I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..
Q. Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...
A. 7 November 2009: Steve. The counting of I's is irrelevant. This isn't about her. We know what she thinks. Her regard for herself is indicated by her generous use of the letter I.
She wants to know about men. She wants to know what men think about her. That answ... (read in full...)
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: Or yes I have a small organ. But no one told me I would be playing in a cathedral.... (read in full...)
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: Say at least I don't just walk up and stick it in you. I like to put it in and then walk up.... (read in full...)
What can I do to impress him?
Q. I've just started uni, and really like a lad, who I haven't even spoken to yet. I've just heard him speak in the class etc, and he is really gorgeous. I know that he may not be what he seems because I've not even spoken to him yet, and I'm wiling to ...
A. 6 November 2009: Being from the states I can tell you that over here we are smitten just by a woman using the word lads to describe a guys. It's all down hill from here. Meaning in a good downhill sort of way. If you are half as delightful as you sound there will be ... (read in full...)
My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?
Q. Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...
A. 6 November 2009: I have been as drunk as the law allows. Drunker. I have never hit a woman.... (read in full...)
What can I do to help her get over this?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...
A. 6 November 2009: It has been brought to my attention that you will never get the metaphor I used to illustrate the fact that, statistically speaking in about ten years or so, you and the women in your life will have changed partners so many times that who did what ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 6 November 2009: Mitä kuuluu teidän silmät auki?... (read in full...)
Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?
Q. I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty s...
A. 6 November 2009: Well it's too late baby it's too late. You are really in the just friend's category. If you want to know how hard it is to get out of the just friend's category, just go ask the mastodon's at the La Brea tar pits in LA how hard it is to get out of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help her get over this?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...
A. 6 November 2009: Give it about a decade and the Friday night exchange of kids and step kids will me more like a plane load of people disembarking from the coach section of a 747 at JFK. All headed to destinations unknown.
The main concern you will have will be i... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: If I was hooking up with a 21 year old I would have rented space on the good year blimp to advertise this fact. Unless I was married. ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 6 November 2009: It seems as though the people who cite genetic abnormalities, throw it out like genetic abnormalities they speak of are synonymous with two headed babies. I believe the concern is that both parent's will carry the gene for certain hereditary ... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 6 November 2009: Two words: Alicia Witt... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 5 November 2009: Yeah one time i got drunk and lost my inhibitions of wrapping my car around a telephone pole.... (read in full...)
Read this email message and tell me what you think!
Q. I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
A. 5 November 2009: I'm sick of you telling me lies (and i know it's bull shit) you don't even call not even the next day. I worry about you (and stupid me) i check on you. I still love you but i feel you don't love me and that you don't respect our friendship.
That... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 5 November 2009: Please go get tested. I tell women guys are dogs and for some reason it pisses women off. Go get tested, use a condom. Don't trust this guy. He has a penis and testosterone and that is a dangerous combination.... (read in full...)
Read this email message and tell me what you think!
Q. I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
A. 5 November 2009: Maybe they are bowling partners?... (read in full...)
Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?
Q. I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...
A. 5 November 2009: What's a blow job amongst friend's. Every time you kiss her try and imagine if you can taste him in those kisses that are somewhere between cherry wine and crankenspiel. ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 5 November 2009: May I be so bold as to use a baseball analogy? Think of a pitcher. You know what a pitcher does. He winds up and let's one go. OK. Think of a catcher. You know what a catcher does. He gets down and catches the pitch that is thrown.
Let me make this... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to commit?
Q. Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...
A. 3 November 2009: I divorced my first wife from E-piphany. The one I had when I caught her slipping her number to the bartender at the bar we used to hang at. ... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to commit?
Q. Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...
A. 2 November 2009: Hey "THE NOT SO GREAT" we have been stoking this fire like shoveling coal to the Titanic long long ago.... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 2 November 2009: He forfeited his right to all of that when he cheated.... (read in full...)
Mistreated sexually in a shop! What should I have done?
Q. I went to a shop the other week somewhere in Northwest England (not saying where), was looking at buying some new electronics for my husband, and asked a saleswoman for advice. She then asked me to come over to her desk, to discuss it, which I did, ...
A. 2 November 2009: I think this is excellent customer service. Will they follow this up by making a house call to see if things functioned well after you got them home and all plugged in. Will they be opening any stores in the US. I will give them all of my business ... (read in full...)
