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Am I right to doubt my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok, here's the problem, I love my bf but lately he has been saying how nice looking and open-minded my best friend is, my brother has told me to leave him because he thinks he is cheating on me and I want to leave him but we live in the same house ...

A.   8 October 2007: Your welcome, hope everything goes ok.... (read in full...)

I've got herpes. How do I tell the guy?

Q.   ok, ive just recently been tested and found positive for Herpes Simplex type 1 (genitally) so i know i caught it from oral sex im worried about telling the guy. hes not a boyfriend more of just sex - although have to confess doesnt feel just totally ...

A.   8 October 2007: Exactly just keep thinking that its his loss not yours. And to be safe ask him to get tested too.... (read in full...)

I've got herpes. How do I tell the guy?

Q.   ok, ive just recently been tested and found positive for Herpes Simplex type 1 (genitally) so i know i caught it from oral sex im worried about telling the guy. hes not a boyfriend more of just sex - although have to confess doesnt feel just totally ...

A.   8 October 2007: I think you should tell him so then you both can be more careful when having sex. Maybe tell him to get tested as well to see if you got it from him.... (read in full...)

Should I go to the dance?

Q.   Ok so at pretty much all of the dances I've been to, I didn't dance. I don't understand why I didn't but I think the major reason is because the people I hang with don't dance either. The next dance I have, should I hang out with the people I know ...

A.   8 October 2007: I know but I want to dance now since I haven't danced at a dance in like 3 years. I don't want to just walk around and do nothing the whole time.... (read in full...)

I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!

Q.   I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've bee...

A.   7 October 2007: You are not ready at all honey, you are only 12. I know you said you think age is only a number but in this case its more than a number. When your older your going to wish you didn't have sex with this boy and wish you would've waited. If you think ... (read in full...)

I've been having sex with the band teacher and I'm not excited about it. Should I stop going out with him?

Q.   I am 16 right now and I have my own car, OK. Well I have band class and our band teacher asked me if I would come to his house after school for something. Well I trusted him because he is a family friend. Anyways I drove over to his house the othe...

A.   7 October 2007: I think he;s taking advantage of you and you should tell your parents and make him get arrested. You will end up hurt in the end and he shouldn't be slapping you on the a$$ at all.... (read in full...)

My teacher kept me in for detention, kissed me and had sex with me on his desk.

Q.   I need urgent help! I'm seeing my teacher during and after school. He gives me detension so I can see him at lunchtime. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't want to end this. The other day at lunch we were kissing and had se...

A.   7 October 2007: Your going to get hurt in the end so just stop this whle you can/ It's not wrong to have these feelings but it is wrong to have sex with your teacher.... (read in full...)

Am I right to doubt my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok, here's the problem, I love my bf but lately he has been saying how nice looking and open-minded my best friend is, my brother has told me to leave him because he thinks he is cheating on me and I want to leave him but we live in the same house ...

A.   7 October 2007: Don't do anything drastic. He may just be saying this because he talks to your best friend as a friend too but I don't know. Ask him about it before you break it off.... (read in full...)

How do I pop the question to my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 years, and it is as brilliant as the first day we met. I'm so in love with him and him with me. I've decided I'd like to propose to him: he'd never expect it and it'd be so unconventional. Thing ...

A.   7 October 2007: Your only 16 or 17, that is a bit too young in my opinion but if you think your making the right choice, go ahead and do it but make sure your parents will be behind you.... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on my 58 year old vice pricipal

Q.   I am 17 and I have a huge crush on my vice principal and he is 58. He is always saying that I look stylish he is always placing his hand in my hair when I talk to my other teacher. Is he jealous? When I am with my friends he only says "hi, how are ...

A.   5 October 2007: Well I don't think your vice principal should be touching you the way he is. I think he likes you but please don't try to do anything dumb or else he will get introuble and will go to jail.... (read in full...)

Do women find short men attractive?

Q.   Ok, I read the one about the lady asking a good question about whether men find tall women attractive. Well, I admit it, I prefer short women,but, for a good reason, I'm short myself! I'm only 5'4. So, my question is exactly the opposite. Do women ...

A.   5 October 2007: I'm a girl and I find shorter guys really cute. In fact I'm not really attracted to really really tall guys, shorter is better if you ask me. I don't like when people tower over me lol. Not that I'm saying tall guys are bad or anything I just ... (read in full...)

How much contact is "obsessive"?

Q.   What is too obsessive? my boyfriend tells me that i am too obsessive. I live an hour away from him and call him during my breaks and he calls me during his. Then i ask what he is doing. All of the sudden he ask if I am obssed with him. How do you ...

A.   5 October 2007: I wouldn't say your obsessed from what you've said here. Maybe he had an old gf who was really obsessed with him and he wants to make sure the same thing doesn't happen with you, I don't know lol.... (read in full...)

A group of friends - including an old crush - made a reference to my racial background among other things and laughed! What should I do?

Q.   So there's this guy that I use to like last year. He was mean to me in the beginning of the year, like he'd throw salt in my hair and call me ugly and stuff. Then he started being nicer to me and stuff like that. Then this year he was being OK i ...

A.   5 October 2007: I think the only reason they said I act 'white' is because I don't listen to rap and most of my friends are white. I'm not saying I don't act black or white, I just know I don't really like rap but that doesn't mean I act white. I'll just ignore ... (read in full...)

Do you think my teacher likes me more than a student teacher relationship?

Q.   So I've liked this teacher for about 4 years now. He was one of my middle school teachers too. Anyways, the last couple of months of 6th grade [when I started liking him too] he started calling me by another name, it was a type of inside joke. But ...

A.   4 October 2007: Anyone??... (read in full...)

She does mean stuff and then acts like we are buddies...should I just irgnore this or confront her?

