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I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in ...

A.   6 July 2009: Speaking from the other side and to give you the male perspective; I have just had to end a long term relationship with an absolutely great girl because I knew I didn't want children ever and she definitely did. I've never met a girl like her and ... (read in full...)

Facebook about to ruin another relationship?

Q.   I would really appreciate people's opinions / advice on this particular dilemma...Nothing new, but I'm sure lots of people have had similar experiences. Damn facebook... Me and my girlfriend (both early 30s) have had some problems lately but we ar...

A.   6 May 2009: My girlfriend and I know each other's passwords for Facebook, this was after I did what you did and snooped at her mobile phone. I was shocked when I found out she'd been in touch with an ex despite denying having any contact with him for months. It ... (read in full...)

I want baby with my husband...but he doesn't want this. What can I do to convince him?

Q.   I would like a 3rd child, ( I have 2 from my previous relationship, he has no biological children) but my husband is happy with my two, in fact we are in progress of him adopting them) For a year and a half now I have been talking to him about it ...

A.   5 May 2009: I'm in a similar but not identical position to that of your husband, I've been with my partner for nearly two years and she'd always imagined she'd have children. I told her on the first date that I didn't ever want them and have maintained that ... (read in full...)

I think my start in puberty is messed up

Q.   hi im 13 yrs old and i think my start in pubity is really messed up! i have hardly any pubic hair and what i do have is very close to the start of my penis i have armpit hair but not very much only about 3 or 4 hairs on each armpit and i was told...

A.   4 April 2009: Spot on Jamer70, everybody develops at different rates. You'll catch up, mate, don't worry about it and try to enjoy your teens, look on the bright side, when I was 13 I was hairy, greasy and spotty, my mates who developed more gradually never ... (read in full...)

I cant stop thinking about her. How do I get over her?

Q.   Ok, How can I begin, there is this girl who goes to school with me, she really really shy, pretty, smart, and athletic. I mean she is so shy that she only like talks to like 3 people, ok. I created a myspace like 2 months ago, and stummbled across ...

A.   4 April 2009: In your teens these crushes can be unbearably painful and invariably, when the object of your desires doesn't reciprocate, the heartache can be horrible, I remember those feelings, they're intensely painful and the world feels like an awful place. ... (read in full...)

He won't give oral unless I shave and I really don't want to!

Q.   For a while when my boyfriend and i started dating i went down on him almost everytime we had sex and in between, expecting to get some oral lovin as well, but i got nothing. When i finally asked him to go down on me he said he doesn't really like ...

A.   4 April 2009: Short, fine blonde, well trimmed pubic hair with good personal hygiene isn't a problem to most guys. Big wild, untamed boffs can be because, without trying to be too graphic, they can be quite a challenge on the face and sense of smell, thick bush... (read in full...)

Battling the temptation and the right.

Q.   This is the follow up to the Co-Worker question. I've kissed my co-worker the past 3 times we've worked together. My boyfriend found out about the first time and almost left. I wish he would have. I don't want to hurt him, but I really want to be ...

A.   4 April 2009: Only one answer to this: Be honest with yourself and leave your boyfriend, it might hurt him in the short run but no break up is painless and by doing so, you're allowing him to find someone else. Dare I say it, he might find someone better who ... (read in full...)

Ex wife wants me back and she has new child

Q.   Please help. I am a 30 year old male who at the age of 12 fell in love with a girl, also 12. At 15 we started dating and 13 years later we were married with 3 kids. The relationship had its moments and to be honest the arguments were mainly over ...

A.   4 April 2009: Stay with the new girlfriend, she sounds amazing, patient, understanding and willing to do what she can to satisfy you. A lot of women would kick you into touch the second you told them that you were trying to decide whether you wanted them or your... (read in full...)

Does the size a woman's boobs matter to men?

Q.   I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I ...

A.   4 April 2009: I've slept with women with small, large and average boobs and it doesn't matter one bit, it's about so much more than that. One of my exes had small boobs and it bothered her much more than it bothered me, I gave up trying to buy her nice clothes ... (read in full...)

I'm loose. Will my future husband be put off by this?

Q.   Dear Angony Aunt, I am a 17 year-old high school senior. Last summer I lost my technical virginity. Since then I have had sex with six guys.I start college in the fall and I expect to bed a different guy every Friday and Saturday night.Do you thi...

A.   4 April 2009: Better to be sexually adventerous with one or two guys over the next few years, lots more random partners isn't lots more sexual adventure, you'll try far more exciting things in bed with someone you've developed a trust and loving bond with. Al... (read in full...)

My wife wants to have sex with another man to get pregnant!

Q.   My wife is desperate to get pregnant. She is 39 and we have been trying for about 4 years. She doesn't want to do IVF we tried IUI and she hated it. A good friend has offered to have sex with her (unprotected) to see if that would work. (nb I am not ...

A.   4 April 2009: Hi, Personally I think your 'good friend' is simply trying to get his end away with your missus. I'd call that an indecent proposal and would probably knock his teeth out for suggesting something like that to me. If your sperm count is normal ... (read in full...)

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