What did she mean when she just emailed me and said"sparks will fly again"?
Q. Me and my girl have been broken up for about 3 weeks because my ex wife keeps texting and calling her and it drives her crazy but she wont change her number. she says she needs her time and space and is not interested in anybody else. she keeps ...
A. 2 November 2009: I think she is telling you to go to a fire works stand and buy some bottle rockets and shoot them out of your ass, because that's as close to seeing sparks as you are going to get hanging with her.... (read in full...)
How do I change my mom's mind?
Q. im 16 and want my tongue pierced soooo bad! but my mom says no cuz its "trashy". 2 questions, how do i get her to change her mind and is it really trashy for a girl to have a tongue piercing? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy....
A. 2 November 2009: I like a girl that looks like she just stepped out of prison and fell face first into a fishing tackle box. I find it extremely hot. It's hot to find her sloppy drunk at a bar and take home and nail like a piece of ply wood decking on a pitched ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my boyfriend in a nice way?
Q. im moving to another city in a few weeks, which is about 2 hours away from were i live. I have a boyfriend that ive been with for about 7/8 months. He treats me really nice and i do love him but i feel like i want to be single and start a fresh wh...
A. 2 November 2009: So you are moving to a new city, with a new guy, that you are really attracted to. And moving away from an old city, with an old guy, you really don't care about any more. You want to dump this old guy, from the old city, but it has nothing to do ... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to commit?
Q. Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...
A. 2 November 2009: So why do you call these guys commitment phobic? How long have you been divorced? How long did you date these guys? What is your definition of commitment?... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to commit?
Q. Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...
A. 2 November 2009: ***I agree with Rhythm and Blues that he is still has growing up to do and is selfish. He has never lived for anyone but himself.***
When a guy hears this, we interpret it this way. "I would never want a man for his money. I just want him to lega... (read in full...)
Dating divorced man with daughters...why havent I met the younger one?
Q. I have been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. We enjoy each other very much, and when together have a great time. We love each other deeply. We've both been divorced within the last 2 years. The only problem is the younger daughter...
A. 1 November 2009: There is only one thing more protective than a woman over her brood of kids. And that is a man protecting his own offspring. I would choose my battles very carefully. At 51 that is the one area with women that I do not challenge. No how, no way. To ... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to commit?
Q. Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...
A. 1 November 2009: I am positive that the phrase "war of the sexes" was coined by a woman. Because to women it is a war. Women fight tooth and nail to find a guy they can conquer and take prisoner.
Guys see the dichotomy between the sexes and try to come to some tre... (read in full...)
Is it ok for my husband to flirt all the time.
Q. MY HUSBAND FLIRTS WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME, WHAT SHOULDI DO ? IS THAT OKAY FOR HIM TO D SO? ...
A. 1 November 2009: Yes, you feel the way you feel. You don't need permission to feel the way you feel. No matter how far over the line he is, or how unreasonable you may be, they are your feelings and are valid for you. Are you are giving him more of a hard time than ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him! Is he an abuser?
Q. My boyfriend of four years(long distance for about 2 years, he lives in england) have just broke up because i have decided to end it after her verbally attacked me over a ridiculous reason. Here it goes...so my boyfriend is 25, lives alone pays his ...
A. 1 November 2009: Wow. You didn't say this in the beginning. And when I ran into your boyfriend down at the barber shop he neglected to tell me either. Your mom hinted about the boot issue when I saw her at the grocery store, but your dad didn't mention it and your ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I never had?
Q. okay. so i have this crush on a boy in my school. and i know he doesn't feel the same way about me. but i can't stop thinking about him. and i always bump into him during school. and it makes it so much harder. the worst part is i have a boyfriend ...
A. 1 November 2009: You are a quick study girlfriend. You sound like you burned through twenty years of marriage and are sick of a husband. You are on the right track by telling yourself to just get over it. Hang on to this feeling and refresh it every time you get ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for my ex to sleep at my house (not in my room)
Q. I'm having serious problems with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is extremely jealous of my ex girlfriend, for whatever reason. At the start of mine and my g/f's relationship, my g/f hated my ex's guts. She warmed to her after a pleasant night o...
A. 1 November 2009: I am not so sure your girlfriend has a right to be angry but I can see her being a bit threatened.
But if you don't let your ex crash at your place, you are never going to be able to get up in the middle of the night and pretend you are sleep walk... (read in full...)
