Sees me out, we have sex, and then he doesn't get back to me! Its happened twice!
Q. Im gonna be honest from the start about my problem and would like honest answers. Back in December I slept with a man who afterwards didnt want to know me because I had a drug problem. I did have a cocaine problem until January of this year when his ...
A. 18 April 2009: i think its a cliche but time will get you over it!
what you have to think of it like is a chapter in your life - this guy was that much to you that you stopped a habbit, you're on a good path now and you just dont need the shit - you might ws... (read in full...)
I am really baffled by this!
Q. My husband and I have been married a year together for two.. When we got together his oldest daughters were moved out and it was just his son.. Well his oldest daughter was living with her boyfriend and his parents. Neither one of them had a jo...
A. 16 April 2009: I think he cares for his daughter and wants to see the best for her but i dont feel that it should be your responsibility to care for her or the child, no. By all means, if he wants to look after her, let him take care of everything, he m... (read in full...)
I think love means sacrifice am I right?
Q. I have a question! Do you think that if a man loves a woman (and wants to be with that woman) that he should do whatever he needs to do to be with her Even if he has a lot like three business and lots of properties! i mean you only have one lif...
A. 16 April 2009: love means many things to many people - for some it means sacrafice. I like to think it more of a compromise than a sacrafice though. Love means you would do almost anything for that person, but recipricated love should mean you should... (read in full...)
Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?
Q. Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then...
A. 16 April 2009: I think you should hang in there, it may well work out - but at the same time you should look out for yourself, if you found someone new, it would be his loss, its not from lack of trying on your part that you two arent together yet. If he misses ... (read in full...)
Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?
Q. Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then...
A. 16 April 2009: Short answer is that long distance is a bugger, he met someone else, realised it might happen agiain to him or you, isnt commiting because you are so far apart and most likely is trying to keep it open to protect himself from getting to attatched ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in asking my partner not to let her ex stay overnight??
Q. my partner is from abroad. She has a child and when she goes back to her country to visit her parents she also allows her child to see her father. Her parents have a large two bed apartment outside of town and she stays their alone with her daug...
A. 16 April 2009: I'm married, I live in America, my husband and i have 2 children, each from previous relationships. My sons dad and family live in England. I don't want my husbands childs mum comming into my home, we dont go into hers, i certainally wouldnt... (read in full...)
Do you think it's a bad idea for a girl to let her man go to a bar without her?
Q. My boyfriend wants to go to a bar Friday night with some of his buddies. His friends have a band and are performing that night. My friends are all like "your letting him go by himself?" I'd never let my man do that!" He's never given me a reason not ...
A. 16 April 2009: it depends on the kind of person he is and your past history together. i let my husband go to the bar without me and i go out sometimes without him. He isnt a big drinker and neither am i, and we both know where our home is. you cant keep a... (read in full...)
14, he's 18, does that makehim a pedo?
Q. hi, im a 14, and my boyfriends 18. i know alot of people think its weird, sick, wrong, etc. but i really like him, and we were friends for months before he asked me out. the thing is, one of my friends told me that hes lik a pedo.. i dont thiink its ...
A. 15 April 2009: Dating a man of 18 when you are a child of 14 is not wrong in some ways but you have to remember that there are laws. If you are just dating this man, you are doing nothing wrong in the eys of the law. However, if you sleep with this man, you ar... (read in full...)
Do I tell her about my panty fetish?And if so, HOWdo I tell her?
Q. Wow do I have a panty fetish.I am married so that helps. But I have to touch satin panties everyday and see them. Its been going on for about 25yrs.my wife knows about it oviously but she don't know how bad it really is.if I'm going out of town she ...
A. 15 April 2009: WOW! 25 years is a long time to keep something in! If your wife lets you take her panties with you when you go away or when she is away and if you have a good marriage then the chances are she already knows! If she is happy with you taking them ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's nervous, or its me but he can't seem to stay hard
Q. Hi there, me and my bf are having problems in the bedroom and i dont really understand why: heres the back story... Me and my Boyfriend met about 9/10 months ago as he lives about 3 hours away in a house with my sister and his best friend who ...
A. 15 April 2009: Sometimes when a guy likes or loves a girl so much they have all this pressure on themselves to do the best they can in every department and sometimes the pressure can make it hard for them to keep hard in the bedroom beause they are so intent on ... (read in full...)
Sees me out, we have sex, and then he doesn't get back to me! Its happened twice!
Q. Im gonna be honest from the start about my problem and would like honest answers. Back in December I slept with a man who afterwards didnt want to know me because I had a drug problem. I did have a cocaine problem until January of this year when his ...
