Thinking about boyfriend's bestfriend while masterbating.
Q. Is it really ok if I masturbate while thinking about my boyfriends best friend?? I kinda feel bad about it....
A. 24 July 2009: There's no problem here! Enjoy yourself, and let you mind play whatever erotic script turns your crank! Your fantasys are going to morph over time and involve different players! These are your private films to play in your head! There is ZERO ... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex, but still missed my period
Q. So I'm 16 and am on birth control I've been having my period since i was about 9 and have been on birth control for almost 10 months. I haven't been having sex but I still missed my period. What could be the problem?...
A. 24 July 2009: Are you of normal weight? If your really thin your body can stop having periods - my best freind (a woman) didn't have one for a year. Odds are that nothing is wrong - I'm sure that some of the gals here will be able to offer some good advice... (read in full...)
Should I date this guy or should I keep waiting for the right one?
Q. I'm 21 and have never had a relationship before. My mom, friends, and even myself think that going through dates and relationships are just a natural part of life. I want to know what the buzz is. I do want to have all those experiences like going ...
A. 24 July 2009: Yes you should! However, your parents may be on to something here as well... Dating (vs. a relationship) is about getting out there and testing the waters. It's like a buffett - there are many dishes and you're going to have tasted a few, bu... (read in full...)
Tired of drama and heartbroken
Q. Hello to all, I just recently got out of a 14 month relationship with what I thought was a great guy, we met through friends. I had been separated from previous 8 year relationship for 2 years and figured it was time to give dating a try!! W...
A. 24 July 2009: It sounds as if you have worked all this out and I agree with your position - he's NOT someone who you can have a relationship with, he's got some serious issues, and you are 100% correct, you can't change him - and it sounds like he's not even ... (read in full...)
Virgin, tried sex twice and no luck.
Q. So I'm a virgin. And I've attempted sex twice. Both times we tried with me on top once and missionary once. Both times it just.. Wouldn't go. I know I'm really tight. Masterbating even hurts. I'm a bigger girl and he's a little chubby. Would that ...
A. 24 July 2009: It's hard to say what might be the issue here, but I'd like you know that you'll find a solution, and a good sex life is something that you're worthy of, so please don't give up. I'd suggest getting an appointment with your gynecologist, and ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to call a guy's penis a "penis"?
Q. this is a really random question and not that big of a deal - i'm just curious... but i read in a girl magazine once that guys don't like for you to call their dick a "penis" when you're screwing around because it's too anatomically correct and ...
A. 24 July 2009: Dick or cock.... pussy or cunt... vulva & vigina simply don't work for me... sex should have a little bit of smut associated with it... it's FUN, keep it light hearted!... (read in full...)
My best friend & my brother seeing each other
Q. I found out that my older brother and my best friend have been seeing each other! - i was so upset/angry/confused when i found out, i wasn't sure how to react and resulted in getting really emotional, i didn't want to be around my best friend and i ...
A. 24 July 2009: too long... odds are it won't last too long, if it does you'll get to see her on holidays...... (read in full...)
He was so embarassing to be with when he drinks that I don't invite him along anymore!
Q. This isn't exactly a relationship question...I moved to a new city a few months ago, and one of the first people I met was a guy who also just moved here and didn't know anyone. So we sort of became friends by default, though he likes me and has ...
A. 24 July 2009: Got an Al-anon meeting, and her from some women what's it's like to live with a drunk. Actually, they offer some really great tools for you to learn to stop worrying about friends who drink too much, and can assist you in learning about boundarys ... (read in full...)
Is it right to make my boyfriend choose between me and his mom?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. We have two kids together and he has one with someone else. When i first met him his mom was taking his son which i didn't understand. We got pregnant with out first child and before our first son ...
A. 24 July 2009: you've lost, if he hasn't cut the strings from Mom, your chances are ZERO... learn from this and get out there and find a healthy guy to date... (read in full...)
How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?
Q. hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over ...
A. 24 July 2009: If he's a psycho why the HELL do you wsant him back - let him become someone else's problem... get over him and find someone to have a healthy relationship with...... (read in full...)
How do I get her number without insinuating anything?
