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25 February 2013: Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...
Some dating mistakes to avoid.
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24 February 2013: School Girl Errors There seems to be a flood of questions associated with infidelity etc, I have compiled a list of common mistakes I have noticed I have also made, not sure if some of them are obvius but here goes; - If a guy is acting cold...
Tips for dating and insecurity
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16 December 2012: Hi I have noticed alot of insecurity going on, I have complied a list to help people; Porn If you don't want this in your relationship, discuss it a few weeks into dating. Do it in a light hearted manner. If they are a user try not t...
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I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And they talk with their friends about how "hot" these women
Q. I am curious to get a man's perspective on a few things. I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And ...
A. 24 June 2013: This is female anon from 23 june I wasn't signed in.
I think you are meeting the wrong type of men. If by "perfect" you mean the fake tanned, fake boobs look there are plenty of men who do not like this look. I know a guy who doesn't watch po... (read in full...)
I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And they talk with their friends about how "hot" these women
Q. I am curious to get a man's perspective on a few things. I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And ...
A. 21 June 2013: When you say grown men what age do you mean? Some men don't mature for a while. My ex boyfriend said when he was single it was more plausible to masturbate over the normal looking women instead of the glamourpuss type, some guys like to look at ... (read in full...)
Sex can give you STDs or cause pregnancy!
Q. My name is Kayla I'm 15. I think today the world should know about what sex can do... It can give you sexually transmitted deceases (STD's) or end up pregnant at a young age then your whole childhood is gone! sex is a big step in a relationship you ...
A. 8 June 2013: I didn't know you could get stds from oral sex til I was 18. At school they only teach you about the curable STDS. Alot of men will try it on just remember this if they are attempting to have unprotected sex with you there is a big chance they have ... (read in full...)
My husband always looks at other women and tells me that's normal. I can't bear it! Help?
Q. whenever i am out with my husband, he always look at other womens which i can't bear. its hurting me always. due to which i don't talk to my husband 2-3 days. but still he does the same. i spoke to him about this. he says it's normal. but i can't ...
A. 29 May 2013: When you are with him not so much, but if he is on his own I'd say alot of people look at other people it doesn't mean that much.... (read in full...)
Why does he want to do it himself instead of being intimate with me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we are in love and live together. We have a really good and happy relationship apart from one thing. He would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Iv talked to him about it and he said that he ...
A. 21 May 2013: If you really want to work at this he needs to reboot his system so he can get used to being stimulated by real sex. Masturbating to porn is easier than real sex as it requires less thought about the other person, it is all about yourself.
"You ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!
Q. Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...
A. 21 May 2013: "Or Mybe he cheated Idk. But he been seriously acting out porn with me for some time."
He may be addicted to porn and can't separate fantasy from reality. What was the name he called you?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!
Q. Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...
A. 20 May 2013: If it's a pornstar's name I'd say that is quite disturbing, someone should not be that interested in a 2d image. If it's roleplay it's normally discussed before hand. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!
Q. Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...
A. 19 May 2013: No it's not normal.... (read in full...)
I'm a strippper, attractive and fit so why does my boyfriend still watch porn?
Q. so i am 18 years old, my fiance is 26. we have been together for a few years and we have a pretty good sex life. generally at least once a day. im just wondering why he wants to continue looking at porn when he has me. (i'm a stripper) i'm extremel...
A. 18 May 2013: It's something to do with spreading the seed, it doesn't matter how attractive you are they will still have this desire, it sucks. ... (read in full...)
We have good sex so why is my husband looking at porn?
Q. I recently noticed on the history of my phone was a porn site so clearly its my husband I've checked his history and it was the same site. I don't watch porn but don't mind him watching so said nothing. our sex life is really good to him to and is ...
A. 15 May 2013: I am going to tell you this, someone will have to tell me if they think this is right for on a phone because I know it's right for on the PC. When you visit sites there is adware software this gives you popups and adverts on the internet depending ... (read in full...)
For my porn-addicted boyfriend, will me not having sex with him make him distant or just horny?
Q. hello, this might sound childish but i really need to make my boyfriendd want me more, i really need to tease him, but will me not having sex with him (we r sexual active) make him distant or just horny. see the thing is he watches porn and i hate ...