A. 15 April 2009:
situations like this drive us nuts because we just cannot get into the other persons head and figure it all out, i think you should take what has happened and put it in your pocket and wait and see if it goes anywhere. while you are... (read in full...)
Am I worrying too much?
Q. HELP!!! Ma friend hasnt been online for over a week i love her to pieces, she knows i love her, but i'm worried sick over her, she has been online once, only once, this week :( from the time i came back from holiday until now (sunday i came back and ...
A. 15 April 2009: 3 days isnt long, she might be bisy or lost internet connection or any of a number of things, wait it out, se what happens, dont get too clingy else you might push her away.
i'm sure she is fine.
i lived in england and my husband in ameri... (read in full...)
How can I say no without making things awkward with the employer?
Q. Times are tough for me financially right now, and I'm trying to set myself up in a new country, newly married etc. I've been sort of forced to take this part-time nannying job while I look for other work. The child is 2 years old, and the family i...
A. 15 April 2009: You are being employed by her to do a job - you are not being employed to do ALL the jobs! If that makes sense - you, as the nanny, should have set times and hours of work and you should stick to them, as a parent sticks to rules with a child - if ... (read in full...)
I know I love this guy so why am I unhappy?
Q. Idk what to do any more. I know i love this girl why am i unhappy? I cant figure it out. I've given this girl everything and she has given me everything. I know she is the one for me. I want to be with her but i'm having a hard time with this. ...
A. 15 April 2009: Sometimes when we have everything we want, we start to strive for something else - perhaps your not unhappy with the girl, perhaps you are unhappy with your life in other aspects - maybe you need to look for new ways to live and laugh with this ... (read in full...)
Why do we cry when someone dies?
Q. Hey y'all! Ummm I just need to ask this but why do we cry when someone dies? Or leaves us? Or anything like that why do you think we cry other than when we get hurt? Cause I can't help but cry everytime I see my fathers pictures and think of his ...
A. 15 April 2009: When someone dies they are no longer visible to us, they are taken away, gone, and we don't know to where or why this happens and our brain gets thrown into what is known as a state of dis-equilibrium and confusion as we cannot justify to ourselves ... (read in full...)
Still waiting for my first kiss!
Q. I'm 15 turning 16 in May. I have never had my first kiss not even a peck. I've had 1 bf before.The fact that i haven't been kissed has always made me insecure, but lately i've felt terrible. What's wrong with me? I feel so ugly and unwanted. My ex ...
A. 15 April 2009: You are one in a million and there IS someone out there for you, there is someone out there for all of us - i was in the same boat as you at your age, I didnt have my first kiss until i was 15 almost 16 years old. I was extremely shy, i had chances ... (read in full...)
Are one-night stands really the norm?
Q. I have a bad feelings about one night stands. I see that many people have had one night stands in their lives which I think is very slutty to me. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be with a girl who has had one night stands because I want someone who ...
A. 15 April 2009: Hey, i think it depends on how you look at the situation and why one night stands occur.
I am nearly 30 years old and i have only slept with a handful of people and i have had a one-night-stand but i had just broken up with my long term partner ... (read in full...)
When is a woman most fertile?
Q. When are you most fertile/likly to get pregnant? I slept with some guy last night and i had just finished my period two days beforehand? I was really drunk but he used contraception but im not on the pill anymore so im worried that because i had jus ...
A. 15 April 2009: The long and the short of it is that you can get pregnant at almost any time of the month. The general rule of thumb is that a woman will be most fertile mid-cycle, about 14 days after she started her last period (on a 28 day cycle) as this i... (read in full...)
Help me propose!
Q. I am about to propose to my Girlfriend and i am scared to death, i have no clue how to ask her? Any ideas? i want it to be romantic....
A. 6 April 2009: cook her a meal, get down on one knee during dessert, or take her to a fancy resturant and ask her there....does she have a favourite place? You hae to think about the things she likes, tailor make it to her interests...my husband was cuddling me ... (read in full...)
Do good looking guys have problems getting gf's?
Q. Are good looking guys always able to get girlfriends?...
A. 3 April 2009: i find the majority of good looking guys do get gfs easily but they dint seem to keep them! especially if the guy is sure of himself! the same is true of girls though. i know some good looking men who are perceptually single coz they dont th... (read in full...)
Slept with my teacher and his gf found out
Q. i really need some advice. first off i'm 16, almost 17 and im in my last year at high school. im really sporty and a few months ago i started getting friendlier with my male teacher. we always have a joke and a laugh and he pays me alot of attentio...
