from as these are purebred blue cats, however, I do like music as well.
I also have a young male Black Shih-Tzu dog who keeps me laughing every day, he is such a clown.
I live near family and have really close friends that I cherish.
I have no children, I am an Aunt to 13 year old twins, boy and girl.
My friends tell me I should have been a lawyer, but that never really interested me too much, it is just I have an analytical mind and a good sense of what is right and what is wrong and all that is in between.
I love animals and am interested in medicine and science, art rather than sports and many other subjects.
Thank you for giving me the priviledge of answering your questions.
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Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: http://www.amazon.com/Drug-New-Millennium-Internet-Pornography/product-reviews/0967776406/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=1
Here is a link to a the first book that talked about the mind body connection to porn and how it is addic... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: Here are some worthwhile articles to read and consider,
I am sure there are books written about this subject as well, which you can do a search for. I don't envy parents raising young children in today's world, it is unchartered territory for ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: I don't think you should say anything at all to her about it.
I do think you need to put a password/lock on the family computer and it is off limits unless parents are home.
That will keep her off the porn sights. I don't think porn is ever acce... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...
A. 7 November 2009: I agree, you are both way too young. You cannot support a child, you haven't finished your education. Getting additional schooling or a college diploma will help secure your future. It would be just about impossible to do that at youra ages ... (read in full...)
Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?
Q. Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...
A. 7 November 2009: Suggestions/solutions
1. Job Hunting- Employers are not impressed when you show up to apply for a job with someone in tow. You are more likely to get the job and and interview if you go to the job interview alone, at least without your spouse o... (read in full...)
The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?
Q. I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...
A. 6 November 2009: I have to say that there is never any excuse for cheating.
However, I think it is a very personal choice as to whether or not you can save your marriage after an affair.
Your marriage was very much at risk for an affair however, because... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: I don't know that he is playing you, that would mean he has a bunch of other women on the string, you haven't mentioned that. He isn't ready to introduce you to his family, it could be because he is afraid his family or yours will be very ... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?
Q. I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...
A. 6 November 2009: Well, I am going to tell you something that I have told very few people, but I hope my telling it here will help you.
When I was 21, I was raped by someone that I knew and actually loved a lot, but it was rape, I was sodomized actually to be blunt... (read in full...)
Permanently dehydrated...
Q. Ok well this isnt really relationshippy, but i need help. I'm pernamently dehydrated, and i have some sort of mental block in me that makes me hate to drink. i refuse to drink tap water and am allergic to most juices, and i can only drink from small ...
A. 6 November 2009: GO TO YOUR DOCTOR FOR A CHECK UP AND DIAGNOSIS. WE ARE NOT MEDICAL DOCTORS AND IT WOULD BE IRRESPONSIBLE OF US TO TELL YOU HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
IF YOU ARE DEHYDRATED GO TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM, THAT IS DANGEROUS YOU CAN DIE FROM THAT OR ... (read in full...)
Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?
Q. I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...
A. 6 November 2009: You two decided to break up, and he is doing the no contact thing to either move on from you, or to get exactly the reaction he is getting from you, you are chasing him.
I suggest you stop contacting him at all and start moving on with your lif... (read in full...)
Should I ask about this 'business' trip?
Q. My husband and his good friend (male) spent a weekend away from home for business/fun. Shortly after I got an anonymous phone message suggesting my husband had a female with him. His work is extremely busy right now which I figured is the reason f...
A. 5 November 2009: I think if you trust this friend to tell you the truth, then go ahead and ask him and tell him what happened to make you ask the question. It may put him in an awkward position but so what, if he, is not the type of guy to cover for your husband he ... (read in full...)
How can I forget the emotional abuse?
Q. i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...
A. 5 November 2009: Getting calls where no one answers or getting calls with a couple of rings and then it stops is not emotional abuse.
I find it unfathomable that any guy that you went out with twice would spend 9 years calling you and not speaking to you.
... (read in full...)
Just can't figure him out!
Q. I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...
A. 5 November 2009: No one else will have a friendship like the one you share. Everyone is different, so I don't think you are asking the right questions.
You are still trying to figure out what he wants out of your relationship before you will take a risk at telli... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?
Q. I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...
A. 5 November 2009: Did you have sex with him on one of those two dates?... (read in full...)
Is he "taking it slow" or disinterested?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a little over a month. He is significantly older than me (13 years) and pretty busy. We talked last Saturday and Sunday and we both said we wanted to take things slow due to failed past relationships (jumping into ...
A. 5 November 2009: Perhaps you are a little too gung ho. I mean at dating just over a month, why are you expecting things from him at all? He isn't a boyfriend, he is a date.