Q. Hi people, i need some advice desperately... So pls pls reply! Im 22 yrs old, and a very shy guy. I started a job (2 months) and there is this girl at work i really like. Now i got to know her slightly over the time, we talk on breaks or lunche...
A. 24 July 2009: Ok, first, stop the self defeating voices in your head... you sound like a nice guy. Next, for get the "not insinuating" anything... asking for a number is only insinuating that you'll CALL her!
Look, she's human, your human... you may have som... (read in full...)
Men: What do you look for in a girl when you want a long term relationship?
Q. Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her?...
A. 24 July 2009: Ok, here's a list...
1. Reasonably attractive - no models need apply, but does she care about herself? No need to spend a fortune on cloths, but have a sense of style, even if it's on a budget.
2. Can she carry on a conversation, us... (read in full...)
Things have gone from bad to worse with my abusive boyfriend
Q. hi! i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for three years now. at start, things were going so well but as time pass by it changes. he started hurting me,physically. and it really hurts me to know that he can do that to me. then, i m...
A. 24 July 2009: Tell this looser that your not in love with him, that he's abusive, and that you no longer want him in your life. You don't owe him anything. If he can't get that into his thick head, goto the police and get a restaining order that will keep him a ... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant, he says he'll do a runner! What should I do?
Q. i'm 16 and my boyfriend keeps telling me he thinks i'm pregnant. first time was when i felt sick, he said i was pregnant. second was when i started my period a day before, he went mental saying i'm pregnant etc, and loads more sh*t like that. ...
A. 24 July 2009: Dump this POS... he clearly isn't mature enough to be having sex with you... the BEST was to not get pregnant from this A-hole is to send him packing...... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings after a threesome with my BF
Q. I know i`m outta my head. For my bf birthday me and my best friend (who knows him well) had talked about a special gift. Still full of fear we planned the three of us and he was having a one off threesome he`d always joked with us about (he never ...
A. 24 July 2009: LOL, it's called "cuckolding" - the reason you're not finding much on it is because you've MISSPELLED it!
But if you reread the post, this was a FMF 3 some... the writter is a female and she says "I told her what to do"...
Odds are that the two... (read in full...)
My BF says if I loved him I would have sex with him
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 39. he said he loves me and if I loved him I would have sex with him. what should i do?...
A. 24 July 2009: Dump the old f*cker... 39 to 19... if he loved you he'd leave you along and date in his own generation... he's only after ONE THING, give it to him and watch him disappear!... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis bigger without pills?
Q. is there any way to make your dick bigger without pills or nothin that costs alot of money? like naturally really im fourteen and my dick is a litte over five inches hard two inches wide. is that normal size? if not how do you make it bigger? ...
A. 24 July 2009: Take a 20# weight, and a rope... no that won't work...
Sorry, there's no magic excercises, pills, food, potions, spells, sacrifices...
You can try keeping your hair trimed, it will make you look a bit longer!
Relax - you're in the normal r... (read in full...)
I had anal sex and I'm bleeding
Q. hi im 14 almost 15 ive been with this boy 1 year 5 months and i really love him but today i had anal sex with him unprotected for my first time it hurt a bit and he stopped but i noticed that there was like some bleeding and he cummed in me too and ...
A. 23 July 2009: Agree - your too young for sex, much less anal, which is advanced stuff, and something that you can get hurt (or killed) by doing. you can rip delicate tissue, and these rips can take weeks or months to heal. If you rip your spincter, you could ... (read in full...)
My b/f keeps asking me for anal sex, I don't know what to do or how it's done?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend keeps asking me to have anal sex with him. I have never taken it up the butt and am not sure if it will hurt or what i am supposed to do. Can you help me?...
A. 23 July 2009: Don't do it if you're not excited about it... it need NOT hurt, if you take your time, loosen up, use lots (tons) of lube and he's gental and considerate. Many women love it, many HATE it... some come like fountains! It's all about being ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 yr old guy and I cant stop masterbating???
Q. how do i get myself to stop masterbating? im 15 years old and im a guy i have problem. ive been masterbating for a long time. i mean a real long time about 3 years and some months. i cant stop idk know y i jus cant help like when i try to control ...
