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4 October 2008: Did anybody hear about that story that Consumer watchdog brought up that 'Cartoon Villains' e.g. Tony The Cereal Tiger, Snap Crackle and pop, sugarpuff monster, the monkey from coco pops, and that they are to blame for childhood obesity? Well ever...
Thank you, Miss Saulters, wherever you are.
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17 August 2008: Hello, About 3/4 years ago when i was in year six. My father who is mentally unstable, and had sexually abused me in the past. Was demanding custody of my and my brother, 4 years my elder. My father had only just had a stroke and he couldnt fe...
We ran back to my house and kissed in the rain. I think I love him!
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14 July 2008: When i first started my secondary school in yr 7 we had this thing called activity days where we have 3 days of fun. And it was. I met this boy called stuart. And he was so nice. We flirted like crazy and all through the summer holidays i missed...
Why can't We fall in love?
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18 March 2008: How come teenagers are not allowed to fall in love? I am 14 and have been in love with this one guy, we went out for over 2 years but unfortunatly he moved to the USA because of his dad's business and I did love him a lot, but even though we went ...
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He broke up with me but says its because of him! Does he want to go back out with me?
Q. hi x there this boy who i really like and i know that he likes me because we just broke up and he said that its all his fault and that he still likes me and that the reason why he broke up with me was because he was a total fuck up and that and i to...
A. 9 October 2008: just ask him out again love, there is 50/50 chance of what he will say and judging my your question he might say yes, either that or flirt like mad and make him go crazy ;D... (read in full...)
An older Boyfriend and 2 teenage step-kids at 16
Q. In 2004 after turning 16 years old I visited my sister at Uni and we went out to a night out and started getting bothered by a very drunk and aggressive man. I thought I could handle it but before long he was becoming increasingly rough and ...
A. 4 October 2008: A truly lovely story... i agree complety love can happend any time any age... my grandparnets had almost 20 years between them and they were married for 50 years :]
Congratulations :D
Gina xxx... (read in full...)
Women only, penis question! Would you be ok with 3 inches?
Q. this is a short and simple question, can a 3 inch penis give a girl a gspot orgasm? and has anyone had sex wit a penis so small? how does it feel?...
A. 12 September 2008: Its not the size of the army its the attack of the force ;)... (read in full...)
I want to start smoking and try drugs, what's happening to me?
Q. Hii im 14 years old. And well, i have a boyfriend and we have been expirementing not full sex, but we both want to.Badly! And i want to start smoking and try drugs. I dunno what is happenin to me i am usually a good girl got high marks in my tes...
A. 12 September 2008: To the woman who said 'otherwise u are a little girl and try to don't lose ur virginity with somebody who u don't love' One i am not a little girl!! FFS!!
And my boyfriend loves me very much and we have been going out for over a year! SO you know... (read in full...)
I do not want him to think I fancy him just because he is (or may become) famous!
Q. i have had a crush on this boy for about a few months i havent been able to do anything or tell him how i feel because i have been busy.i recently found out he is on a very popular singing show and has got through to the "boot camp stage".i dont ...
A. 17 August 2008: Tell Him now!
Simple enough tell him now before its too late :]... (read in full...)
These girls say no to EVERYONE. How can I be the one to get one of them to go on at least one date?
Q. I want to know what I have to do to turn a bunch of Catholic School 7th grade Girls that refuse to have boyfriends into girls that will even go on at least one date, I mean all the grades ahead of us had girlfriends in 5th grade and alll the boys in ...
A. 20 July 2008: Just ask one of them out....you cant just spend all yor time thinking what if.
Just do it! Ask NIKE says:]
There is a 50/50 chance of them saying either.
But who says you wont be the one to change their minds :D... (read in full...)
I think I want to move on, but he keeps kissing me! Should I just carry on with this weird relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! Well I have a pretty straight forward question so I hope you can all help me. Basically I went out with the most amazing boy for a whole year and for someone my age that is practically forever!!!! Any ways and since we have been broke...
A. 20 July 2008: Dont try and distance yourself from him, he might get upset...remember boys have feelings too.
So just tell him you just want stay friends.
He may get upset, but i think he will get the message.
Hope this helps
xox... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: I hope you know that women come in all shapes and sizes and they are ALL beautiful. I am a size 14/16. And i am quite curvy and every boy i have gone out with liked my curves. You just have to wait until the right guy comes along and loves you for ... (read in full...)
I really miss seeing my brother. Is it normal to want to see him more than once a month?
Q. Hi all and thank for reading this. I'm 31 and I've always lived with my twin brother, first to save money, then just because we were both single and we've always been best friends. Then 6 months ago he moved in with his fiancee and her kids. I...
A. 20 July 2008: You are not being ridiculous love. you obviously love your brother. and i envy you me and my brother arent really close. But he isnt a mind reader so tell him how you feel, and you want to see him more. Hope this helps xox... (read in full...)
Is it me?
