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| | rhythmandblues2's profile:Hi I am a from the midwest and lived in Texas for years as well.
I am college educated, have owned my own business, worked for the number one Telecom company selling data networking services to high growth markets, Fortune 1000 companies. Have started Human Resource Department, have worked in Vacation Ownership and live in in a Vacation Destination.
What qualifies me to help people? Mostly life experience, I'm 53 as well as a degree in Psychology and an ongoing interest in the field and in relationships.
I have a several long term relationships in my history, but am currently single after ending a 2 year relationship with someone 15 years younger than myself. My longest relationship was with a man exactly my age, so I have a lot of experience with different things.
I believe that most personal problems involve a problem with thinking and we all need help with that when we are too close to be objective. I don't believe in hand holding and coddling folks if, you come here for advice then I assume you want the truth and you want a solution, so that is what I try to provide.
Sometimes you may not like the advice, but that is OK, too.
Bottom line is no one can really make your decisions for you when it is your life we are speaking about, so I try to make you think or ask you some questions to ask yourself so that you can come up with your own answers.
Hopefully, I have done that, made you stop and think.
I am owned by two Russian Blue Cats, named Rhythm and Lilly, that is where my name for my account comes from as these are purebred blue cats, however, I do like music as well.
I also have a young male Black Shih-Tzu dog who keeps me laughing every day, he is such a clown.
I live near family and have really close friends that I cherish.
I have no children, I am an Aunt to 13 year old twins, boy and girl.
My friends tell me I should have been a lawyer, but that never really interested me too much, it is just I have an analytical mind and a good sense of what is right and what is wrong and all that is in between.
I love animals and am interested in medicine and science, art rather than sports and many other subjects.
Thank you for giving me the priviledge of answering your questions.
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I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?
Q. I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think the best way to handle this is to write it down in a short note that you were devastated that he and your friend betrayed you so you told him about the abortion (knowing how that would make him feel) to hurt him. Tell him that you cared en... (read in full...)
Despite her denials I think she wants more than friendship too
Q. Okay I need help understanding this! I am a 48 year old female who told a 55 year old unhappily married female that my feelings for her went deeper than just friendship. She denies feeling the same way but based on many things she has said to me and ...
A. 19 November 2009: I do think her email was strange, it could be though that she is just needing a close friend to take up for some of the lack of intimacy in her marriage, not that she is interested in an affair with you. By the way, just because you are two fema... (read in full...)
Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?
Q. I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think you made the right decision for you. You are not responsible for his parents feelings or their beliefs about "killing" a baby. Those are drama filled words with absolutely no basis in reality. You had some cells that divided and you got ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?
Q. ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...
A. 18 November 2009: You are terribly young to have been with this same person for 6 years. Relationships started at this young age have a low survival rate..because you are two very different people then you were 6 years ago, and you will continue to change quite a ... (read in full...)
My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!
Q. I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...
A. 11 November 2009: Your husband's porn addiction has nothing to do with how you look.
I would tell him that he has to get some help, he needs counseling. He truly has an addiction.
If he can't change his behavior, this would be a deal breaker for me just as i... (read in full...)
He wants me to be 'his woman', but I suspect I'm not the only one.
Q. Hey guys... He's been asking me to be his woman, but honestly I dont feel like I'm the only one that he's seeing...even though I met his mom. That doesnt mean nothing though. He's good looking and attracts many girls. When I went to see him, I we...
A. 9 November 2009: I think the best way to approach this is to not stop dating other men. Going out with someone for three weeks is just the dress rehearsal. You don't know anyting about this guy really.
The fact that he wants you to be his woman after only thr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend dumped me for cheating, but I later found out he cheated too!
Q. ok, so basically i have split up with my boyfriend, we were going out for 2 yrs 3 months, he dumped me and the reason for it was that he found out the hard way that i cheated. i cheated back in february of this year but that was only kissing ...
A. 9 November 2009: This kind of a relationship really makes me a bit ill.
It is pretty much based on sex, whether you see it that way or not.