My husband is physically and emotionally abusive -- I really need advice!
Q. my husband is physically abusive now and emotionally. he always puts me down for my past. ive never given him a reason not to trust me. i would take a bullet for him i lvoe him that much. but he needs help. i love him but he really really needs help ...
A. 1 November 2009: LEAVE!... (read in full...)
Is it ok for my husband to flirt all the time.
Q. MY HUSBAND FLIRTS WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME, WHAT SHOULDI DO ? IS THAT OKAY FOR HIM TO D SO? ...
A. 1 November 2009: What's your definition of flirtation? Nodding hello as he walks past a woman or asking for her number. Your question is as vague as asking someone if they would like food for dinner tonight.... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.
Q. I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...
A. 1 November 2009: I am sorry alex. She has told him repeatedly she wants to talk. If he wanted to talk he would have pulled up a chair and talked. What is it with women and always needing to talk. I get it. Things need to be discussed sometimes. But when a woman ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.
Q. I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...
A. 1 November 2009: Quit doing anything. I don't know what his issues are but to press him is to be lied to and to push him further away. He will come around or he won't. But it sounds like he is off somewhere that he will have to find his way back on his own.... (read in full...)
Why is she confused and doubting her feelings for me? I have done nothing wrong
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating since April, although we were having casual sex for about a month prior. We got engaged in August, just as she moved to China for a year. We had spent almost all of that time prior to her moving away in each ...
A. 1 November 2009: A woman will totally destroy a man in an attempt to not hurt his feelings. If she wanted to be with I can tell you exactly the words she would say. I want to be with you. You think that you guys are amazing together because you are in love with ... (read in full...)
Is sex before marriage okay?
Q. Is sex before marriage ok? I mean what happens if it's going to be a while before you find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with??? ...
A. 1 November 2009: Would you buy a car without driving it?... (read in full...)
Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???
Q. I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, ...
A. 1 November 2009: I've seen evidence of big foot, the loch ness monster, and the abdominal snowman. I am open to a gunman on the grassy knoll, life on mars and the tenth planet X. I've seen two headed cows, bearded women, and men swallow fire and shoot sparks out of ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him! Is he an abuser?
Q. My boyfriend of four years(long distance for about 2 years, he lives in england) have just broke up because i have decided to end it after her verbally attacked me over a ridiculous reason. Here it goes...so my boyfriend is 25, lives alone pays his ...
A. 31 October 2009: Let me rephrase that. Until they find a way to electronically transmit orgasm's between two parties, you can keep your LDR's.... (read in full...)
I broke up with him! Is he an abuser?
Q. My boyfriend of four years(long distance for about 2 years, he lives in england) have just broke up because i have decided to end it after her verbally attacked me over a ridiculous reason. Here it goes...so my boyfriend is 25, lives alone pays his ...
A. 31 October 2009: I think it's sure sign of the both of you having a bad day and not keeping it to yourself. Until the technology is developed to transport a person's genitals across borders, you guys can keep your LDR's. ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: The only reason this woman would want to save this marriage is so she can spend the rest of their life together making each and every waking moment a living hell on earth for him. If I was her, I would be knocking on this guys casket as they lowered ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 31 October 2009: Fem anon with the Table of contents styled post. I like your style. There are fem anons here I think are delightful and some that are cranking whack jobs. Maybe you should create a tag line like Baby Duck. Hers is create your peace. Or be like ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: I get it when people tell you to get counseling, and talk, and do all that it takes to keep a marriage together. I have done it and it has worked. I have done it and it was a big piss in the wind. If I was twenty years younger I might be a bit more ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: And in the divorce proceedings they have a little thing called discovery. Google it.... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: If he would rather be divorced than give full disclosure to rebuild trust after an affair, I think I would accommodate him.... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: I don't see the people you are calling out commenting on your life style. If you are representative of contemporary Christianity, than the Christianity I see, is window dressing for bias and hatred for any one that doesn't think like you do.
A... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: Yes, but you women (collectivly) do but you expect to call us out on porn, and then scuttle back to your private place and get a free pass and do what you blister us for doing. ... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 30 October 2009: How did men, stray so far from enjoying a satisfying, and reciprocated sexual encounter, with a woman? It really makes me ashamed to be a man. How did we, as a gender, immerse ourselves so fully in porn, and cultivate habits, so unrelated, and ... (read in full...)
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