Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?
Q. My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...
A. 19 November 2009: Sorry, my chart didn't show like i expected it to, but basically, i've explained it in the text :) XxxxX
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Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?
Q. My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think you've probably just about worked it out for yourself :)
It might look something like this:
You ---------------- Best friend
/ /\ \
/ you and bff daught... (read in full...)
My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!
Q. How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...
A. 17 November 2009: You can't really know if it is medical or psychological unless, as the other poster suggested, he go to the Dr. and find out if there is anything physically wrong with him.
If he is willing to go to the Dr. then it might be a good sign that it ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?
Q. i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block ...
A. 17 November 2009: p.s. I actually deleted my ex from facebook, msn and myspace because it was just too much to see him and the things he was doing and who he was doing them with etc. Not because I wanted to be with him, but because it was just another string keeping ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?
Q. i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block ...
A. 17 November 2009: It might just be easier for her to have a separate place she can be (albeit online) where she can have her space from you reguardless of whether you're getting along OK or not.
Give her the space that she has created for herself and wait for... (read in full...)
Thinking of getting back with my ex but he frequently doesn't answer my calls!
Q. my ex and i might get back...we have been talking a little over 2 months. We will probably be meeting within the next few weeks..the thing that bothers me is its been about 5 or 6 times when it will be my turn to call and i do and there is no answer ...
A. 17 November 2009: The only thing that i can say would be that Ex's are Ex's for a reason, and usually that reason is a very good one.
If you're seriously thinking of getting back together, yet you're not happy at this point even before you've figured it all out,... (read in full...)
Thinking of getting back with my ex but he frequently doesn't answer my calls!
Q. my ex and i might get back...we have been talking a little over 2 months. We will probably be meeting within the next few weeks..the thing that bothers me is its been about 5 or 6 times when it will be my turn to call and i do and there is no answer ...
A. 17 November 2009: The only thing that i can say would be that Ex's are Ex's for a reason, and usually that reason is a very good one.
If you're seriously thinking of getting back together, yet you're not happy at this point even before you've figured it all out,... (read in full...)
How do you make a long-distance relationship work?
Q. Does anyone have any tips on how to make a long-distance relationship work? I only see my boyfriend at weekends as I'm at university. I was blocking him out of my head so I didn't feel sad but ended really screwing up by cheating on him. We've ...
A. 16 November 2009: Long distance relationships are not for everyone - usually the lack of actual human contact while having all of those emotions running around in your head, makes for a huge amount of guess work and fantasies with regards to what the other person is ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on gay cruise ships where I could work?
Q. I have recently arrived home to Australia after living in the UK and travelling Europe. I have developed the taste for travel and am looking to work on cruise ships as a way of saving money and seeing exotic places at the same time. I am 23 and have ...
A. 16 November 2009: This is a very specific direction for your job choice, which may make it difficult to find, but I did a little googling and managed to find some information on gay cruises here: http://www.atlantisevents.com/
While that site doesn't necessar... (read in full...)
Looking to do work counselling children?
Q. I recently posted a question on here regarding choosing my next career move. I have decided no what it is I want to do, but now need advice and suggestions in regards to this choice. I am now looking to do some work counselling with children; I...
A. 16 November 2009: In order to become a child counselor you will have to take a varied few courses in education to be able to gain a certification and practice in such a delicate field.
While I have no experience in this field myself, I would like to suggest ... (read in full...)
Can I study nursing with these qualifications?
Q. I have completed my b.a and after that i have done P.G.D.C.A(post graduate diploma in computer applications )now i want to do study of nursing.can i do it .do my qualifications match the criteria?...
A. 16 November 2009: I am really not sure of the criterion for nursing in your country, but the best advice i could give would be to google for a nursing association in your country and contact them with your question and see what they have to say.
In most cases yo... (read in full...)
I'm interested in working in America for a few months
Q. im 23, from the UK and work full time but i am really interested in working in America for a few months. But every site i see that offers it is for students on gap years or who work abroad during the summer. does anyone know how to do it? i am ...
A. 16 November 2009: Firstly, you are never too old!! :)
Getting over to America to work is going to be very difficult. You would need to find an employer that is willing and able to sponsor a visa for you before you travel or else you will not be able to work whe... (read in full...)
What are entry requirements to become a cop?
