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I am 21 years old and my luck in love has been terrible,
#1- Age 15- He was age 17- My first relationship lasted 3 weeks he finished with me for no reason! ( I think he was cheating)
#2- Age 16- He was age 20- We were so in love, we went on holiday together and then he just lost interest! We were together for 4 months
#3- Age 16 and 17- He was age 23- I loved him so much, he was into alot of drugs (im not) and did nothing but lie and cheat. Foolishly at age 18 i gave him a second chance where he said he wanted 2 get back together with me and then told me he got another girl pregnant when we were split up (WORST boyfriend ever) Then decided he actually didnt wanna be with me.
I have never had a valentines day! Ive been dumped before every single valentines day. But i always have faith and believe that one day the man of my dreams will come looking for me! I can encourage you and help the best i can.
... 2 years on...
I am now 20- I have had another 2 failed relationships since my last post but am now very happy with my prince charming.
.....1 year on.......
I am still with prince charming! We have had our issues just like everyone else but we work through them now 21... FINALLY!!! I had some flowers on valentines day delivered to work! It's the most romantic thing anyone's ever done for me I love him 3 I think I've figured this relationship thing out! |
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Is it normal that sex is painful the first few times?
Q. My boyfriend and i just became sexually active 2 days ago. We were both virgins. In the last 2 days we have had sex 4 times. The first time it was pretty painful. And the last 3 times have been painful but not as much. The last time felt good b...
A. 29 May 2007: Its very normal you have to get used to it sorry babe! Try foreplay or lubricant, it might ease the pain a bit. xXx... (read in full...)
Too shy..too scared of rejection! So how can I make a move on him?
Q. i am quite a shy person... when guys i am attracted to talk to me i usually freeze up and make a total and utter fool of myself. But on the same hand, i have never had any problem taking to "guy friends"... it's odd. Maybe it's just the idea of ...
A. 29 May 2007: Ok lets focus on you, you are shy, now try to think why? If it is because you have been rejected before then think to yourself thats his loss,this guy is also shy so if you dont make a move you will never know, plus somebody else could make a move ... (read in full...)
Special evening planned for my bf..just need some lingerie..any good online lingerie shops out there?
Q. My boyfriend comes back in three weeks from a five month trip. I really want his first night back to be special and memorable. Can anyone recommend any online lingerie shops? There are a million on the net and I don't want to end up with some...
A. 29 May 2007: www.annsummers.com its good for underwear xXx... (read in full...)
She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?
Q. Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i ...
A. 29 May 2007: Aww babes, you need to keep yourself busy to stop you thinking about her. As for the "eww" and "i will tell you later" comments, that gives impressions that she does like you i think she is just flattered that you like her, so just leave her to ... (read in full...)
I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?
Q. Hello. I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice. I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relatio...
A. 29 May 2007: Babes u will never know if you dont ask! Good luck!!! xXx... (read in full...)
Dilemma about telling a good buddy.. he's dating his old gf!
Q. I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down ...
A. 29 May 2007: Tell the truth babe, he wasnt interested and someone else is and it just happens to be his friend, he should have held on if he has feelings for you xXx... (read in full...)
How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...
A. 29 May 2007: This is a stalling technique give him a week and ONLY a week if he wants to take longer then tell him your moving on and he can come back to you. But dont be easy if he takes longer than a week to come back then make it out like you have to think ... (read in full...)
Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do ...
A. 29 May 2007: The past is the past babes, try not to think about it, he is yours now so nothing else matters except you and your guy xXx... (read in full...)
Should I call him or just leave it?
Q. I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am ...
A. 29 May 2007: Plenty more fish in the sea babe, so if he doesnt come to you then keep yourself occupied untill someone else comes along! xXx... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I've actually been sexually harrassed!
Q. I want to know whether I've been sexually harrassed. I don't think it counts because I sort of gave consent, I'm annoyed with myself because I didn't have the confidence to tell the guy that I didn't want him to touch me, so I don't think it counts. ...
A. 10 April 2007: Ways to say no:
-"I am too high maintainance for you, sorry luv"
-"Sorry your not my type"
-"Ah ah look but dont touch"
By saying no in these ways it makes him the embarrased 1 and not you! I am the same age as you and it works for me all the t... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I've actually been sexually harrassed!
Q. I want to know whether I've been sexually harrassed. I don't think it counts because I sort of gave consent, I'm annoyed with myself because I didn't have the confidence to tell the guy that I didn't want him to touch me, so I don't think it counts. ...