You two are not ready to be in a comitted relationship so you would have just continued to fight and make up fight and ma... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!
Q. Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...
A. 9 November 2009: I get the feeling that you two are arguing and fighting about "topics" like porn, when the issue is that you don't feel that she loves and respects you.
You started a discussion about finding the porn on her lap top and that you don't know how... (read in full...)
Being harrassed by a married, former coworker?
Q. Hey, I'm an aunt on this site and I'm very frustrated with a situation that I haven't been able handle. There was a married coworker, 2 small children, of mine that I worked with for 3yrs and we had a good, professional relationship. NOTHING ...
A. 8 November 2009: Hey there, you have good instincts about people and you probably know this guy a lot better than any of us.
But I did just want to say that it really is not a universal rule that it is rude to call someone even a coworker after 9 PM, I mean a l... (read in full...)
Being harrassed by a married, former coworker?
Q. Hey, I'm an aunt on this site and I'm very frustrated with a situation that I haven't been able handle. There was a married coworker, 2 small children, of mine that I worked with for 3yrs and we had a good, professional relationship. NOTHING ...
A. 8 November 2009: Hey there, you have good instincts about people and you probably know this guy a lot better than any of us.
But I did just want to say that it really is not a universal rule that it is rude to call someone even a coworker after 9 PM, I mean a l... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!
Q. Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...
A. 8 November 2009: I think you both need to grow up and either decide that your use of porn is OK, or it isn't and make a pact not to view porn on the internet.
But to throw something in someone's face just because they did it to you is childish.
Just get over... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't touched me for a month. Is there someone else?
Q. Looking for honest answers here: My boyfriend of 4 years and I have not had sex in more than a month. He was away for 3 and 1/2 week on business, but he's now been back for an entire week. We live together, but the first 2 nights he was back, he ...
A. 8 November 2009: I don't think it is a good sign that after 4 years of being together that both of you would question the other about sleeping with someone else just because he was away on business for 3 1/2 weeks.
It is odd that he did not want to have sex with... (read in full...)
Being harrassed by a married, former coworker?
Q. Hey, I'm an aunt on this site and I'm very frustrated with a situation that I haven't been able handle. There was a married coworker, 2 small children, of mine that I worked with for 3yrs and we had a good, professional relationship. NOTHING ...
A. 8 November 2009: Well, I can certainly see why you would be annoyed and a llttle freaked out so you didn't answer the phone when he called, you went into avoidance mode.
I think your email was a bit direct and he might not really get the point of why you only wan... (read in full...)
What do you think about a man who will beg you back into a relationship?
Q. I would like to ask what you think about a man who will beg you back into a relationship, tell you he loves you, then once you feel comfortable in replying with the same response, "I love you", he immediately shuts down. I have been off and on ...
A. 8 November 2009: Fear. Fear of committment, fear of making a mistake.
I don't think it means that he does not want you, but I think you might ask him if he would considering going to counseling to figure out why he is so hot and then cold.
You both sound emoti... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: http://www.amazon.com/Drug-New-Millennium-Internet-Pornography/product-reviews/0967776406/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=1
Here is a link to a the first book that talked about the mind body connection to porn and how it is addic... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: Here are some worthwhile articles to read and consider,
I am sure there are books written about this subject as well, which you can do a search for. I don't envy parents raising young children in today's world, it is unchartered territory for ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: I don't think you should say anything at all to her about it.
I do think you need to put a password/lock on the family computer and it is off limits unless parents are home.
That will keep her off the porn sights. I don't think porn is ever acce... (read in full...)
Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?
Q. Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...
A. 7 November 2009: Suggestions/solutions
1. Job Hunting- Employers are not impressed when you show up to apply for a job with someone in tow. You are more likely to get the job and and interview if you go to the job interview alone, at least without your spouse o... (read in full...)
The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?
Q. I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...
A. 6 November 2009: I have to say that there is never any excuse for cheating.
However, I think it is a very personal choice as to whether or not you can save your marriage after an affair.
