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Bonjour! I'm a something-year old girl who's been in a long-distance relationship for almost a year now, and is managing to survive. My friends still, however, come to me for relationship advice for whatever crazy reason. What else can I say? (:

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True Love: Fact or Fiction?

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29 June 2010: Let me tell you a story. When I was a little girl I used to pretend that I was a princess who was awaiting prince charming. He was always the picture perfect man: tall, lean, stunning, poetic, and the type of guy who'd sweep you off your feet. I...

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I need someone to tell me that two people can love each other and it last forever.

Q.   I'm 17 years old. An orphan, dumped into the arms of grandparents when I was 12 after my mother died. My sister lives in London as a pediatrician, so I rarely see her. I've learned the way of life on my own, and now I've fallen in love. I met my ...

A.   21 June 2010: Yes. There's your answer right there. Speaking from personal experience, I understand your pain, but am happy you've found someone so good for you. My boyfriend and I live an entire state a part (it's true!) and we love each other more than ... (read in full...)

She won't have sex with me!

Q.   hello, me and my girlfriend are having relationship problems and i need your advice. Me and her have been goin out for 5 months and i have been waiting for her to want a physical relationship with me but everytime we engage we only get as far as ...

A.   21 June 2010: I completely agree with YouWish! While you might be feeling bad (and perhaps even had your ego hurt a bit), you need to realize that if she is a virgin, sex is a big thing! She's probably nervous and perhaps even a little scared. Go slowly. Also ask ... (read in full...)

Feel so alienated from my family since they found out I'm a lesbian

Q.   well, hello. heres the story, questions at the end. the other day, my mother found out i like girls. there was no question about me being lesbian (which i am) or bisexual. she was just pissed and all depressed about me liking girls. anywho, ...

A.   21 June 2010: I'm sure your situation is hard, and I'm sorry. It's going to be harder, however, for your parents to accept you for who you are, and it might take time. And that'll be hard too. But if they're very religious people, it's going to take a lot to get ... (read in full...)

I know I should leave him, but how can I do it?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do with my relationship. I don't feel i am getting my emotional needs filled at all. He seems very selfish to me a lot of the time. Sex is very very one sided. I don't think i can come and i never have so far...

A.   21 June 2010: I think I'll first start by quoting something you said: "He doesn't try to understand my needs. My problems are my problems. He calls them stupid. He has hurt me over and over in the past and never been there for me when i need him the most...He IS ... (read in full...)

My father is retiring, and I want to make something special for him. Suggestions?

Q.   my father is a city driver..it may appear like an easy job but it really isn't..it aged him before his time with the traffic and stress and not to mention sitting down for 10-12 hours a day with only a few minutes here and there to stand and get up. ...

A.   21 June 2010: Those all sound like fantastic ideas! And usually with scrapbooks you can buy scrapbook paper (perhaps look for something transit themed?) to put the pictures on. Your idea of quotes and the pictures is wonderful! Perhaps create a pseudo gift-basket ... (read in full...)

I'm falling for my teacher! What should I do?

Q.   so i am falling for my teacher. he is 23 and i am 17. we will both be 24 and 18 respectively this year. i dont know what to do. i know it's wrong but i really like him. we have had some deep conversations and we really connect. i just dont know what ...

A.   21 June 2010: I think the first thing you need to do is stop and ask yourself are you in love with him, or are you infatuated with him? We all feel unrequited feelings every once in a while, and that's perfectly all right. But you need to realize that as a ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend went on a jealousy rampage..how do I convince him it is unfounded?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. I have fallen madly in love with him. We have been talking about getting married after he is done with basic training for the military, and want to be with each other forever. He was staying the week...

A.   20 June 2010: It sounds like your boyfriend may have some trust issues - perhaps he was cheated on before? I think you need to talk to him about not only you trusting him but him trusting you, and he needs to know that it's not okay to go through your things ... (read in full...)

He's one of my best friends! Does he like me?

Q.   I find my one of my best friends very attractive, and all of my friends are very touchy so i normally dont think to deep into things when he is being sexual towards me. But today we were coming back from a vacation with our friends and when everyone ...

A.   20 June 2010: Ask yourself a few questions: Is this friend normally very flirtatious? Is this friend considered a tease by your other friends? Has he done anything else to suggest that he might like you? If the answer is yes to the first two questions, I'm not ... (read in full...)

Do girls find muscles attractive?

Q.   do girls find muscles attractive? cuz when ever i go out with a couple of my buddies who work out, i always find girls checking them out, so yeah.. what do you girls find attractive?...

A.   20 June 2010: Well my man is not muscular really (except for his calves because he bikes a lot), and I like him that way. He's just right for me. And I think if you find a girl who's worth having, she'll love you no matter what. Also - it's sort of lik... (read in full...)

How can I fall in love with a man I've never met?

Q.   I have fallen in love with a boy that I met online in Mid March. Never once have we chatted on msn...For the first 3 months of knowing one another was through emails, pages and pages worth of emails... Then we moved onto phone conversations. ...

A.   20 June 2010: Love is based on emotions and the way you feel. I'm sure over the course of talking with this man you shared secrets, hopes, dreams, and others things that you wouldn't tell just anyone. This level of closeness was probably brought on because of the ... (read in full...)

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