A. 10 April 2007: Ways to say no:
-"I am too high maintainance for you, sorry luv"
-"Sorry your not my type"
-"Ah ah look but dont touch"
By saying no in these ways it makes him the embarrased 1 and not you! I am the same age as you and it works for me all the t... (read in full...)
The guy I fancy mailed me asking if I want to go for drink! My friends say not to reply straight away as I will look too keen!
Q. I really fancy someone at my old job that i left last week. He is 30 and i am 20, and we used to flirt like mad. We built up such a close relationship, but he never asked me out. On my last day he asked for my email address and we exchanged them, ...
A. 10 April 2007: I can see what your friends mean but reply as soon as you want and if he doesnt reply straight away to the email you send him then leave it as long as he left it to send another x... (read in full...)
She won't let me go home to see my parents unless she's with me!
Q. hi I am a 21 and a lesbian. I am in one of the most unhealty realationships possible I think. My girlfriend won't as much as let me go home to see my parents unless she is there with me and I am not allowed out for drink with out her cause she ...
A. 27 March 2007: You need to gain her trust have you ever cheated on her with another woman or man? If not then you need to talk to her about this and say you cant put up with it anymore.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told he he'd went out with another woman, I called him to talk about this and a WOMAN picked up! What do I say to him?
Q. On V-day my b/f and i didn't do anything because I had to work, but he called me in the morning and sent me flowers and a card. Then the next day I went to his apartment and he told me the worst news ever. He went out with another girl. He swears up ...
A. 21 February 2007: if you think that he is cheating then hes not worth your time girl! if you are 100% true and faithful to a man you deserve a man who is 110% true and faithful to you, ask him about it and if the explaination isnt good enough then break up with him. ... (read in full...)
How do you put yourself in a better frame of mind when you have a battered ego and are heartbroken ?
Q. Dear Cupid, How does one make themselves feel better? I know this is a pathetic question, and some will say that it all depends on the individual, which is true. However, when one is feeling down in the gutters with a wounded heart and bat...
A. 6 February 2007: one word.... CHOCOLATE
no really try to get out and do things with friends or a nice lady friend whatever you do DO NOT mope around staring into space, hope this is of some help to you x... (read in full...)
He masturbates every morning before work...is this normal in along term relationship?
Q. my boyfriend masterbates in the morning before work? i feel that i don't satifiy him and i also feel rejected? should I feel this way or is it normal to masterbate in a relatonship Please help this is destroying our relationship of 5 years....
A. 6 February 2007: some people enjoy masturbating, this doesnt mean your not good enough for him, i know it sounds silly but some people masturbate for comfort. if you are still unsure about this try new things in the bedroom (new underwear, sex positions etc.) i hope ... (read in full...)
My turkish man wants to be with me! Should I marry him or not?
Q. I went on holiday last year to turkey for 8 weeks. While i was there i met a wonderful man. We became really good friends and soon found myself falling for him big time. He told me he felt the same and we soon became an item. We stayed in contact ...
A. 6 February 2007: follow your heart babe marry him if he is the love of your life. i believe that every couple should be togeether and you have been apart for so long its about time you were together for life... (read in full...)
My friend has had six months from hell! How do I help her cope?
Q. my friend has had the 6 months from hell. seriously. her mum died in a car accident last October, then her dad died from prostate cancer in December, after her Dad's funeral she went round to a friends house where they got into a big arguement. He ...
A. 6 February 2007: theres nothing you can do, you cant bring her loved ones back to life but all you can do is assure her that you are there if she needs to chat and you need to assure her that she can only have a better life from now on. YOU are there for her and ... (read in full...)
Depressed because I am scared he will forget me!!
Q. I'm about to graduate h.s. and i have been head over heels with one of our athletic administrators in school since the 7th grade when i first got a glimpse of him through an office window. I don't know ..i was just swept off my feet. Kinda weird be...
A. 6 February 2007: it sounds as if you two were great friends and im sure he will miss you as much as you miss him and forget you as much as you forget him (not at all)you will be the student he talks about to all his new students and he will say t some lucky girl wow ... (read in full...)
My mum died, at first my GF was great, but now shes asked me not to talk, now I have no one to talk to about it!!!
Q. This is a strange question. My mum died and at first my girlfriend was amazing help. Then she went on holiday, whilst she was away i was having trouble dealing with the lose of my mum and i shared my feelings with her. When she returned from her ...
A. 6 February 2007: i am around the same age as you so if you would like to send me a private message to talk about your feelings feel free i am here for you and i know exactly how you feel hun xx... (read in full...)
I confessed that I screened his calls, he know says hes going to beat me because of it!!!