A. 15 May 2013: "stop having a go at me its not your busieniss".
I'd dump them on that comment alone but that's just me.
Find someone who doesn't look at porn in a relationship there are plenty.
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Should I be worried about oral sex unprotected from 4 years ago?
Q. I am here to ask about the effectivenes of HIV home test such as OraQuick, as well as the rist of Oral sex when it comes to HIV. The reason why I am asking is because I literally just took one OraQuick test, followed the instructions to the T and ...
A. 10 May 2013: As the others have said the chance is extremely low, genital herpes type 1 is the thing you should be worried about. ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a man 21 years older than me. Could it work?
Q. Hi, I am a 26 year old woman and I find a 45 year old man attractive who barely looks 40, he could pass for late 30s. My question is does anyone know of any successful stories of people with an age gap this big? My ex was 36, we split due to other ...
A. 5 May 2013: okay off subject a bit of strange question, but he claims condoms weren't easy to get in 1996 in Spain, is that true or is he having me on? He has a child because of this.... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 1 May 2013: STDs should be disclosed even if they are cleared up
Not sure if I entirely agree as they have been cleared up and not going to cause harm to the other person.
I think alot of women forget to express their concern about the porn thing at th... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 23 April 2013: I think it is almost impossible for men to think about the same person every time they masturbate, if he tells you how attractive you are etc and thinks of you at least some of the time I think that's the best bet you can have.... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 14 April 2013: It is possible they will look again because they don't understand why they should be stopped from doing something they enjoy that doesn't directly affect you. I know it's upsetting :( ... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 11 April 2013: Yes that makes sense they don't understand why women moan about it, same as when women don't understand why a man is bothered about their sexual history. Whatever reaction you got it couldn't of been as bad as the ones I got. ... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 11 April 2013: If he initiates sex when you're together, tells you how attractive you are when you are and aren't there, tells you he liked last night and sends you texts, I'd let it go. I got none of that with my ex boyfriend even though he had given up the porn ... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 10 April 2013: Yes it is normal to react like this at least it is to me. I could of written what you said myself. If you check my old answers and questions you will see. I've been unlucky to have two boyfriends who were too much into it. When confronted it they ... (read in full...)
I was snooping around boyfriend's home and found bags of ladies underwear, sex toys and porno!
Q. While snooping around my boyfriends house I found bags of ladies underware, sex toys and porno movies. I mean several bags! I was shocked. Why did he have these and why would be ever keep them. I can't tell him that I found this stuff because I was ...
A. 8 April 2013: Let me get this straight, he had a keen interest in sex when he was single now he has a girlfriend he has bagged it up, isn't that the perfect situation? lol.... (read in full...)
I introduced my boyfriend to porn. Boy am I ever sorry!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together over a year we are both very serious about each other. Our Sex is phenomenal and no matter what we are going through Sex is always that one thing that we have that just made everything better. until about three ...
A. 5 April 2013: I'm not sure why you introduced porn into the relationship. It can cause loadssss of problems. I spent 3 weeks trying get my boyfriend to stop.... (read in full...)
I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me
Q. My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity togeth...
A. 27 March 2013: "We lost our virginity together, when we first had sex, we went for over an hour and he never ejaculated, I gave head but nothing. I didn't really think too much of it, just thought it was weird." Too much masturbation causes delayed ejaculat... (read in full...)
How early is too early in a relationship for the following?
Q. How early is too early in a relationship for the following? 1. Love bites 2. Ear kisses 3. Being topless together 4. Boob/nipple kisses 5. Being in underwear together 6. Being in bed in underwear together 7. Having a shower together 8. Bein...
A. 23 March 2013: I'd say you should know the person for at least 3 months for anything under clothes.... (read in full...)
I am very hurt and angry that my husband is looking at porn. Why does everyone think porn is ok?
Q. I have been married for 4 months and moved across the country leaving my family and everything behind to be with my husband. I have no one out here but him and his family. I miss my family so much and cry quite a bit. My mother was molested b...
A. 21 March 2013: I can't stand it myself, they shouldn't be interested (but that's just me sorry if I annoy anybody by saying that) ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to NEVER have fantasies about your partner?