Q. hi i m 19 and study in waltham forst college in intermediate level in business and ICT i m interested in becoming a part time cop to serve england at my best so please send me the entry requirments and what i have to do now thanks ...
A. 16 November 2009: Hey there! My sister used to be a police officer and had to go through some pretty rigorous training to make it in! (this is a police force in England, don't be put off my by little American flag :)).
I did a quick google for you and there is... (read in full...)
My husband and I have violent and abusive arguments. Can we fix this or is it too broken?
Q. Last week I had a big arguement with my husband. It was the day before a big exam he had and he swore at me several times pushed me and in anger told me to get out. I left but then he rang and profusely apologised. I returned home but was still so ...
A. 16 November 2009: No woman, or man for that matter, should be subject to abuse within the confines of their own home.
What he has done to you is wrong, plain and simple, but what you are doing to him, is just as bad.
I don't see this relationship bei... (read in full...)
Happily married but having dreams about my high school girl! Is this normal?
Q. i have been happily married for two years now and i keep having dreams about a girl i really liked in high school. i really wanted to date this girl but her mom didnt want us to. is this normal for me to keep dreaming like this? im happy with my ...
A. 16 November 2009: Just to clarify, when I said: Are you truly happy in your marriage? Is there something you refuse to admit to yourself? If the answer is no, then i'd assume these dreams to be harmless.
I meant, if the answer is no, there is nothing you refuse t... (read in full...)
Happily married but having dreams about my high school girl! Is this normal?
Q. i have been happily married for two years now and i keep having dreams about a girl i really liked in high school. i really wanted to date this girl but her mom didnt want us to. is this normal for me to keep dreaming like this? im happy with my ...
A. 16 November 2009: To dream about "the one that got away" is very, very common and nothing that you should be worried about.
Sometimes, as we get older and settle into marriages and long term relationships, we look back at what could have been and the what ifs - no... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex will come back after 2 years of not hearing from him?
Q. i had a boyfriend whom i introduced to a friend of mine.they started getting close my friend didn't have anything to do with it she already had a fiancee but my boyfriend started pestering me about her i understood his intention and i left him ...
A. 16 November 2009: If it has been 2 years then I very much doubt that he'll be returning to your life.
Do you have any reason to believe that he might return?
I think that seeing as you've been apart for 2 years now, and that you're in a new relationship, yo... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend. Should we continue our secret relationship?
Q. Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?...
A. 14 November 2009: If this man truly loved you, he would not be messing around with you and dating someone else!
I am sorry that you lost your baby, I know that it can be a very difficult thing to experience and come to terms with, and both you and he share a ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about his fetishes?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years who I love dearly, constantly talks about sex. He masterbates at least 2 or more times a day. We do not live together, but we spent the weekends together and some nights during the week. We both are 53 yrs old. He has star...
A. 14 November 2009: No, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you but you do have a right to be concerned.
This is a guy who has been allowed to be sexually "free" (for want of a better word) for a large part of a previous relationship and which he is probably... (read in full...)
Does a man get angry if I won't perform oral sex until he's cleaned himself off?
Q. Does a guy get upset/angry if when giving a hand job and he asks you to go down on him because he is about to come and he didn't have anything to clean him self afterwards and you refuse? I mean we were just making out and things went a bit furth...
A. 14 November 2009: Your question was a little confusing, but the jist of it is that he wants you to go down on him and save him the mess - this isn't a reason to go down on a guy, not a very good one at any rate!! If you say no, you say no. End of story. You are in ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my embarrassing facial hair?
Q. hello!! im only 14 years old and i realy like to flirt with boys but ive recently noticed that i have some excess hair on my face, its almost none at all but sometimes it makes me feel self conciuos. so my question is...if i shave it off with a r...
A. 14 November 2009: There is a really good article on this here:
http://www.bukisa.com/articles/47041_why-a-woman-would-shave-her-face
Don't worry about the hair growing back thicker etc, it is an urban legend, but the shorter the hair is, the blunter it looks... (read in full...)
He said if I died he'd move on. Does that mean he doesn't really love me?
Q. Im in a comited relationship with a guy since 4 months. we both really love each other..but i feel he doesn't love me much..because just for fun i asked him a question. da question that i asked 2 him was, what wil he do if i die? he said after my...
A. 14 November 2009: I'm of the same belief that if my husband died i'd move on. What am i going to do, grieve over him and live out the rest of my life in solitude and misery? No. Doesn't mean I don't love him, I actually love him very much, but I know that he'd not ... (read in full...)