Q. hi i confessed to my bf that i was able to screen his calls and that i noticed a particular number he kept ringing he got mad but told me he would tell me. But he came home and ignored me today, hes told me hes going to beat me because of it.... i...
A. 6 February 2007: get out of the house and go to a friends house. if things get bad call the police... (read in full...)
Together 9 months, really love him, but hes really stressed and so on so I hardly see him, what Can I do ?
Q. I met my boyfriend 9 months ago. He was very serious with me from the start, as I was with him. I wasn't looking for a relationship as I had just come out of one but nevertheless we were together. I fell for him really hard and I have never felt ...
A. 6 February 2007: i know all the thoughts going through your head at the moment. Men hate to be helped by women its just a natural thing. all you can do is lett him know you are there for him whenever he needs you and when he's cheered up a bit he will see sense ... (read in full...)
I've started to fall for my best friends husband, she died over a year ago and I feel really bad!!
Q. my best]t friend passed away a year and a half ago. her husband and i have become friends, mainly because their daughter is my godchild anyway. one nite recently we found ourselves kissing and stuff . worse of all i kinda like him, im starting to...
A. 6 February 2007: The answer is clear...
do you think your friend who loved both of you would want you to feel like this or to be together. To make her daughter your godchhild she must trust you and i know if i died id want my man to be with someone i trust.
hop... (read in full...)
I think its a foot Fetish, But why do I feel so embarrased by it?
Q. I pretty much have a foot fetish, I think. But I feel guilty and I don't know why. I love giving guys foot rubs...My boyfriend, his older friends, pretty much anyone I know. I suck on my boyfriends toes, too! He says it's hot, but why do I feel so ...
A. 6 February 2007: you shouldnt be embarrased by it at all i have lots of fetishes like tattoos nipple piercings and a bit of a tummy on a boy everybody has a fetish my current boyfriend has a fetish with bums! not just a normal fetish either (he likes to bite the ... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my bf to move in with me?
Q. Hey there, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship seems perfect most of the time, however, he doesn't seem to want to move in with me and he doesn't talk to me at parties til he's drunk and inarticulate. I would like him to ...
A. 4 January 2007: there are two questions you are asking here.
1. You cant force anyone to move in with you but to encourage him you could make the nights that he stays with you more interesting and romantic for you both.
2. Talk to him at parties, BUT don... (read in full...)
I don't find their jokes about our age difference (18/25) funny!
Q. Hi, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and (hopefully) responding! I’ve just been feeling a bit down lately. I’m 18 years old and for the past 10 months I’ve been in a great relationship. We were close friends for a while beforeha...
A. 4 January 2007: i agree with martini, yes you should talk to your friends about this but love is the strongest feeling you can feel (the strongest good feeling) and nothing should be able to come between two people that love eachother, if your friends carry on ... (read in full...)
I cant see him leaving his wife so do I stay with him? or do I end it now? i
Q. i have been having an affair with a married man for 5yrs, we were friends well before we were lovers,i knew he didnt love hes wife, and was and still is unhappy at home,he tells me he hasnt had sex with her for yrs?i dont believe that for a ...
A. 4 January 2007: you should not have even started this! put yourself in her shoes for a moment, you would not like to be cheated on like this would you? end it as soon as possible, yes it will break your heart but you will need to move on sometime and just remember ... (read in full...)
Will I get a chance to meet her again? What should I do?
Q. Last summer, this girl came over and she flirted, and we played tennis at the local park. But she was a real tease with other lads, but I really thought we had a connection - and wish I had asked her out, like I was thinking Because she just ...
A. 4 January 2007: yes definately if you see her around again get her number and start to text her if she is interested she will meet up with you and hopefully a new beautiful flower blooms (a new lovely relationship will happen) but dont hang around waiting for her ... (read in full...)
I have issues with how I look that are making me paranoid!
Q. ive got really bad self esteem issues but i dont know what to do about them. I hate myself so much that the only part of me that i can look at in a mirror is my face and even then it has to be in dark lighting and from the front view. i hate the ...
A. 4 January 2007: i am not sure how much you weigh but just remember all those women who are big and beautiful like raven symone, shirley bassey has gotten big but still is beautiful. like the others have said learn to love yourself and your confidence will build up.... (read in full...)
Worried I'm too tight for sex...
Q. hi, bit of an embarassing question but recently me and my boyfriend have tried having sex but im too tight and cant even get anything in! so i tried stretching myself with my fingers, so far i can fit them all in fully individually but im more ...
A. 4 January 2007: make sure when you and your boyfriend have sex that it is special and you both are comfortable. you cannot get enough foreplay, make sure there is enough foreplay untill you are comfortable, i had this problem my first time and my second time i ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and want to get married. Is there any way to bypass parent permission?