Stop putting your focus on just this one man, and accept some dates from other men. Ea... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 5 November 2009: Dear Cupidsland,
Now that the veil has been lifted from your eyes about the secret down low life of these men, surely you must realize that he has acted on all of this.
If you have a gay male friend, go talk to him about how many homosexual ... (read in full...)
He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!
Q. I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...
A. 5 November 2009: I would have broken up with him when he told me he was in a relationship and was dating me and didn't tell me.
It seems to me that he is on the rebound, he is using you to avoid dealing with his feelings over his past breakup.
Usually, thes... (read in full...)
Are these signs she wants to pick up where we left off, or just remain a friend?
Q. I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out ...
A. 5 November 2009: The woman is married, what do you think.... (read in full...)
I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!
Q. I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...
A. 5 November 2009: I think this is damning evidence that he is a predator and has a problem, yes in fact criminal behavior.
I would confront him about it. I am sure he won't like it.
From the sounds of it, I wouldn't trust him, and I would call this a deal brea... (read in full...)
Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?
Q. Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give ...
A. 5 November 2009: Ok, here goes. You have a really bad crush on this girl whom you never talk to, don't you? It is cute really.
But the thing about crushes is it is all a figment of your imagination, she must be a very attractive, pretty girl to you and you have... (read in full...)
How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?
Q. Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who i...
A. 5 November 2009: I am sorry to say but I don't think this sounds like a very healthy relationship.
I can't say if your girlfriend is criticizing the things your are interested in, your opinions, what you watch on TV or withholds affection because she is projecti... (read in full...)
Was it all in my head or did my professor have feelings for me?
Q. So this is complicated, I was asked by one of my Professors like three semesters agao to join a Behavioral Philosophy Lab that he was going to start at school. One day he approached me and asked if i would like to join and he explained to me ...
A. 5 November 2009: I think your professor cared about you like a student and he gets a little over involved asking about your personal life, but he probably just wanted to know if you were alright or happy. I think the other things were just coincidences. His web ... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 5 November 2009: I am with you Leann, I think living together is a bit of a cop out, I don't like the idea of a trial run for marriage, it tells me that person is not at all ready to commit, so why would you change your life and give up all your independence for a ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!
Q. Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...
A. 5 November 2009: You sound like a really sweet guy and I can understand why your ex still wants to be friends with you. I am sure she would feel rotten if she thought you were mad with her or hated her.
I think if it is too painful right now for you to continue... (read in full...)
My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?
Q. i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...
A. 4 November 2009: That's ridiculous. Are you 12 and playing doctor? Then yeah go ahead and show it and she will run off screaming.
If you are a couple of adults, she is trying to have her way with you and is kinda perverted by asking.
Is this even a real post... (read in full...)
Should I end this now and rebuild our friendship or see what happens next?
Q. I have been known this guy since I was 3 years old. I was best mates with his sister right until Highschool. I dont remember him through my childhood years though, he was the shy kid... The last couple of years me and this guy have reconnec...
A. 4 November 2009: What you are is commonly referred to as friends with benefits. You are making little excuses for why he hasn't made this more like he is shy and he is crap with women and relationships, he told me.
Well, those things may be true, but he is still... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 4 November 2009: If you really need to know where his head is at, then you must ask him, he is the only one who knows.
Instead of just blurting out marriage, start by asking him what he thinks of you, then ask him how he feels about you and that will tell you alot... (read in full...)
I've been having online sex chats with him but I think I am starting to want more from him!
Q. Hi I am 29 female in need of bit of help I am very keen on a guy whom has been my friend for so many years. he is so keen in me as someone whom give’s sex talk with. but is keen to have sex if we both get a chance when ever It is possible.. We...
A. 4 November 2009: I can't help you on this one, it sounds like the worst thing ever.
My only advice is get out of sex chats and go to therapy to find out why you have such a strong fear of committment and why you prefer sex chats to the real thing, why you seem to ... (read in full...)
When we are together it is amazing, but after a couple of days she becomes more distant! What should I do next?
Q. Hi there all, Sorry for the long story but..... I am desperately looking for some help and any answers would be deeply appreciated. I have recently split up with my girlfriend of 2 Years. It was a very troubled relationship with arguments ...
A. 4 November 2009: I think long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain for both sides. Insecurity is part of it, feelings of unrequited love, overblown emotions rather than the secure feeling of a healthy relationship, dealing with the seperations, ... (read in full...)
Why has she changed so suddenly?
Q. help me please, im screwing the best thing i have ever had in the world up and yet i cant stop myself. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 4 months now and i am so deeply in love with her, she makes me feel wanted needed and loved in...
