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My 15 year old niece is pregnant, her mother does not know

Q.   Dear Reader I have a huge problem, my 15 year old niece has just told me she is 1mth 4days pregnant. My sister does not know, my niece told me she wants to keep the baby, i have tried to persuade her to tell her mother first. i have also advis...

A.   9 November 2010: I would allow her to finish up with her exams, get prepared for the consequences. Make her keep the deadline you two have agreed upon. Be there for her, dont let it get out of hand if your sister has violent behavior. Just be her aunt, and be ... (read in full...)

He makes fun of me, hurts me and then says he loves me?

Q.   I stopped at my boyfriends this weekend and he got drunk one night, I was lying on the sofa and he turned to me and said "wheres this come from?" and pointed at my stomach he then said "you've got a right little stomach on you" meaning he thinks ive ...

A.   8 November 2010: Keep an eye on it. Ok that was his first episode, he was drunk and not acting normal. Give him a break on that but fi you EVER see anything like that again, run away fast! It can only get worse. ... (read in full...)

My family says move on but he's my whole life!

Q.   Me and my first and current boyfriend of almost two years were dating when I found out the shocking news that two and a half months ago he had cheated on me with my now Ex-best friend. I found out by her phoning me early in the morning and her ...

A.   8 November 2010: I think you should break up :( Im sorry but cheating is a huge deal and very hurtful as hard as you try to forgive and forget you wont. Sucks im sorry :( ... (read in full...)

We hooked up and he's told all of our friends about it!

Q.   I started seeing this guy. When we got to the point where we hooked up, it was fun. So afterward, that's when things got complicated. It seems like thats all he wants from me now. I mean, he does make an attempt to be normal, but then he starts ...

A.   5 November 2010: Yep just keep your chin up. Dont let him use you for sex! Get away from him if that is how you feel. ... (read in full...)

I feel like if I don’t give him what he wants sexually, he wont treat me right

Q.   I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since we were 16. We have always has a good relationship but we have some major issues. I love him so much and will never give up on him. He has anger issues and trust issues. I admit that I did do ...

A.   5 November 2010: You are right Cerberus I have read it and printed it out and went through what has happened to me. The pages were covered in my pink highlighter. I know he is like this and you are right I have hope that he will someday change. I am hopelessly ... (read in full...)

I feel like if I don’t give him what he wants sexually, he wont treat me right

Q.   I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since we were 16. We have always has a good relationship but we have some major issues. I love him so much and will never give up on him. He has anger issues and trust issues. I admit that I did do ...

A.   5 November 2010: Hello everyone! Thanks you all for reading and sharing your advice I appreciate it very much. So we did not talk all day long until last night we had our son’s soccer practice. He was trying to be normal but mainly he was just being quiet, he never ... (read in full...)

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