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I am a 26 year old wife, student, and small business owner. I have been married for about 18 months, no kids yet, and my husband and I run a boat charter company together. I am currently studying part time for my MSc in Clinical Psychology, and have worked in a facility for adolescent offenders. I also paint and sell my artwork, and handpainted glass. And yes... I still have time to answer questions here!

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Help! My mom hates my bf...should I leave him or try to make it work out?

Q.   Hi i am having a problem....my mother hates my boyfreind of nine months and so she has baned me from talking to himm she took my cell phone and everything eles away she also pulled me out of school...should i leave him or stay with him and try ...

A.   28 March 2006: The question is...why does your mother dislike this boy so much? It may seem she is being unfair, and it does sound like she is being a bit drastic, but she must have some reason for feeling this way. After all, I am sure she feels she is doin... (read in full...)

My husband's always off with his male friend, what should I do about this?

Q.   Hi, I am a 32-year-old woman and my husband is 35. We've been married 8 years. Recently my husband has been off on trips with a male friend of his - who I've never met in person, or even spoken to on the phone. If he's not golfing in Manch...

A.   28 March 2006: Sounding suspiciously Brokeback Mountain to me... ... (read in full...)

We're engaged but I used a fake AOL screen name and found out he's looking for more! Am I being deceitful?

Q.   I made an aol screen name to talk to my fiance to check to see if he was cheating on me.. Am I deceitful to do that??... The story is.. I'm a full-time office assistant in the morning and a student by night and on top of that i'm a mother of two....

A.   27 March 2006: Alright, yes this might have been a little decietful, but you had reason to suspect when you saw the conversations he had benn having. And whether or not what you did was right it doesn't change the fact that he is cheating online, or at least ... (read in full...)

I haven't met him yet, but he says we can meet sometime. What's going on?

Q.   i no this boy but i havent met him but he knows me and he thinks im hot and he said can we meet somehwere out the way what does that mean ...

A.   27 March 2006: Whoa! Be careful here, you dont know anything about this person, he could be anyone! If he really wants to meet you tell him he can meet you somewhere with your friends, and with plenty of people around. If he really wants to meet you that much ... (read in full...)

He's in the army. And he masturbates to porn while away from me..does this mean he will cheat?

Q.   im really worried lately, my boyfriend is 20 and im 19, hes in the army, and everytime he comes back he always has to have a porn magazine with him with naked women in it and he masturbates over them whilst in the army, does this mean he is ...

A.   27 March 2006: His use of porn in no way reflects on whether or not he will cheat on you. Many men use porn simply as a visual tool to release sexual energy. How about taking some sexy photos of yourself in your favourite lingerie next time he is around... then ... (read in full...)

A hidden text broke my heart. Are kisses cheating and can i ever feel secure with my partner again??

Q.   9 months ago i found a hidden text on my partner of 5 years mobile from a work colleague saying thanx for not taking advantage of me last night but i really enjoyed our kisses ... im still racked with worry that he may want other relationships ... ...

A.   24 March 2006: It is understnadable that you feel hurt and upset by this discover, and the fact that it is still troubling you 9 months later mean that perhaps you need to do something about it. It sounds to me like it there could be a reasonable explanat... (read in full...)

Golden Showers don't sound very appealing to me...should I take a chance?

Q.   i was sitting with my boyfriend the other night when he asked if i'd be interested in giving him a golden shower. i was taken aback considering that i had never heard of it until he explained. i dont know if i'd enjoy doing THAT on a mans chest! ...

A.   23 March 2006: It is a fairly common fantasy, although I have never understood the appeal myself. An online friend once told me that his first real life glimpse of a naked woman was when when he was a kid, and a friend of his big sister burst into his bathroom... (read in full...)

We never fight. Is that normal?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are in love. We've been dating for over a year, but we never fight. Is that normal?...

A.   23 March 2006: While some might think it is great that you never argue, if this means that the two of you are not confronting your problems than it is not a good sign at all. I am in no way trying to pin the blame on you, but could it be that he is worried ... (read in full...)

Should I be patient, or just cut my losses and run?

Q.   My boyfriend is 27 and is having some problems at the moment with money and stuff. He never wants sex with me and it's really getting me down. I'm 19 and have a very high sex drive, my confidence has really been knocked by this. The other nigh...

A.   23 March 2006: Stress can do strange things to a man's ability to perform, and losing an erection during sex is actually quite common when a man feels he is under pressure. A technique for easing the pressure? Try making a 'no sex for a month' rule. You a... (read in full...)

Are all the compliments I get just a ploy to get me in bed??

Q.   hi there. i really dont want this to sound self-obsessed, im just genuinley curious. Whenever i meet a guy, they always say im the fittest person theyve ever seen and how nice i am. i was just wondering is it just a ploy to get me in bed that they ...

A.   23 March 2006: Never take a compliment seriously from a man who is trying to get into your pants. What else do you expect them to say? 'You're alright but your mate is fitter'? If you want an honest opinion on your looks ask your most honest friends, or a ... (read in full...)

I love him but I can't resist the temptation to cheat on him. Any advice??