Q. I have a question for all the people who are either in a serious relationship, or married. Is it normal to NEVER have sexual fantasies about your partner? The reason I ask is because while I am attracted to my husband, I find myself fantasizi...
A. 13 March 2013: I will be honest, I don't think it's normal to never think of your partner. It seems to me like you're in it for the security and you don't see him as a sexual being. My ex boyfriend never fantasized about me when I wasn't there, and this was at ... (read in full...)
It's time to move on, but I can't get over my lousy ex! Any advice?
Q. It's been three months since I broke up with my boyfriend. He wasn't good for me at all- was in to drugs, ladies man, lied alot, had no morals, no motivation, and was super sneaky. But I can't stop thinking about the good times. I miss the company ...
A. 12 March 2013: 1. You miss the company that's all everyone get's that when they split up with someone.
2. He was probably scared of commitment, some men take off where commitment is concerned. The ladies men in particular. ... (read in full...)
My Gf over-reacts. How can I calm things down? And how to get her to give ME attention, she starts to lose perspective?
Q. So I want to know how to deal with my girlfriend when she overreacts to the little things I say or do. Usually she's in a good mood but every now and then, she gets pretty irritable and is bothered by the most trivial of things, and when this hap...
A. 12 March 2013: You are incompatable, trust me I am the same most of my previous boyfriends have said something that has upset me. What is it you say that upsets her? For one alot of girls don't understand banter. Secondly alot of us don't like any kind of chat ... (read in full...)
She masturbated... without me!
Q. Should I be upset about this? Basically, my girlfriend and I had not had sex for almost 5 days. While we had never really agreed to not masturbate before our next time in bed, we had talked about doing something like that before. (We have sex a ...
A. 11 March 2013: I don't see the problem with masturbation unless she was using porn, I can understand people being upset about that.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a hypocrite for watching porn
Q. So I'm a horn dog. I like sex and enjoy masturbation. My boyfriend is the opposite from me. He enjoys pleasure however does not want to do it often. I tell him I don't want him watching porn, However I watched it yesterday night and he caught me. He ...
A. 8 March 2013: If you don't want your partner to watch porn you need to be upfront about it at the BEGINNING and completely abstain from it yourself. I had porn related problems in my previous relationship and believe me things got very grisly towards the end. If ... (read in full...)
He cannot keep an erection, what do we do now?
Q. My husband is suffering from erectile dysfunction. He has been to many doctors, including a urologist, neurologist, , you name it. After many diagnostic tests, it seems that nothing physical can be found. He used to have full erections almost daily. ...
A. 5 March 2013: Does he masturbate to porn alot? Sometimes that causes ED. Tell him to stop and reboot his system, so he can get turned on by normal stimulus. ... (read in full...)
How is this for a profile on an online dating website?
Q. I am a member of a dating site, however I never know what different things to say in a reply that is mentioned in my profile. Here is my profile (is this too bland?): I am a happy-go-lucky guy with one life motto: Live life to the max! My f...
A. 4 March 2013: I've re-written it.
I am a happy-go-lucky guy and my main motto is: Live life to the max!
I enjoy eating out with friends (include what you mainly like to eat) I sometimes like just relaxing in front of a film. I like going to the cinema and l... (read in full...)
Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways
Q. Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...
A. 3 March 2013: They would obviously have to have more than one of these on the list. ... (read in full...)
How can I control my jealousy? He flirts with other girls.
Q. ok ill try to summarize my problem, i fell in love with my high school classmate he was kind of shy person and i had a complete trust in him but when high school was finished and we went to college every thing changed one day he took me to a very ...
A. 3 March 2013: "he took me to a very romantic place and told me that he had a crush for a girl in his college she was a blonde and i am a brunette and he said that this was one of the reasons why he fell in love with her" Strange, first sign of abnormality. ... (read in full...)
Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...
A. 26 February 2013: "I say dress up! Put on some makeup! Call some good friends of yours! Find out where the swankiest spot in your town is, then, when you're dressed to the nines and looking fantastic, say to your cheater boyfriend "I'm taking your advice. You'll ... (read in full...)
Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways
Q. Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...