A. 3 April 2009: First off, i know I'm skeptical but i wonder why you feel you have to clarify your age, it says you're 13-15 but you say you're 16 going on 17? Either way, the age doesn't matter, your teacher has performed an act of gross misconduct and you should ... (read in full...)
What's your take on Manscaping?
Q. Hi Everyone, What's your take on Manscaping? Do you think a man should keep his pubic region trimmed, natural, shaved? I see lots of girls ask about this but I think it is becoming more common for men as well. I know it is personal prefere...
A. 3 April 2009: Wel, ive never heard it called manscaping before, but i like it!!
I think it depends on the guy and what he feels comfortable with, my husband shaves his if he feels like it, leaves it if he doesnt, i like it either way as long as im not getting ... (read in full...)
Why do women prefer being on the top?
Q. Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the ...
A. 1 April 2009: Its like everything else, not all people like it on top and those who do like it for various reasons - she can dominate him, he can get a kick out of being dominates, she, or he, can stimulate her further because his hands are free, unless she's ... (read in full...)
How to seduce my boyfriend
Q. Hi, I need some help (especially from any guys here!) about how to seduce my bf. We've been together for 4yrs. He usually initiates sex, always in the bedroom, and I'd like to make a change. He used to take me to the bedroom at least once a day, ...
A. 1 April 2009: I think you need to talk to him - you need to know what makes him tick and see if there is anything that would spice up your sex life that wont offend him of make him feel dirty - some men dont like certain things, some like everything, the only way ... (read in full...)
Just wish we could be a normal couple!
Q. I am a 49 year old woman and I have know the man I am with for 45 years. We were 4 years old when we met. We started dating when I was about 17 years old. We have 3 children. Boy 30, girls 23 and 18. We started living together in 1986. We are still ...
A. 1 April 2009: I think the only thing you can do is ask him what the hell is going on. It sounds very strange to me and im sure you're feeling all sorts of confusion and maybe even rejection? For you both to have been together so long and have done so much tog... (read in full...)
Just found out my husband used to cheat... I'm pregnant what do I do?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and am pregnant with my 2nd child.Recently found out from my husbands x room mate that while we were engaged he was bringing girls back to the house and sleeping with them.Help what should I do.I heard a girl at a bar ...
A. 1 April 2009: You need to talk to him. You are pregnant and the stress of it all playing on your mind is not good for you. I suggest you talk to the room mate again, ask him why he told you this now - did he do it because he and your husband have fallen out?... (read in full...)
In a foreign country with a cheating husband. What can I do?
Q. couple of years ago when we first got our computer came down in the middle of the night to get a glass of water.My husband had not x'd out of the screen so when I did so there was a letter to someone on line.He gave a false name and said to this ...
A. 1 April 2009: yes, you have to think about you, and the children, you cant do this in the house with him there - take a trip, "home" or anywhere, with the kids, take some time for yourself, give yourself room to think and breathe. When you have this, you'll be ... (read in full...)
Will this stop her from being pregnant?
Q. We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and ...
A. 30 March 2009: both my sisters and my mum became pregnant while on the pill....it is possible, take a test ... (read in full...)
I have an evil stepdaughter and a stupid wife
Q. I have been seperated for 4 yrs. Recently me and my wife have been trying to bring our family together. We have one child together and she has a child from a previous relationship. The step child a girl is an absolute brat. She is a little slut as ...
A. 30 March 2009: You should have the right to express your feelings, yes, but you have to remember that the girl is 13 years old reguardless of her situation and hormes will be all over the place. If your relationship with the mother is unstable this will of course ... (read in full...)
Teen moms
Q. Hey, if any of you are young teen moms; I just wanted to ask what it's like and your experience and if it's planned or not and how you feel?...
A. 25 March 2009: im 29 now and i had my son when i was 16 years old. i had him 2 weeks before my 17th birthday and i wouldn't recommend becmming a teen mother - i didnt plan to get pregnant but it happened and i, like the previous poster, didnt believ in abortions ... (read in full...)
Am I the only married lady who lies to her husband?
Q. hi, normally it is the husband that lies,but it's different in my case. i would like to know if am the only married lady who lies to her husband. i dont want to any more but i just cant stop.i lived a rough life as a youth (which he knows)an...
A. 25 March 2009: I dont think its just you, i think everyone has little white lies - as long as nothing is actually going on with you and these people i dont see its a problem, even married couples need a tiny bit of a private life - if you feel you should be ... (read in full...)
I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon
Q. I'm aged 27 years and I have a problem, whenever I have a sexual intercourse with my wife, I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon in the first round and it's low in quantity and even after trying the second round I don't ejaculate any ...
