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... Send R092 a private message | | | R092's profile:Hey everyone, I'm 16, will be 17 next february so not too long to go.
It's been nearly 5 years since i moved over to England with my mum, over the years i have been through a lot thanks to her.
I'm not great at giving people advice but i'll do the best i can to help the people who want/need it.
I know it can be tough to find someone to talk to, so if you need anyone i'm always here!
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I just wanna tear myself open and rip all the anger out.
Q. I know this isn't about love or anything, but I'm just wondering if anyone feels the same as I do. I feel like sometimes I get so hurt and upset I just wanna tear myself open and rip all the anger out. I cry a lot and I don't even know why and I ...
A. 21 November 2008: self harming doesnt mean that ur a person or attention seeking. i self harmed for a few months, that was only a few months back but i was able to stop fairly quickly, my friend was going through the same problem at the same time and somehow we ... (read in full...)
I feel totally judged by others when I'm in public places.
Q. I have a weird problem, maybe someone can help me out here. I feel totally judged by others, when I'm in public places. I don't know if it's true or I just imagine this. It's really hard to tell. I feel everybody looking at me really mean, and l...
A. 19 November 2008: i know how you feel, i hate going out into the public, specially when i'm on my own because i always think that people are staring at me and judging me.
but really it doesn't matter what other people think, they don't know you so why would they... (read in full...)
We didn't have sex but I'm freaking out that I could be pregnant!
Q. Soo my friend came over for the nite while my parents were away for the nite and spent the nite. And we cuddled and then started fooling around and he tried intercourse(didnt work) but we didnt have sex he fingered me and i grinded on top of him and ...
A. 19 November 2008: if you didn't have any sexual intercourse you have nothing to worry about, being fingered doesn't get you pregnant.... (read in full...)
I feel so fat....but am I just paranoid??
Q. Hey guys, i feel so fat right now, im 9 stone 6 and 5"5, but it doesnt help, im curvy i know that and ive been through hell with my body as one year i just didnt eat much and ended up going down to 7 stone and being very ill, and then went up to my ...
A. 18 September 2008: hey, you're deffinetely not fat, im 16, and 5'5 too but i weigh just over 10 stone...im happy with my weight, not so much with my body, i started college last week and do performing arts so i'll be getting a lot of exerice, i also do cheerleading ... (read in full...)
Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?
Q. I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now ...
A. 17 September 2008: you can only get pregnant if you have sex with a guy without protection and he cums inside you.
not sure about your period... id say get it checked by you doctor (if you have a male doctor and dont feel comfortable talking to him about it ask at r... (read in full...)
What do you do when a supposedly good friend talks badly about you behind your back?
Q. If a "good friend" talks badly about you behind your back..and it's not the first time..and she/he gossips too. And you're just fed up of forgiving that person..what would you do? Would you tell her/him straight up? Or would you pretend she/he does...
A. 15 September 2008: it's always hard finding out that someone whos supposed to be your friend is telling storied about you behind your back. i've been there too many times myself!
last time this happened i wrote a letter to her telling her exactly what i think abou... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm close to losing everything I held dear, my nan dies 3 years ago and I've been dealing with extreme depression since, what can I do?
Q. i reli need help. everythings going wrong for me at the minute, iv suffered with extreme depression for the last 2 months and although i thought it may be getting better and i may be getting bak to normal with the support of my partner, iv reverted ...
A. 15 September 2008: it must be really hard for you not having had time to grieve over your nans death.
talk to someone your close to like a friend about how you feel to make you feel better, if you dont have anyone around you who you can talk to and you feel like your... (read in full...)
Is she legal or could I get in trouble?
Q. hallo ! i need some advice. so, please help me out here. i am 22 and my girl friend is 17 years and 9 months. she will be 18 next 3 months. we have been going out for 3 years. do you think it is illegal or I could be in trouble for it. just for...
A. 13 September 2008: looking at emilys answer i assume the legal age over there to have sex is 18!? either way, if you havent had sex then theres no reason you should get into trouble, and as long as (as snoop and emily have already said) her parents are happy with you... (read in full...)
I hate my dad! What can I do?
Q. i used to be a daddys girl when i was younger and said id never be lyk my older sister who seemed to hate him so much. but now i understand hwo she felt. when i was 10 my dad hit me and hit me and hit me untill my mum pulled him off me. Recen...
A. 13 September 2008: you need to talk to your mum about this, tell her how you feel and that you dont want him to come around anymore.
if you dont feel like you can tell people why you hate your dad when they ask, just tell them that you have your reasons but rath... (read in full...)
We will never be together, but I truly love him, but want to get over him, what can I do to accomplish this hard task?
Q. dear cupid im wondering which is the best way 2 get over some1 you have loved for years? i just cant seem 2 get him out of my head and theres no way we can be 2gether thankyou!...
A. 13 September 2008: you didnt say why you cant be together do that makes it just a little bit harder to answer this, but like the other 2 have already said, keep yourself busy, do things you enjoy most, maybe go swimming or to the gym once or twice a week, go out with ... (read in full...)
Do you think he knows I was raped at 14, or is he wantin me to make the first move for sex? we've been together over a year now!
Q. dear cupids. ive been with my amazin boyfriend now for over a year and i love him with all my heart, we havnt yet had sex but have recently started to talk about it, like he was rubbin down there a couple of nights ago and i really enjoyed i...