A. 4 November 2009: First off, a 4 month relationship is still in the early stages, the first part of the relationship is all about infatuation and lust. I seriously doubt that you are deeply in love with her at this point, you may be projecting on to her what and who ... (read in full...)
How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?
Q. I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older email...
A. 4 November 2009: I think the DUDE has some good points.
Why on earth are you beating yourself up over a long distance relationship of 6 months. It sounds to me that you are her security blanket and she is dependent on you for those phone calls etc, she sounds l... (read in full...)
They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?
Q. Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...
A. 4 November 2009:
Of course saying you are pretty but fat is rude! As a general rule kids around the age lf 13 can be incredibly rude and cruel to each other. I guess it is a rite of passage because it has been going on for generations. The trick is not to make... (read in full...)
Wife chooses porn over me!
Q. Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...
A. 4 November 2009: Go and get some marriage counseling. My guess is she is in her early 20's and has difficulty having orgasms when you have vaginal sex. Many women are like this and especially younger ones for a variety of reasons.
She knows how to have one by hers... (read in full...)
How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?
Q. I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older email...
A. 4 November 2009: I am not sure what purpose it would serve to prove she calls and emails some other guy, she will just say he is a friend and she gave you the password so I doubt she is really trying to hide much from you.
I am not in favor of Long Distance... (read in full...)
I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!
Q. i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...
A. 3 November 2009: Sorry for the double post, I am having trouble with the site.... (read in full...)
I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!
Q. i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...
A. 3 November 2009: Don't meet him, wast of time, player, too lazy to meet women elsewhere, using the internet dating thing as a way to pick up chicks like a meat market only better....there is no driving from bar to bar and no money spent on buying drinks and no ... (read in full...)
I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!
Q. i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...
A. 3 November 2009: This is not a guy worth your time, he is an on line predator and using it as a lazy way to pick up chicks. We used to call bars meat markets, now a lot of men on line are doing the same thing from the comfort of their home, think what they must ... (read in full...)
I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!
Q. my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...
A. 3 November 2009: If you share the same cell plan, buy the service that blocks numbers and block her from calling or texting, or if his phone has that ability block her with the phone.
I know that isn't the solution because your husband does not want to stop talk... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: I think a lot of people on here have read what I have written and applied a faulty logic to it using linear reasoning. When this is not a linear problem.
By saying that the main reason that most states in the UNITED STATES do not allow first co... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: You may want to read the article below which is an in depth reason that genetics trump normalizing first cousin couple marriages and mating. Moral arguments will never be settled, but I err on the side of science.
Please take a read if you dare... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: If you will notice all of the encouraging advice is coming to you from the UK where it is legal for first cousins to marry. Even so it is still the minority that first cousins marry. I guess the Royal Family have married within their own family to ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: Well, I did a little research on birth defects with 1st cousins and you have a 4-6% chance of birth defects which is double what it is for unrelated couples. That number seems relatively low, but in my opinion it is too high for my comfort level. ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: I think most physicians unless right to lifers will tell you too abort. You are too closely related to have a healthy fetus. The baby if carried full term will more than likely have mental and physical disabilities. I don't buy that you had one... (read in full...)
Just can't figure him out!
Q. I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...
A. 2 November 2009: I don't think there is a 100% accurate way of telling how someone really feels about you, you can project your own feelings quite easily on another.
From what you are describing though, it does appear that he has some deeper feelings for you, or ... (read in full...)
Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?
Q. Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...
A. 1 November 2009: Oh my gosh, you two don't have anything better to do besides make having sex or not a battle ground?
If you are engaged then I would think you would want to have sex and lots of it and not start accusing him of not wanting to spend any money on... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Not the same dude. If you are in a relationship with a real woman, then you should not need porn, and she sees it as an insult becasue if you need visual stimulation, well there she is.
Women would only use their little thingy while you are in a... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: No, Q, you men have your hands for that, don't need a little vibrating thingy.... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Sometimes God sends you a message of a warning flag that maybe this isn't right, then he will send you another until one day he practically hits you over the head with it.
If you have to monitor and have your boyfriend followed and his activiti... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: Yeah, well female anon, this gal is from Texas, I lived in Texas right after college for twelve years and still have a sister and her family that live there, best friends live in Texas and I know what most Texans are about and I can tell from this ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: Apparantly the female anons who are so sure of their positions that they can't even have a screen name to let you know what they post about.
Further, they lack reading comprehension. Your boyfriend admitted he had a problem for a few years an... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: OMG, Sugar Bear is soooo right on this one girlfriend.
Yes you should quit your job and spend all your time monitoring your boyfriend's computer and cell phone because you know she has a degree in psychology and she knows that if you monitor ... (read in full...)
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