A. 25 March 2009: There are several ways in which you can prolong ejaculation - have a look at thi page: http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/a/premature_ejac.htm or do a google search.
If you're experiencing any pain or discomfort you may have 1 of a number o... (read in full...)
Her libido is way off the richter scale!!!
Q. I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I couldn't ask for a better lady. She's intelligent and absolutely stunning. The thing is though, she has a massive sex drive. She's never satisfied with just vaginal intercourse, she has to have...
A. 23 March 2009: Im reading this and find some of the responses interesting - if the post had been a woman complaining of her husbands overly hungry sexual appetite i think the responses might have been diffrent, you may have ben advised to talk to him, tell him how ... (read in full...)
Should a good boyfriend accept you for the way you look?
Q. In your opinion, a good boyfriend that really loves you should accept you for the way you look? Even if you feel fat or ugly? ...
A. 23 March 2009: If your boyfriend loves you then he loves you for the way that you are or else he wouldnt be your boyfriend.
If you feel you're fat or ugly, dont. Everyone is a different shape and size - this is what makes the world such a wonderful place to... (read in full...)
Do women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised?
Q. i am a 22 year old male and circumcised and i am just wanting to know if women have a preference on a man being uncircumcised or circumcised? do women really care about this?...
A. 23 March 2009: i much prefer circumsized but wouldnt kick my husband out of bed if he wasn't!
different strokes for different folks etc :)... (read in full...)
Why did she jump and tell me to stop?
Q. Hey guys, Well I'm not that experienced in this so I came to this site to see if I could get some help. I have just started going down on my girlfriend and as I was doing it at one point she kind of got jumpy and told me to stop. She described it ...
A. 23 March 2009: yeh, agree, she may just need anothe "go"...i never used to like it, i felt as though i was giving up control of something - it also used to hurt a little in a good way but in a way id still not want to continue a long while...someimes when a wman ... (read in full...)
Unusual bleeding...
Q. Wow, I'm pretty glad I found this site. This is really embarrassing, sorry but I'm not sure what to do. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a month now; we always use condoms and I am also on the pill. But for the past few days my ...
A. 23 March 2009: it could be anything from a simple irritation to a detergent to an sti - your scratchig is the most likely cause of the specks of blood but the cause for the itching should be checked out just to ease your own mind - you may have worms (easilly ... (read in full...)
We used to be so happy together. What is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and a month. He left his wife about 3 years ago and moved back home. We got together after that and he is going through the divorce. She lives in another state. I'm confused on why he won't ask ...
A. 21 March 2009: You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. It sounds to me as though he's scared of losing you - which is common with men (and women) who have/are going through a divorce. If you put yourself in his shoes, he once loved this woman so mu... (read in full...)
Everyone is calling me a monster because I don't feel anything
Q. well i don't know what to say about what i am facing. seven years ago my best friend died in a car accident and all my family cried when they heard the news but i did't feel a thing. and two years ago my father died from a heart attack and i was...
A. 20 March 2009: When my dad diedi felt nothing, i cried once, that was it. I didnt cry when he died, i didnt cry at the funeral.
I felt nothing when my nan died either.
I dont think there is anything wrong with that.
Maybe your just stronger than you realis... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone I've never even spoken to!!!
Q. Hi, well basically I'm here becausee I'm totally in love with a boy I've never even spooken to and I think he likes me too! It's so weird I know! Well it goes like this: I work near him, he works in a shop and I always go in on the way to work but...
A. 18 March 2009: there is nothing wrong in giving him the idea tt you are interested, while most guys like the chase some like the girl to let him knowthere is a chase to be had...life is too short, give him a clue.............. (read in full...)
I don't get it..did I do something wrong when we met for our first date! Help me understand!
Q. Sorry about the length but please do read it all. Thanks! I met this guy online and he was so excited at the prospect of meeting me. He asked me out and planned dinner at the beach. The night we met up something wasn’t right. He seemed distract...
A. 18 March 2009: Perhaps he met up with you with different expectations, perhaps he was using you. I would like to think he was initially meeting up with you for sex then met you and became confused and didnt want to hurt you because you were so nice....but perhaps ... (read in full...)
What compliments do guys like to receive?
Q. I've been talking to this guy who lives on the other side of the world, i think i'm falling in love with him... he's falled in love with me, when we are at uni we plan to meet up, i think he could be 'the one', i'm not being silly and immature, but ...
A. 17 March 2009: I have several points to make. First of all, i laughed at the previous comment about the husband matching his socks - mines happy if i compliment him on having some! :) Second of all, it is pretty common these days to have found love online, ... (read in full...)
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