A. 13 September 2008: its hard to tell whether he knows about you getting raped or not, but either way he does really seem to care about you, like it says in one of the other answers, he wouldnt have stuck around for so long if he was only after sex, you're a lucky girl, ... (read in full...)
Any advice regarding Hepatitis B? I was just diagnosed.
Q. help!! i have been diagnosed of hypertitis B. is there a doctor here who can advice me on what to do? i mean what drugs to buy, what food to eat and what food to avoid. how dangreous is this desease. help cus i don't know to do....
A. 4 April 2008: i dont actually know anything about this but just go into google, type in hepatitis B and it comes up with loads of websites that might be able to help you.
hope that will help you, and that you find the help you're looking for.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 4 April 2008: First of all, you say it was his sister who told you he wants sex not your boyfriend himself so before you start worrying this make sure that this is true.
Secondly, is it is, everyone who has commented on your question is right, you're only 12, ... (read in full...)
Please be honest, what does emo mean?
Q. Hello. I'm a 12 yr old girl. I'm sill in public school. When i hang out with friends , they often bring up the word ''emo.'' I have never heard of that word before. I really want to know what is means. Be honest, what does emo mean?...
A. 4 April 2008: Emo means emotional.
A lot of people associate emo with self harm but not all emos cut themselves.
Most 'emos' are quite, shy and like to keep to themselves.
Check out:
www.emo-corner.com/what-is-emo
for more details.
Hope this h... (read in full...)
I'm on contraceptives, my period is late and the pregnancy test came up negative. What's wrong?
Q. I'm on the contraceptive pill, and my period is late, I've taken a pregnancy test and it came up negative...any advice on what I should do?...
A. 18 March 2008: pregnancy test aren't always 100% accurate, i'd suggest taking another one, if you're still not sure go and see your doctor.... (read in full...)
Making myself sick to lose weight, will it work?
Q. I'm 15 and I weigh 11 stone. I look at myself as fat, but I know I'm not that fat but for my age I am over weight. Ii stopped eating for 4 days once and I lost half a stone. As soon as I ate again I put on half a stone again but recently I've bee...
A. 14 March 2008: One of the worst things you can do when you want to loose weight is to stop eating. You may loose weight fast but you'll gain back the weight you've lost very quickly once you start eating again. Also, stopping eating can lead to serious eating ... (read in full...)
When did I conceive my baby?
Q. I had my baby on February 28, when would I have conceived him?...
A. 13 March 2008: unless you had sex only once around the time your baby was conceived it cant be said for sure but i'd say around the beginning of may, as i was born on February 26 (but i was born around 1 or 2 weeks late) after being conceived towards the end of ... (read in full...)
I am still in love with my fiance, he has moved on and has expressed deep feelings for this other girl but has also expressed deep feelings for me still...
Q. Hello I am still in love with my fiance, he has moved on and has expressed deep feelings for this other girl. But also expressed deep feelings for me still. I am skeptical about him. The more I talk with him each day, the more I feel me losing the ...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm a lot younger than you and I don't really have the experience to judge this situation so my answer is purely based on my opinion. This man does not deserve your love if he can move on so easily. And you're right, he could not have moved on this ... (read in full...)
She's always studying and never seems to have time for me.
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I have been dating for only a few weeks now, but we have been friends for 3 years. Well anyways, I like her a lot but often feel she doesn't have the time for me. She is in all honors courses and is always doing ...
A. 11 March 2008: Have you talked to her about how you feel? Next time you get the chance to talk to her maybe tell her that you understand she wants to do well in her exams but that you also want to spend more time with her and ask if there's anything you can do to ... (read in full...)
Which is the best way to tell my mother of this age gap between me and my date and when would it be the right time?
Q. Well i got asked out by this guy only thing is though that he 22 and am 16, i don't see the problem with age though i know my mum does as my ex was 21 though it was long distance which also didn't help but this guy only lives in my next town and she ...
A. 10 March 2008: I know you feel, I'm 16 too and the guy I like is 27. And although I've told my mum about this guy I haven't been able to tell her how old he is. I think your mum should meet this guy before she judges him. I'm sure she's only worried about yo... (read in full...)
I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me.
Q. I'm 21 years old and have a three month old son. I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me. He says it's my fault for pushing him too far which I do do that but I just can't take it anymore. The other night I had my ...
A. 10 March 2008: Get out of there FAST!!!! He has hit you with your son in your arms, what's to stop him from hurting him next. There are lots of organisations out there to help woman like you, what about friends or family? If you won't leave him for your own sake... (read in full...)
My best friend wants me to choose between her and her brother, who I recently started dating.
Q. i'm dating my bestfriends brother. me and him tried to ignore our feelings for eachother but it was to hard we are now dating, but my bestfriend wants me too choose. i love my boyfriend, they both mean the world to me!!...
A. 10 March 2008: it's not worth loosing your friendship with your best friend but if she is a true friend she should be more understanding and be happy for you two. maybe ask her how she would feel if she was in your shoes.
tell her you can't choose between two peop... (read in full...)
There's a 12 year age difference but he's perfect!
Q. I am 15, and go to church with a 27 year old. he is just everything ive ever wanted. a great christian man, beautiful, funny, caring. just everything. my feelings have grew really strong. his mom and i pray that it will be in gods plan for us to be ...
A. 9 March 2008: I know what you mean. I'm 16 and the guy I like is also 27.
I was really shocked when I first found out how old he is but if you really like someone it shouldn't matter how old they are.... (read in full...)
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