Q. help! i keep all my feelings inside like this week my brother lets call him 'a' had an asthma attack..so my parents attention is put on him. then people who are supposed to be my best friends let call them b and c put stuff in my drink which makes ...
A. 20 July 2008: WOAHH!!!!
They are not your friends!
Get rid of them find new ones.
And you shouting at your parents is NOT your fault i would yell at my parents too if that happened to me.
You have done nothing wrong, from my point of view, so dont worry honey... (read in full...)
Is my best friend just assuming I'll go with her to an event? Or should I let a guy take me even though I don't really like him?
Q. My best friend is going to this major event in our city in a weeks time. We always do things together, especially events like this. But the thing is she never invited me. I was out with her the other day at shopping and she ran into lots of her ...
A. 20 July 2008: Well obviously this is more about your 'best' friend she blatently doesnt respect you as a friend.
I had a friend who never invited me to these sort of things whereas i invited her to all these things.
So i was like fine f*** you then. And left... (read in full...)
I don't seem to be quite a normal shape "down there". Will guys have a problem with this?
Q. My vagina, a lot like a handful of other girls has large lips. I have been reading all of the answers saying 'oh! its no problem!' and i soon became fine with them. But i also have another problem. The hood on my clitorous seems a lot larger them ...
A. 20 July 2008: Ok, like many women they come in all shapes and size and they are beautiful.
Same with vaginas, there is no such thing as a perfect looking vagina.
If it starts to hurt or becomes sore, then it is a problem.
Im sure that a boy wont judge you on... (read in full...)
Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?
Q. I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...
A. 19 July 2008: You had best be careful.
of meeting someone online.
They may 'say' they are that age but then again they might not.
Just be careful.
On where this could be heading.
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We ran back to my house and kissed in the rain. I think I love him!
Q. When i first started my secondary school in yr 7 we had this thing called activity days where we have 3 days of fun. And it was. I met this boy called stuart. And he was so nice. We flirted like crazy and all through the summer holidays i missed...
A. 19 July 2008: Hiyy
Thank you for all the comments.
And the other day. he kissed me and said 'i love you'
I melted :]
I told him i loved him too.
He kissed my cheek and said 'Stay Beautiful'
I am very happy... (read in full...)
Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?
Q. Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ...
A. 14 July 2008: okayy it says 13-15
Why are you getting fingered anyway?!
Seriously kids are growing up to quickly.
But yeah if you want moan a little bit but dont have an orgasm.
Still you shouldnt be doing suff like that at your age.
Rant Over :D ... (read in full...)
I'm staying for a couple of days at my BF's dad house, this is awkward as I have witnessed a fight between them a while ago...
Q. ive gotta strange question. my boyfriends had to move out of his flat and hasnt got this other flat hes applied for just yet, so until that all goes through he has to go back and live with his dad. only problem is thats why he left, because of his d...
A. 14 July 2008: Well when you are there just keep calm and cool and try and keep the peace if something isnt right. :] Short and simple answer... (read in full...)
My mum always favours my sister over me!! Is really starting to get to me!!
Q. why does my mum always favour my sister, last night i went out for a drink with some friends at a males house, there was nothing wrong with what we did, we was inside, quiet music, monopoly, mindin our own business, chatttin and having a drink, my ...
A. 29 June 2008: It because your the eldest daughter and think of it as she still wants to be the alpha female in the house... so she thinks that your in her 'teritory' as it were.
This may sound harsh but i would advise avoiding your mother then maybe she will... (read in full...)
My best friend bragged about being asked out my the boy I like, is she a true friend?
Q. Hey My best friend has betrayed me. she kinda knew that i liked this lad. she went to ____ last night a massive party for teens. he was there. so when she got home she started bragging about him, trying to make me jealous. he asked her to get off ...
A. 31 May 2008: NO is your simple answer tp that.
She isnt a friend
at all
Do yourself a favour hun
And find a new friend
Hope it helped x... (read in full...)
Any help from girls! Help, is this a period?
Q. hey hey, I started bleeding today from my vagina and methinks it may be periods but i thought id get your opinion.. my blood varys in colour from brownish to bright red is this right?? and i seem to have a continuous flow of blood.. is this normal ...
A. 14 May 2008: Sorry to say this but yeah.it sounds like your periods
So yeah gets some pads tampons,etc it may feel weird for the 1st couple of times or so and remember they will NEVER come on time
Hope this helps :)... (read in full...)
Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 28 April 2008: If it gets stuck you could always call Tiger Woods to get it out im sorry but this is a stupid post xD... (read in full...)
Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?
Q. Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, w...
A. 24 April 2008: Heyya if you feel that having contacts would be great then good because it could give you a real big confidence boost. Or you could get more stylish glasses either because if you look good on the outside you feel good on the outside :D Email ... (read in full...)
Age gaps, how much is too much?
Q. Hi, i'm in a relationship with a 15 year age gap, i'm 19 and she's 34, we are very happy but, sometimes we both feel anxious over the age gap, is this gap too big to be realistic...
