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My parents hate my LDR and refuse to let me talk to him, let alone see him

Q.   Some basic info first: (sorry, this is going to be a bit long) I'm currently i'm a 19 y/o above average college student, living at home. I'm unemployed, but i'm currently looking for a job for the summer. I'm the oldest child of two. My boyfrien...

A.   12 May 2011: My goodness, doesn't that sound familiar. About 3 years ago I was in a long distance relationship - 15 hours away. I had known this girl since I was 13. She was my best friend and practically grew up together over the phone and web. I was 19 w... (read in full...)

How can I stop by bf from coming so fast during sex?

Q.   Hi, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for the past two months and we have been real happy, I lost my virginity to him and he told me he had sex before, he is real open and caring about it. He always asks me if I'm on with him trying something ...

A.   12 May 2011: Great question. The best thing you can do without offending him (actually, this could spice things up!) is if YOU take control. Get on top, set the pace for awhile, speed it up, slow it back down. I'm not sure what you are both into, but playing ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my wife if she would like to watch porn together to spice up our sex life?

Q.   I have been reading this site and a lot of women seem to question why their husbands like to look at porn or even disapprove of it completely. I think I understand that. It makes you feel inadequate and like he's cheating on you. However, d...

A.   12 May 2011: Now THAT is a tough one. I've been in relationships where the girl would actually suggest it to me, but it's different for a girl to ask than it is for us guys to, and I totally get the difficult position you're in. It's nice to see that you take ... (read in full...)

Guy I thought liked me left abruptly at graduation and I will probably never see him again. How do I get over my broken heart?

Q.   There was this guy i fell hard for recently. I got advice from a lot of people that i should tell him how i felt and to go for it to see how things would go because i really thought he was interested in me (he acted like he was). For example, he ...

A.   12 May 2011: Why let it go? If you feel so strongly about this, go after him. He's not gone yet. Take the risk, you will be happy either way, even if he doesn't feel the same. At least you know you tried. If you don't, you lose with a broken heart, wondering ... (read in full...)

Girl I am dating asked me if I want to see sex tape of her and a guy from college, and says her ex-bf liked to watch it! What do I make of this???

Q.   Aunts, can you please give me some perspective of this please. I have been dating this girl for like 3 months. she is gorgeous, 26, very sweet. I know she has a number of bfs in the past and she's experienced with guys. But i dont let that intimid...

A.   12 May 2011: My friend, that is a sticky situation you are in. Regarding her last boyfriends desire to see the video, every person has their sexual perks, and that was probably his. As a matter of fact, if he had the chance, he may have let her do it again as HE ... (read in full...)

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