A. 25 February 2013: Believe it or not 1,2,3,4,6,7,9,11,12,13 have happened to me from one guy. ... (read in full...)
Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...
A. 25 February 2013: A man is supposed to make his girlfriend feel like his only fantasy, some men seem to miss this point. ... (read in full...)
The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?
Q. I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But ther...
A. 25 February 2013: I dumped my last boyfriend for not being very passionate towards me and some other stuff. I too want that, most women are into that kind of stuff that's why they make the romance films. The key thing to remember is they are going to have some flaws, ... (read in full...)
Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...
A. 25 February 2013: He is too immature if my boyfriend behaved like that I'd drop him like a sack of sh*t! They shouldn't be bothered if they like you enough. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook
Q. I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset ...
A. 24 February 2013: I have noticed things like this from my friends on Facebooks they don't say they are in a relationship, it might be (don't be upset) he is messaging other women, he is possibly afraid of commitment. ... (read in full...)
Am I the most beautiful girl in my BFs life? Not according to his Facebook messages ...
Q. Help I am having self esteem issues now. A couple of weeks back I got a hold of my boyfriends Facebook messages (we made an agreement that we would delete both of ours months ago). Anyway, when I read the messages I saw things that were sweet that ...
A. 23 February 2013: "You ARE beautiful to him, just not his "ideal". He loves you for who you are, and decided to overlook the fact you aren't what he normally prefers in the looks department. I would also like to add that it doesn't mean he thinks you're ugly or ... (read in full...)
Am I the most beautiful girl in my BFs life? Not according to his Facebook messages ...
Q. Help I am having self esteem issues now. A couple of weeks back I got a hold of my boyfriends Facebook messages (we made an agreement that we would delete both of ours months ago). Anyway, when I read the messages I saw things that were sweet that ...
A. 23 February 2013: The same thing has happened to me, one of my exes would say things to other people and not me, if it bothers you that much dump them and get someone who appreciates you more. My last ex appreciated other people more than me physically aswell. My ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 29 January 2013: Well he did seem very open about showing me his collection lol. Yeah people will keep it quiet if they have cheated, it's a sh*tty scummy world out there. ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 23 January 2013: I would like to say this, my ex was 36 years old and it should of been obvious to him at his age to know that porn is upsetting to some women in a relationship.
I also think if someone was truly meant for you, you wouldn't have to tell them how... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 4 January 2013: I guess you're lucky Ceberus. It still hurts me that my ex boyfriend used porn whilst dating me, I thought he was different but he wasn't, but for those who don't like it there are definately people suited to you.... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 29 December 2012: Ceberus don't be offended by this but you seem a little too interested in porn considering you're in a happy relationship. I don't even understand why you are so struck on defending porn use in a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 16 December 2012: One of the things that got to me was, my ex didn't make a fuss out of me sexually enough, that's possibly the main reason I dumped him. I even said to him one night if someone broke into my emails they would not know he was my boyfriend. Who knows, ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 15 December 2012: Cerberus some of us aren't that secure unfortunately :(
I did have a boyfriend who although he cheated (he was depressed and she was more supportive) adored me physically infact he was almost obsessed. He told me he didn't watch porn when wit... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 15 December 2012: I believe women get upset mainly because they thought were the only one their boyfriend was looking at, if I had known about the fact he owned porn from the beginning and used it all along life would of been very different now. ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 15 December 2012: I would hate to realise I was spending my life with someone who had been using porn all along but saying they weren't and gad stopped. That is horrible.... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 14 December 2012: This whole porn thing is difficult, it is not proper cheating as we know... I think some men just assume a woman isn't going to bothered because they wouldn't be bothered if their girlfriend did the same. It's a thing people do assume everybody ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 14 December 2012: It would of been nice though if my ex-boyfriend hadn't of done it, but there's nothing we can do now. It was difficult for me to believe he didn't know it was going to upset me, that was the part that angered me. He claims he thought I knew about it ... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 14 December 2012: Part of the problem lies with the woman not letting it be known near the beginning. I didn't express my hatred loudly and clear at the beginning and it ended up that I could not forgive me, truth is if I had informed him how much I detested it he ... (read in full...)
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