A. 12 March 2008: IF you feel that it is right then you should go for it...if you were 13 and she was 34 then yes that would be disturbing...yes but you are both adults you can do what ever you feel free.So yeah just follow your heart :D
hope this helped
Email... (read in full...)
True love
Q. one day i was at skool back in 2002, my friend came to me with a story how she had text a number she made up and started talking to a guy,she told me what they talked about, she thought i should text him and then we could exchange stories. so i did...
A. 3 March 2008: Wow thats a really nice story glad it worked for you :)... (read in full...)
We are too young to have sex, would oral be a responsible choice? Any advice about the technique?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are getting pretty intimate lately and i was wondering how if any of you could give me some advice on oral sex. I know i'm only 14 but nothing else would happen like intercourse because i know we are definatley too young for ...
A. 3 March 2008: Good on you for not having sex :)
Lol that sounded funny but anyway
Oral would be good for your realtionship but rememeber to make it special...and even if you do have the urge to have sex remember use a condom!!!Happy sex is safe sex :)
Hope this... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my (third) period is delayed?
Q. i got my frist period on dec 6 2007 and my second on feb 22 and i havent gotten my third yet and it is now march 3 why didn't i get 1 in jan is this normal?...
A. 3 March 2008: When you first start your periods, they never are quite on time i know it's annoying i've had mine for 1 year and they are NEVER on time but don't worry i'm sure they will get regular out over time Hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
Should I hope that my friend changes or move on?
Q. Hello, this may sound strange but me and friend are going through a weird phase, i am mostly nice to my friend and will do anything to make her smile because i am a nice person.We are typical best friends i tell her EVERYTHING, and i always remeber ...
A. 2 March 2008: she wasn't like this when she 1st moved here because she was shy and nervous but then over the years she changed and i kinda accepted it but it turns out that i dont think she is a great friend at all.... (read in full...)
What you deserve
Q. Listen up everyone!!! I need you all to know this...Every single one of you people out there...BOYS, GIRLS, STRAIGHT, GAY, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS, AND TRANSGENDERS...You all deserve the best of the best...you deserve someone that will love, respect, ...
A. 27 October 2007: Wow this is soo true!!! This is the boost that girls really need sometimes xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I feel fat. I cant get a girl because no one even looks at me
Q. Im 13 and I weigh 9 stone. I cant get a girl because nobody even looks at me. I dont look too overweight (im only overweight by a about a stone) but I hate myself. i dont eat a lot of sugar and i have regular exercise. has anyone else had a problem ...
A. 4 October 2007: Wow i feel sorry for you.. Btw ur a healthy weight for you age and probably girls might not being going out with you because u hav low-selfessteem about urself. Im 13 and i had the same prob till 3 boys said they fancied me just be urself u sound ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and overweight. Help me recover my confidence?
Q. im only 15 and i think im over wieght! i read loads of magazines and im no where as slim or pretty as them. it makes me feel sad evey time i look in the mirror and i hate buying, going out the house! i have lost all my confidence! please help me ...
A. 16 September 2007: WOAH wait put those mags down girl! Stop comparing yourself ALL of those girls in those mags are tinted and airbrushed they dont look like that! What you have got to understand is that girls come in all shapes and sizes and they are all beautiful. ... (read in full...)
I pulled away b/c I've never snogged anyone before! I was just nervous, but he dumped me.
Q. Im 14 next week and i've had quite a few boyfriends. theres this one boy ive been out with 7 times, the last time we went out he dumped me. I think its because one time when we were camping with a group of friends we were left alone in the tent and ...
A. 13 September 2007: I think u did the right thing girl! Make sure u r absoultly certain this is what you want to do and ur still young there is plenty of time for you! I wish someone had said that to me before i snogged my bf! lol gd luck to ya hunni xxx... (read in full...)
How love always finds a way
Q. At thirteen i was the only girl in my high school year to be having a relationship with with an eighteen year old bloke, much to alot of girls jealousy. Like everyones first relationship it started off magical, he was sweet kind, caring and made...
A. 13 September 2007: Wow that was the most heart warming story i hav ever read! Wow u r one tough girl to stand by all that and u did the right thing for your children, well done xx... (read in full...)
My best friend died, I will do a speech tomorrow at the funeral, please advise me.
Q. okay this isnt a love problem but the thing is my best friend luke died on the 4th of september and his funeral is tomorrow, ive been asked to do a speech and i need help what do i write about and if there is some poems what people know could you ...
A. 13 September 2007: I am really sorry for your loss i lost one of my friends too he was only 14. But still u should write about all the good times but not the bad say all of the things you did together the laughs you had. Again Sorry xxx... (read in full...)
I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. Should I do it with him?
Q. I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. He wants me to come over to night and have sex with him. Should I do it with him?...
A. 11 September 2007: WOAH 12!! OMG girl save yourself cause once you hav sex with that boy he will drop you like a hat! Espesh if you don't use protection he will leave you with a kid! All he wants is the SEX hunni save yourself until you feel as though YOU are ready to ... (read in full...)
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