Could one little white lie ruin my relationship?
Q. Me and my man have been together since may this year and i feel like he does not trust me. For example, yesterday i had to work and had only two dollars to get me to work and no money to get home. I called a couple of my friends to pick me up but ...
A. 12 November 2009: Did you eventually tell him that you had a ride home with your ex or does he continue to think that you were in a taxi?
If you told him that your ex gave you a ride home, I think that he has every reason not to trust you, you did lie, no matter h... (read in full...)
Could one little white lie ruin my relationship?
Q. Me and my man have been together since may this year and i feel like he does not trust me. For example, yesterday i had to work and had only two dollars to get me to work and no money to get home. I called a couple of my friends to pick me up but ...
A. 12 November 2009: Did you eventually tell him that you had a ride home with your ex or does he continue to think that you were in a taxi?
If you told him that your ex gave you a ride home, I think that he has every reason not to trust you, you did lie, no matter h... (read in full...)
Are my Irregular periods normal?
Q. I am 13 years old and started my period in May 2009. I had it for about a week and then didn't have my next period until September and then just recently started at the end of October and i'm still on it now so, for about two weeks ......it is ...
A. 12 November 2009: Heya, please don't worry about not being normal. You're still young and have only recently started your period so it is likely that they just need a little time to regulate themselves.
Your body should eventually work itself into a cycle of anyth... (read in full...)
Horrible first time sex feeling, anything wrong with me?
Q. Lawn Care Specialist Reply I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted,...
A. 12 November 2009: Heya, first time sex is always either painful, uncomfortable or a bit of a let down - those who enjoy it, feel comfortable and experience no pain or bleeding are lucky and I'm jealous :D
In all seriousness, the fact that you were a virgin b... (read in full...)
Does it ever happen that the wrong guy is made to pay child support?
Q. A friend of mine recently found out that he has to go to court for a child support hearing.It was issued through another state,one that he has never been to.And he says there is absolutely no possible way that it is his child,because he was still a ...
A. 11 November 2009: It really doesn't matter if you've never SEEN the woman in question, let alone have slept with her, if she claims he is the father, the court will chase him until he has proved otherwise! It is actually very common.
Luckily, these days, paternit... (read in full...)
How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?
Q. I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...
A. 11 November 2009: If you had only 1 arm, would you want people to treat you different to everyone else?!
He is the person who has to live with it, so if anything i expect he's used to people talking about it or staring, just don't make a big deal out of it, it r... (read in full...)
My cousin is in love with me!
Q. ok so i have this really big problem.. i came back to my country this july, and we lived in my cousins house fer a month, my cousin was 18, now 19, and im 15. age isnt rlly a problem. so after a couple of days from wehn we started living ther, he...
A. 11 November 2009: There is something really fishy about this post, but i'll answer anyway.
I really think, when it comes to cousins, even if it isn't illegal, it is immoral and hurtful to a lot of people around you.
You are, firstly, not old enough to have a... (read in full...)
My views on animal rights are conflicting with my relationship, what should I do?
Q. I need help! Ive been with my boyfriend for about two years now and we are both so happy together. Im buddhist so i have strong views about a lot of things. One of them is animal rights. I know this is a really extreme veiw but i think animals are ...
A. 11 November 2009: If you are very strong in your beliefs it could be that he didn't want to tell you about the hunting because he knew that it would upset you, but didn't not want to go either so he went. I doubt he was thinking too much when he went, he obviously ... (read in full...)
Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?
Q. I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...
A. 10 November 2009: I groom myself down there, up here and around about there on many occasions, for many reasons just because I feel like it, most of the time it is a coincidence if i do it before a function but sometimes on purpose for a trip - not because i want to ... (read in full...)
My Mum won't come to my wedding!
Q. Hi Im 18 years old and my soon to be husbund is 31 we have known each other for nearly 2 years and have been dating for 16 months and living together for 8, i have had a very difficult childhood,father died when i was 14, mum trying to kill her self...
A. 10 November 2009: Unfortunately there is no way of "making" her go to the wedding, but you could tell her that you understand that she doesn't approve of your choice in partners but that you love her very much still and would like very much to have her by your side ... (read in full...)
I'm so worked up about failing my driving test, has anyone got any advice?
