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Hi,

STOP BULLYING!!! stopbullycide1@gmail.com

I am 21 years old and my luck in love has been terrible,

#1- Age 15- He was age 17- My first relationship lasted 3 weeks he finished with me for no reason! ( I think he was cheating)

#2- Age 16- He was age 20- We were so in love, we went on holiday together and then he just lost interest! We were together for 4 months

#3- Age 16 and 17- He was age 23- I loved him so much, he was into alot of drugs (im not) and did nothing but lie and cheat. Foolishly at age 18 i gave him a second chance where he said he wanted 2 get back together with me and then told me he got another girl pregnant when we were split up (WORST boyfriend ever) Then decided he actually didnt wanna be with me.

I have never had a valentines day! Ive been dumped before every single valentines day. But i always have faith and believe that one day the man of my dreams will come looking for me! I can encourage you and help the best i can.

... 2 years on...

I am now 20- I have had another 2 failed relationships since my last post but am now very happy with my prince charming.

.....1 year on.......

I am still with prince charming! We have had our issues just like everyone else but we work through them now 21... FINALLY!!! I had some flowers on valentines day delivered to work! It's the most romantic thing anyone's ever done for me I love him 3 I think I've figured this relationship thing out!

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I need help knowing how to introduce him to my parents. I really want it to go well.

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A.   3 January 2007: your best bet is when you are ready to for him to meet your parents ring them and tell them that you both are coming round to see them. im sure when they meet him they will love him if he is making you happy. just sit and talk to them and gradually ... (read in full...)

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A.   3 January 2007: ignore her, she will go away eventually. the more you react to it the more she's happy and thinks shes getting closer to breaking you two up.... (read in full...)

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Will it mess up the relationship if I agree to make out?

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A.   2 January 2007: making out, in england we call that snogging or kissing. the best kissing tips are -make sure you dont have bad breath! -moisten your lips but not too much -don't wear lip gloss it makes kissing gooey -make sure your chests are close together ... (read in full...)

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A.   2 January 2007: if you think that you are a kind loyal caring guy who never cheats then its the woman who is the problem not you. for example i like a guy who says im beautiful not "hot" and who can cuddle up and thinks about my feelings. i could go on forever ... (read in full...)

Do I tell him his mother ruined his proposal?

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A.   1 January 2007: hey, i say forget about them both and move on no one who plays games with your head is ever worth your time xx... (read in full...)

My problem with shyness makes me freeze up when it comes to talking to boys! Help!

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A.   1 January 2007: hey hey hey! you need to calm down hunni. take it one step at a time, pretend you are talking to a friend, be confident and be you! im sure you're an amazing girl so just be yourself! hope i helped you xxx... (read in full...)

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Is there a tablet out there that alleviates a heavy, painful period? Any advice?

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