Q.   There's this girl that's supposedly my 'friend', we'll call her Sammy. She is like the biggest drama queen I've seen in my life. She thinks everyone is always talking about her and that she's the center of the world. Ok get this, last year this boy, ...

A.   2 October 2007: I really really want to ignore her but its so hard and she'll start complaining and getting people to ask why I'm ignoring her. And like every science class we get into an argument :[... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   1 October 2007: Well your only about 14, way too young for sex let alone an orgy. Don't do it, people at your school will find out and it will be the embarassment of your life.... (read in full...)

He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?

Q.   Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...

A.   1 October 2007: Maybe tell him your not comfortable with it at all. You both need to sit down and talk about this. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher! Help!

Q.   i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...

A.   30 September 2007: First off, don't hurt yourself over anyone. Especially a teacher. He's your teacher, he may like you but as many people have already said, it can't and shouldn't go anywhere. And don't tell anyone. I told a friend of mine a teacher I liked and she ... (read in full...)

Can a relationship with someone who values their friends over their girlfriend, really work?

Q.   I have a friend who Im interested in being more with him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, however Im not sure if it would be a good idea because he has this attitude/beleief that friends always come before girls, so 'bros before hoes' type of ...

A.   30 September 2007: Well I've never been in a realationship like this but if you really like him and he really likes you, he should make an exception. If not you guys will probably have to talk about it,... (read in full...)

I like him, but I'm fridged! Any advice?

Q.   I Really really really like this guy who is 2 years older than me. no1 noes about how much i love him nobody noes that i even like him!! we talk all the time, go out nearly every weekend But recently we have been gettin really really close. W...

A.   30 September 2007: Well it seems he likes you too. Ask him out again, or ask if you guys can be a one on one couple.... (read in full...)

Does he want me back or not??

Q.   hello everyone! i have a question that i need to ask and get off my chest so here it goes...I went out with this boy hes 15 im gonna be 14 in a few days so there wasnt an age gap n all that hard stuff. but anyways things were going really good at ...

A.   30 September 2007: I was in a slightly similar situation. He may want you back but its difficult to tell. Go face to face with him and talk about it.... (read in full...)

Is he seeing someone behind my back? Why would he lie?

Q.   i think my boyfriend is seeing someone behind my back the other night he said he was at home but i knew he was not because his car was not there.when questioned he said it was but i am not blind.he said he loves me more than anything so why lie to ...

A.   30 September 2007: Well, anyone could say they love you and be lying. Anyways just keep watching him closely but don't run him away.... (read in full...)

I've liked this guy for 6 years. What do you do when you find out you like a guy?

Q.   Hi, this is a really stupid time to ask this and am stupid for not asking earlier. But hey am still going to ask I've liked a guy for 6years and still think about and might still have some feelings for him, am 14 he's 14 anyways i haven't told him ...

A.   28 September 2007: Well when I do like a guy, its normally one I can actually talk too since I'm too shy to go out and talk to some guy I don't know. Anyways I never tell them I like them, instead I just start flirting with them. I do that by playfully hitting them, ... (read in full...)

Can you check for STD's with a simple blood test?

Q.   my girlfriend has had a past relationship and is wondering.. can you check for STI's with a simple blood test? thank you...

A.   28 September 2007: Well, I'm not sure if this is correct, but if someone had a past realationship they have to wait about 5 years before any real signs of it come up in a blood test. Not sure if that's right though.... (read in full...)

I want to make sure my teacher doesn't get into trouble before I make steps towards a relationship?

Q.   Will my teacher get into trouble if we have a relationship? I'm 18 and my teacher is right out of university he's 23. I'v always dated older men but this is different. He is a teacher at my school. I really like but i don't know how he feels I c...

A.   28 September 2007: I don't think this would be illegal but he would probably get in trouble and you'dget taunted by your fellow students so don't do it. You'll regret it later in life, you can be friends with him though.... (read in full...)

I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?

Q.   I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. W...

A.   28 September 2007: Think about it this way, you don't love the girl, you [[hopefully]] love your boyfriend, its an easy decision to make. It's just doing it that's the hard part. You don't have to tell your boyfriend about the girl but just gradually stop seeing her, ... (read in full...)

Do you think my teacher likes me more than a student teacher relationship?

Q.   So I've liked this teacher for about 4 years now. He was one of my middle school teachers too. Anyways, the last couple of months of 6th grade [when I started liking him too] he started calling me by another name, it was a type of inside joke. But ...

A.   28 September 2007: No one else has an opinion on this?... (read in full...)

Do you think my teacher likes me more than a student teacher relationship?

Q.   So I've liked this teacher for about 4 years now. He was one of my middle school teachers too. Anyways, the last couple of months of 6th grade [when I started liking him too] he started calling me by another name, it was a type of inside joke. But ...

A.   25 September 2007: Oh yeah I totally know that, but thanks for your opinion, I need more input then just my mom lol.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with the new teacher, he dropped loads of hints and kissed me at lunch. What if the school finds out?

Q.   a new teacher started working at my school about 1 year ago. even since he first spoke to me, i have fallen for him. (i know i must sound crazy but i really do like him!) the thing is, he has started liking me back! he has dropped loads of hint...

A.   24 September 2007: You'll get over him eventually. This is a very dangerous situation too.... (read in full...)

I'm spotting. does it mean I'm pregnant?

Q.   well lets see im 15 and i am spotting....me and my ex-b/f had sex and i got my period during it than it stopped 3 days later....does this mean im pregnant?...

A.   23 September 2007: I'm not sure but at this age your period is going to be crazy. I know because I'm 15 and mine is going crazy right now lol. Maybe you should get a pregnancy test, it's really hard to tell at this age.... (read in full...)

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