Your marriage was very much at risk for an affair however, because... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: I don't know that he is playing you, that would mean he has a bunch of other women on the string, you haven't mentioned that. He isn't ready to introduce you to his family, it could be because he is afraid his family or yours will be very ... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?
Q. I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...
A. 6 November 2009: Well, I am going to tell you something that I have told very few people, but I hope my telling it here will help you.
When I was 21, I was raped by someone that I knew and actually loved a lot, but it was rape, I was sodomized actually to be blunt... (read in full...)
Permanently dehydrated...
Q. Ok well this isnt really relationshippy, but i need help. I'm pernamently dehydrated, and i have some sort of mental block in me that makes me hate to drink. i refuse to drink tap water and am allergic to most juices, and i can only drink from small ...
A. 6 November 2009: GO TO YOUR DOCTOR FOR A CHECK UP AND DIAGNOSIS. WE ARE NOT MEDICAL DOCTORS AND IT WOULD BE IRRESPONSIBLE OF US TO TELL YOU HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
IF YOU ARE DEHYDRATED GO TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM, THAT IS DANGEROUS YOU CAN DIE FROM THAT OR ... (read in full...)
Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?
Q. I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...
A. 6 November 2009: You two decided to break up, and he is doing the no contact thing to either move on from you, or to get exactly the reaction he is getting from you, you are chasing him.
I suggest you stop contacting him at all and start moving on with your lif... (read in full...)
Should I ask about this 'business' trip?
Q. My husband and his good friend (male) spent a weekend away from home for business/fun. Shortly after I got an anonymous phone message suggesting my husband had a female with him. His work is extremely busy right now which I figured is the reason f...
A. 5 November 2009: I think if you trust this friend to tell you the truth, then go ahead and ask him and tell him what happened to make you ask the question. It may put him in an awkward position but so what, if he, is not the type of guy to cover for your husband he ... (read in full...)
How can I forget the emotional abuse?
Q. i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...
A. 5 November 2009: Getting calls where no one answers or getting calls with a couple of rings and then it stops is not emotional abuse.
I find it unfathomable that any guy that you went out with twice would spend 9 years calling you and not speaking to you.
... (read in full...)
Just can't figure him out!
Q. I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...
A. 5 November 2009: No one else will have a friendship like the one you share. Everyone is different, so I don't think you are asking the right questions.
You are still trying to figure out what he wants out of your relationship before you will take a risk at telli... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?
Q. I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...
A. 5 November 2009: Did you have sex with him on one of those two dates?... (read in full...)
Is he "taking it slow" or disinterested?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a little over a month. He is significantly older than me (13 years) and pretty busy. We talked last Saturday and Sunday and we both said we wanted to take things slow due to failed past relationships (jumping into ...
A. 5 November 2009: Perhaps you are a little too gung ho. I mean at dating just over a month, why are you expecting things from him at all? He isn't a boyfriend, he is a date.
Stop putting your focus on just this one man, and accept some dates from other men. Ea... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 5 November 2009: Dear Cupidsland,
Now that the veil has been lifted from your eyes about the secret down low life of these men, surely you must realize that he has acted on all of this.
If you have a gay male friend, go talk to him about how many homosexual ... (read in full...)
He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!
Q. I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...
A. 5 November 2009: I would have broken up with him when he told me he was in a relationship and was dating me and didn't tell me.
It seems to me that he is on the rebound, he is using you to avoid dealing with his feelings over his past breakup.
Usually, thes... (read in full...)
Are these signs she wants to pick up where we left off, or just remain a friend?
Q. I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out ...
A. 5 November 2009: The woman is married, what do you think.... (read in full...)
I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!
Q. I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...
A. 5 November 2009: I think this is damning evidence that he is a predator and has a problem, yes in fact criminal behavior.
I would confront him about it. I am sure he won't like it.
From the sounds of it, I wouldn't trust him, and I would call this a deal brea... (read in full...)
Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?
Q. Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give ...
A. 5 November 2009: Ok, here goes. You have a really bad crush on this girl whom you never talk to, don't you? It is cute really.