Q. Im so down right now and for the stupidist reason....I have failed my driving test with just 1 major fault and 2 minors. Major fault was for doing 40mph on a 30mph road...completly my fault.Its not helping everyone is saying "oh what a shame" ...
A. 10 November 2009: You know that less than 50% of people pass their driving test the first time they take it in the UK?
I was told that I wouldn't pass but I needed the car desperately for university so I took the test anyway and passed by the skin of my teeth - ... (read in full...)
Should I confess to having read his emails?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been together for 4 and a half years, 2 months ago my bf dumped me, and went away on holiday alone, but we got back together again. 3 weeks ago though he was on a study trip to barcelona, and i read his emails when he was ...
A. 10 November 2009: I think you've opened a pandoras box full of trouble.
It seems that this relationship was heading down the wrong path if he was chatting to other women and you were reading his emails.
Forgive me for being blunt but there is no trust there f... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend's family ever accept me?
Q. My bf's parents don't like me and have made no effort to welcome or include me in their family. The thing is, I think it has more to do with his parents than it does with me. I get the feeling that it doesnt matter who my bf dates, no one would ever ...
A. 10 November 2009: Sometimes parents can't cope with the loss of their children as they grow up and don't need them so much anymore. They display this by coming up every weekend and the cold shoulder towards the partners of their children.
Imagine yourself as a par... (read in full...)
Trying to break up with him, will this be the clean break?
Q. how do I know that I'm doing the right thing? I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. he loves me so much that he has been fighting to keep us together. I feel bad for not wanting to work at it anymore. I just don't care that much about the ...
A. 10 November 2009: I hate to say this but I don't think there is such a thing as a clean break. If he is still pursuant of the relationship then there is no clean break for him.
You are the one leaving and therefore you will be the one that comes out of it relative... (read in full...)
Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?
Q. Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?...
A. 10 November 2009: What kind of vaginal cream is it, and for what reason is it to be used? ... (read in full...)
Why would my ex add me as a friend on facebook?
Q. Me and my ex hadn't spoken in over a month. we got into an arguement and told me to just leave her alone so I did. There was no contact between us at all. Well last night she sends me a friend request on facebook. I still like the girl but I'm ...
A. 10 November 2009: She is most probably curious, which isn't a bad thing, but it probably isn't a good thing either because it might end up dragging up old memories and old problems as well as some new ones.
Best thing to do is not to accept her request, you're n... (read in full...)
Pregnant and alone...is is using his new relationship, to get me to talk to him?
Q. I am pregnant - have not spoken to the father in four months. He didn't want to stick around so I didn't make him. Today, I learned through Facebook of all platforms that he is 'in a new relationship' with someone else.. I don't even know why I had ...
A. 9 November 2009: I know its hard to do one thing or the other to be "right" but the only way you're not going to have your face rubbed in his freedom is by not looking at his!
If you don't want to appear to be rising to his bait, just wait a few weeks, say noth... (read in full...)
She fancies my man...do I confront her?
Q. hi. my best friend fancies my man. i told him and he said that he loves me and always will. i believe him. the thing is every one can see what she is doing.i feel that she is trying to push me out by taking over my life. dont know what to do as if i ...
A. 9 November 2009: Best friend or not, she's no good for you if she's encroaching on your life and relationship.
No best friend would do that to another. You NEED to confront her to put this to rest. If she hasn't done anything wrong, she'll understand why you aske... (read in full...)
Pregnant and alone...is is using his new relationship, to get me to talk to him?
Q. I am pregnant - have not spoken to the father in four months. He didn't want to stick around so I didn't make him. Today, I learned through Facebook of all platforms that he is 'in a new relationship' with someone else.. I don't even know why I had ...
A. 9 November 2009: Such is the state of the world today that we learn most of our worst news via friend updates and status modifications on internet web pages.
In real life, if faecbook etc didn't exist, you'd probably not have found out about this new relation... (read in full...)
Does light spotting mean I'm not pregnant?
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5 month and we've been having sex, unprotected. We aren't in anyway trying to get pregnant as that may seem like something stupid to say but I am on the pill. I've only started the pill a month ago, finished that 21 day pack...
A. 9 November 2009: Heya, first of all I want to say that even if you're on the pill and taking it religiously, you can still fall pregnant, so you should think about using condoms or some other form of contraception too. I learnt this the hard way.
I'm not flaming ... (read in full...)
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