Q. me and my boyfriend live in kansas. im 16 and i want to get married to him. the only way to do that though is if i have parent permission. i know my parents wouldnt like the fact that i want to get married at this young of age. is there anyway to ...
A. 3 January 2007: ask yourself that in 4 years time when you are living with him and picking up his pants and cleaning up his mess! you are young yuo have plenty of relationships ahead of you.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a teenage girl to watch porn? I want to stop..help?
Q. Is it ok for a teenage girl to watch porn? Because ive noticed many guys do but i dont know any girls who watch it. I wanna stop but i cant. help....
A. 3 January 2007: its only natural for you to be curious!... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him or give him a chance?
Q. I asked a question on here before. But it changed. Ok the boy i liked who i thought liked someone else is now my boyfriend. One problem. - I'm free next sunday but he's out, and he's free on saturday but i'm out. - I like him alot, very m...
A. 3 January 2007: i think aphexinfinite is very right but remember to follow your heart and dont let him break it! xXx... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him or give him a chance?
Q. I asked a question on here before. But it changed. Ok the boy i liked who i thought liked someone else is now my boyfriend. One problem. - I'm free next sunday but he's out, and he's free on saturday but i'm out. - I like him alot, very m...
A. 3 January 2007: i think aphexinfinite is very right but remember to follow your heart and dont let him break it! xXx... (read in full...)
He lies continuously and cheats on me. Why do I put up with this?
Q. I have been involved with a man for 7 years. When we met i was 21 and he was 35, married with 3 kids.(he did get divorced), supposedly for me. over the years he has lied and cheated, yet he says that i am the only one he really loves and would ...
A. 3 January 2007: you seem much better than this! nobody deserves to be cheated on it makes you feel worthless and not good enough for him when really he is not good enough for you. leave him straight away, you are a woman not a toy and you have every right to leave, ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 23. Would it work?
Q. Okay so im an 18 year old guy who is very interested in a 23 year old girl. We get along really well and theres never a dull moment when we are around each other. Being that there is a 5 year age difference, would it work ? ...
A. 3 January 2007: Of corse it will if you both love eachother! one of my brothers is 20 and hes with a 26 year old woman but they love eachother and they are great together another one of my brothers is 21 and hes with a 25 year old woman they have a baby together ... (read in full...)
I'm prepared to do anything to get her back. Any advice?
Q. hi, just wondering if anyone out there has any advice to get my girlfriend back? we had been 2gether 10 1/2 years (engaged for 5) and i thought everything was fine, geting on as normal etc. then out of the blue 2 weeks before xmas she told me she ...
A. 3 January 2007: oh dear, im sorry to hear this it must be heartbreaking
so...
how to win a lady back:
1. do you remember how things used to be when you both first fell in love?
- All the nice things you said to her, all the romantic things you did for her? tel... (read in full...)
Found great guy but mom doesn't approve. What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid i am currently going out with a boy. Hes a very nice kid you know very respectful and down to earth we've almost been going out for a month now and my mom found out how old he is hes 19 and im 15 but i'll be 16 in april and my mom told me ...
A. 3 January 2007: follow your heart if you can prove to your mother that you both love eachother then she should approve especially when you are 16.... (read in full...)
Is something wrong with me? New years was horrible. I spent 2 hours of it crying.
Q. I had a crap new year. I didn't want to be at home with my parents (I'm 18) but I wanted to go to a party. There was one party that I heard of but it was invite only. I went to a friends house (just 3 of us) and it was depressing. I left and spent ...
A. 3 January 2007: nope, i spent new years babysitting because my bf finished with me that day i cried for the whole night because i wanted to go out and have fun but really i was lonely and heartbroken so you are not the only one. maybe next new years will be a blast ... (read in full...)
He was shaking when we made out. Am I doing something wrong?
Q. Hey all!! I was making out with my new bf the other day.. and he started to shake as we were making out... was this just nerves? or was I doing something wrong? love xx...
A. 3 January 2007: it was nerves honey try to make him less nervous around you and he will be ok :-)... (read in full...)
I need help knowing how to introduce him to my parents. I really want it to go well.
Q. Hello Me and my ex were together about 2 years ago for 3 month but it wasn't working out due to me working away at the time. The other week I sent him a birthday card saying if he wanted to be more than mates call me, I was so happy when he di...
A. 3 January 2007: your best bet is when you are ready to for him to meet your parents ring them and tell them that you both are coming round to see them. im sure when they meet him they will love him if he is making you happy. just sit and talk to them and gradually ... (read in full...)
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