A. 23 July 2009: Here is the reality - your 15, a mild wind is going to make your dick hard... you're just of that age... and God doesn't hate you (he's really busy and doesn't have time to hate each and every one of us!)... stuff happens to all of us, quit thinking ... (read in full...)
My neighbour's husband suggested me to have sex with his wife. My wife may be suspicious. Do I tell her or stay away?
Q. Hi over the past few month my neighbour has been giving me the come on with thing she dones. eg flashing and making sagestive conversation. last weekend i was helping her husband with a job in the garden. she was there and flashed her boobs severa...
A. 23 July 2009: I think that it's rude of them to ask you behind your wife's back... the other woman is trying to get you to violate your marriage (which I'm fine with if all 4 parties agree!)- the better way is for her to ask you wife if you can come play - if ... (read in full...)
What exactly is an orgy?
Q. Whats an orgy?? Im just curious, ive heard it in movies and stuff, but i just dont know what it is!...
A. 23 July 2009: yes, a group of folks, usually in one place, all going at it... 4 people really wouldn't be an orgy, 8 to 10 may start to get there, less is just group sex, which in an of its self is not quite an orgy, as the interaction at an orgy is part of the ... (read in full...)
Why am I upset that my ex got married?
Q. i cant understand why this is bothering me my ex fiance got married 6 months ago and hearing it has upset me quite badly. when we were together we were together about 4 years we got engaged and the ring he got me cost 15.99- we were both on goo...
A. 23 July 2009: odds are good you had a fantasy that's you'd prevail and live a better life, be better looking, richer, thinner etc. than him.... you don't mention if you're currently in a relationship, but it's possible that his reachingthis milestone before you ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? - Is there anthing I could do to help this situation?
Q. I have another question. Could I tell you about my current feelings? On Monday I started my new job and we planned to go to the cinema today. I booked tickets yesterday. At work I get a message from her saying she had received a call from (an ex) ...
A. 23 July 2009: sounds like my ex- and if so, she's banging this guy and wants space so she can have her fun. you're wanting to go to the club would limit her good times, and your desire that she fulfills her commitment to you to go to the movies was inconvenant ... (read in full...)
Did being pregnant ruin our relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I are 21 and she is pregnant. When we first found out the news we were both scared and shocked, I would be lying if I said anything different. In the next few days we both talked and were very excited, she always wanted to start ...
A. 23 July 2009: Agreed - now that the excitment has worn off reality may be setting in. How are you going to support her when she's given birth and has a baby to take care of? Will you have a job? A good job? A career (or a crap job)?
Are you growing up? or ... (read in full...)
Should I leave home to be with him?
Q. Two questions in one day, I'm on a roll. Okay, if you haven't read my earlier post, then you probably don't know that i had a misarriage. I had it a week and 1 day ago. My boyfriend's life isn't that great right now, his fathers an alocholi and ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think that if the two of you leave town that you're going to find out how VERY HARD it is to make it at your age on your own. Living is expensive and it's hard to earn any kind of a living wage in good time, much less NOW! If he's older you c... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt during sex?
Q. When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok....
A. 23 July 2009: Emeline may have hit on it... you don't mention if this is realted to a particular positon or act... if you're small and he's well endowed he could be bumping parts of you that were not intedned to be bumped... you could be getting brused. If this ... (read in full...)
How can I let her go when I love her so much?
Q. After eight years, my g/f and I decided to have a open relationship with others on the internet because she said she was having problems with being faithfully..not cheating on me just liking on getting to know other people. I was having problems ...
A. 23 July 2009: An 8 year lesbain relationship... well you made it 1 year passed the dreaded LBD (Lesbian Bed Death)... but not by much... You need to give this some time and let her work through her issues, and you do the same. Personally, this is the majo... (read in full...)
I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?
Q. Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??...
A. 23 July 2009: Ok, at 14 I'd not kissed a girl and had zero GF's. I was shy and didn't have alot of freinds. My homelife seemed normal from the outside (2 parents, married, Dad was a successful businessman and professional - mom stayed home) on the inside not so ... (read in full...)
Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!
Q. Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...
A. 23 July 2009: Ok, you dumped him to have a bit of fun with another, I can't tell from your email if he did or did NOT have sex with one or both of these other women... but let's say he did - you two were broken up... he should have nailed them both. Who cares... ... (read in full...)