But the thing about crushes is it is all a figment of your imagination, she must be a very attractive, pretty girl to you and you have... (read in full...)
How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?
Q. Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who i...
A. 5 November 2009: I am sorry to say but I don't think this sounds like a very healthy relationship.
I can't say if your girlfriend is criticizing the things your are interested in, your opinions, what you watch on TV or withholds affection because she is projecti... (read in full...)
Was it all in my head or did my professor have feelings for me?
Q. So this is complicated, I was asked by one of my Professors like three semesters agao to join a Behavioral Philosophy Lab that he was going to start at school. One day he approached me and asked if i would like to join and he explained to me ...
A. 5 November 2009: I think your professor cared about you like a student and he gets a little over involved asking about your personal life, but he probably just wanted to know if you were alright or happy. I think the other things were just coincidences. His web ... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 5 November 2009: I am with you Leann, I think living together is a bit of a cop out, I don't like the idea of a trial run for marriage, it tells me that person is not at all ready to commit, so why would you change your life and give up all your independence for a ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!
Q. Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...
A. 5 November 2009: You sound like a really sweet guy and I can understand why your ex still wants to be friends with you. I am sure she would feel rotten if she thought you were mad with her or hated her.
I think if it is too painful right now for you to continue... (read in full...)
My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?
Q. i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...
A. 4 November 2009: That's ridiculous. Are you 12 and playing doctor? Then yeah go ahead and show it and she will run off screaming.
If you are a couple of adults, she is trying to have her way with you and is kinda perverted by asking.
Is this even a real post... (read in full...)
Should I end this now and rebuild our friendship or see what happens next?
Q. I have been known this guy since I was 3 years old. I was best mates with his sister right until Highschool. I dont remember him through my childhood years though, he was the shy kid... The last couple of years me and this guy have reconnec...
A. 4 November 2009: What you are is commonly referred to as friends with benefits. You are making little excuses for why he hasn't made this more like he is shy and he is crap with women and relationships, he told me.
Well, those things may be true, but he is still... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 4 November 2009: If you really need to know where his head is at, then you must ask him, he is the only one who knows.
Instead of just blurting out marriage, start by asking him what he thinks of you, then ask him how he feels about you and that will tell you alot... (read in full...)
Just can't figure him out!
Q. I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...
A. 2 November 2009: I don't think there is a 100% accurate way of telling how someone really feels about you, you can project your own feelings quite easily on another.
From what you are describing though, it does appear that he has some deeper feelings for you, or ... (read in full...)
Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?
Q. Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...
A. 1 November 2009: Oh my gosh, you two don't have anything better to do besides make having sex or not a battle ground?
If you are engaged then I would think you would want to have sex and lots of it and not start accusing him of not wanting to spend any money on... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Not the same dude. If you are in a relationship with a real woman, then you should not need porn, and she sees it as an insult becasue if you need visual stimulation, well there she is.
Women would only use their little thingy while you are in a... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: No, Q, you men have your hands for that, don't need a little vibrating thingy.... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Sometimes God sends you a message of a warning flag that maybe this isn't right, then he will send you another until one day he practically hits you over the head with it.
If you have to monitor and have your boyfriend followed and his activiti... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: Yeah, well female anon, this gal is from Texas, I lived in Texas right after college for twelve years and still have a sister and her family that live there, best friends live in Texas and I know what most Texans are about and I can tell from this ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: Apparantly the female anons who are so sure of their positions that they can't even have a screen name to let you know what they post about.
Further, they lack reading comprehension. Your boyfriend admitted he had a problem for a few years an... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: OMG, Sugar Bear is soooo right on this one girlfriend.
Yes you should quit your job and spend all your time monitoring your boyfriend's computer and cell phone because you know she has a degree in psychology and she knows that if you monitor ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?
Q. I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...
A. 23 October 2009: I am with older sister on this one. I don't understand why you told your other family members without first having made a decision on your own as to how you were going to proceed. It is very early in your pregnancy, many women who are married ... (read in full...)
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