Q.   hi, I am in a turmoil.I have been with my current boyfriend for about 3 years on and off.I'm 17 and going to university in september, about 2 hours from where i live now. I know that you will all probably start having a go at me, but i have cheated...

A.   23 March 2006: Just because he might be the 'perfect boyfriend' doesnt mean that you are right for each other, or that you are right for each other. If you feel that you cannot be faitful to him, then end it, try to end it amicably so you can still be friends, ... (read in full...)

Am I a feak for having a "fat" vagina?

Q.   im kind of worried about something, and i could use some honest answers from guys (or girls if they know!) well its weird, but i think my vagina is too fat. im not overweight, but for some reason it seems like the outer lips are too "puffy". im ...

A.   23 March 2006: The question is, what are you comapring yourself to? If the answer is nude models or pornstars then you should know that these women are not particularly normal anyway! The truth is male and female genitalia come in all shapes and sizes, with a su... (read in full...)

We can never have ongoing conversations. We need help!

Q.   Silence that is causing boredom in our relationship! When me and my girlfriend are just sitting down in front of the tv or sitting in the car, there are times when we would have nothing to say to each other and get totally bored of one another a...

A.   23 March 2006: I agree with Sexybum! At the beginning of every relationship we all have a lot to talk about because everything we have dome before has been separate from each other. As you spend more and more time together, more of your experiences are shar... (read in full...)

I believe our problems can be fixed, but my GF runs hot and cold and keeps changing her mind...

Q.   For the past 3 and 1/2 years I have been with my girlfriend. We have been happy, and we have had our problems. In the past 6 months or so she has been getting irritated in the fact that we both still live at home with my mum. They clash a little and ...

A.   23 March 2006: Wow! This sounds so similar to some of the problems my husband and I had before we got married that you could almost be writing about me! I lived with my husband in his mother's house for a year before we got married. Of course the plan was... (read in full...)

How am I supposed to give him oral sex?

Q.   My boyfriend's penis is too big to really fit in my mouth to give him oral sex. what could i do to give him oral sex?...

A.   23 March 2006: Giving good 'head' isn't always about fitting his whole shaft in your mouth, or about 'deep throating'. There are plenty of ways to stimulate him using a combination of licking and sucking and hand action. There is a great blog by a friend of mine ... (read in full...)

Why am I suddenly freaking about the age gap?

Q.   My fiance and I have been in a relationship for 3 years. We have been through a lot together and that has bought us even closer. The only problem is that he is 14 years older than I am. I am 21 and he is 35. Right now that sounds like it's not that ...

A.   22 March 2006: It is natural to worry about these things at some point in a relationship where there is an age gap. I am 25 and my husband is 37 and prior to our wedding I did have worries about the practical side of out relationship. Questions about our lif... (read in full...)

No more affection after engagement...please help!

Q.   My fiance and i have been living together for 4 years now and everytime i ask him when were getting married, he doesn't know. it seems like ever since we've gottrn rngaged he's become distant. No more cuddling, no kissses, getting him to make love ...

A.   21 March 2006: Sounds to me like this man is scared of committment. Let him know that just because you have commited to him doesn't mean that he can take you for granted. All relationships lose some of the spark over time, it's just a fact of being together for ... (read in full...)

My partner lies to me about looking at porn!!

Q.   A few months ago I found out my partner was looking at porn on the web. He denied it but when I showed him the proof he had to admit it. This really upset me and as I have just hit forty, I was already feeling old, so finding out he was looking at ...

A.   21 March 2006: Men have many reasons for watching porn, from serious problems relating sexually to their partners, to just a plain old 'no-strings' release of sexual tension, but I have never heard a man say that he watches porn because the chicks are younger ... (read in full...)

Both my fiancee and I are virgins. I want our first sexual experience to be beautiful for us both!

Q.   I am engaged to be married soon. My fiancee and I are very close and have been together for a long time. We're both virgins. I want our first sexual experience to be comfortable, enjoyable, and pleasurable for her. What can I do to make things ...

A.   21 March 2006: Congratulations on qualifying as a considerate and caring lover! This is half the battle won already! However, try not to get your expectations up too high, or get too caught up in all this planning, it will only make you more nervous and worr... (read in full...)

What can I do about my boyfriend and his porn?

Q.   I recently found pornography on my fiance's computer. This is the 4th time I have found it. He knows how much it hurts me, only this time he admitted that it was his. I'm sick about it. I don't know what to do. Help?...

A.   21 March 2006: Firstly I think you should ask yourself what exactly is it that upsets you so much about his watching porn. Is it that you feel betrayed? Does it disgust you? Why? Then you need to sit down and discuss with him why he enjoys watching porn. M... (read in full...)

Any dangers of sex in a jacuzzi?

Q.   I want to try having sex with my hubby in our jacuzzi but I'm afraid of rumors that females can catch an infection from the water. Is this true? Please only individuals who have done it before answer. Thank you....

A.   24 January 2006: It is possible for women to catch STDs through using a jacuzzi, and not just through intercourse either, occasionally it can happen just through using the pool. This is because bacteria from an infected person can survive for up to eight hours in ... (read in full...)

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