Is 5 months too soon to propose to her?
Q. hi every1, would u say 5 months is too early to propose? my girl moved over here from scotland last year, we met through work and got it together end of feb. i know for sure she's the one. i'm going to scotland with her in 2 weeks to meet her family ...
A. 23 July 2009: I agree, only you can know how long is long enough. if you know it in your heart, I'd suggest some casual conversations about marriage or long term plans... see what she thinks. Hopefully she'll open up for you. If you love her, I'd say talk to ... (read in full...)
Married but have found a FWB relationship
Q. I have been married for MANY MANY years. Last year, my husband and I decided to separate, but to stay together as room mates for while due to finances. I found a married man and started an affair with him. My husband decided that he wanted to stay ...
A. 23 July 2009: Ok, here's another opinon - one I've not seen yet. People stay married for a variety of reasons. You both say that you don't want to divorce, you want more sex, and enjoy no strings attached sex - he doesn't seem to want any... Your situation... (read in full...)
The guy I had an affair with has been cheating on his current girlfriend, so I sent an anonymous email. Do you think he might finally have learned his lesson?
Q. Hi I had an affair with a guy that works with me.We were friends for 2 years,then we started to have sex for 1 year then we stopped. Now we are friends again for 2 years. His last girlfriend left him because he cheated on her. Then he cheated ...
A. 23 July 2009: First, this person is an empolyee and you need to stay out of his personal life. If you can't seperate your past from the present you really need to seperate the two of you. If your opperation is a small one that's going to be hard.
If this per... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'
Q. I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which ...
A. 23 July 2009: This is easy - if he wants sex, sleep with him once and let your parents find out - he'll be charged with rape and sent to prison where he'll get more sex than he could ever want. SERIOUSLY! You're underage in 99.9% of the world - he's an "adult... (read in full...)
I'm hopelessly Jealous
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything's great aside from one thing - I'm ridiculously jealous. Of course everyone gets that way sometimes, but, I get jealous too many times a day. I can't go to movies with my b/f ...
A. 23 July 2009: Wow, life is going to be really hard... you need to work on this and make some changes to how your percieivng the world. If you don't make a change, your likely going to run off some quality guys and end up in a bad realtionship (or none at all). ... (read in full...)
I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...
A. 23 July 2009: Look, your really young... here's a reality check... at your age the intent of "dating" is that you get out and meet several young men and get experience interacting, talking and spending some time together. The idea of exclusive dating at such a ... (read in full...)
I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?
Q. Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found ...
A. 23 July 2009: He's crazy and risking ruining his life. If there's any chance that he could be tried for "sex with a minor" he would be labled a sexual preditor and have to register with the local police everytime he moved. Getting a job would be hard (he'd be a ... (read in full...)
He left us for his internet woman. I need to move on, but cant!
Q. My husband of 15 years left me and our 2 sons for a woman he met on the internet. He walks around and acts like nothing is wrong, like this is the Reba show. I was totally devastated. When i do talk to him he just blames me for the way our ...
A. 23 July 2009: If it's only been a few months, that's 8 to 12 weeks and the two of you were together for 15 years. This is a crappy situation, but know that time will heal the wounds - and living a good and fruitful life with completly heal them. Odds are really ... (read in full...)
I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...
A. 22 July 2009: Buy a dildo that's slightly smaller than his dick, and some good lube. Surprise him in bed, and work that thing up his ass. If he loves you he'll enjoy it....... (read in full...)
What is the truth about anal sex?
Q. I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???...
A. 22 July 2009: Ok, I've been having anal since college, and all with the same woman. She was the one who suggested it, and we worked our way up to me getting my dick inside her. IT took seveal days, lots of KY jelly (lube has come along way since then - but ... (read in full...)
Anything we need to do before going to our first swingers party?
Q. Hi my wife and I are intrested in going to a swingers party to try other partners. She would like to try a younger guy again. We have discussed it at great length and feel it would be a great turn on for us both to watch each other with someo...
A. 22 July 2009: First, I'd not venture too far to find a party. First, you'll want to find a location you both like and that you're comfortable in. People tend to travel farther than they should, and there are a few stories of folks bumping into the neighbors, ... (read in full...)
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