Did he join a dating site, or is it just spam?
Q. If your man checks out an online dating website, can they get your email address or addresses without joining this site as a member? My guys says he is just getting spam from this website. But he is getting 5-6 emails a day from this site. I ...
A. 7 June 2010: You know, sometimes it is absolutely possible and plausible that a site send emails when the person is not a member. A while back I kept receiving emails from 2 different dating sites saying so and so was waiting for me or so and so wanted to ... (read in full...)
Is cryotherapy worth the cost?
Q. I went in for my regular female exam and ended up having to get a cervical biopsy. I got the results back from that, and all my doctor told me was "the abnormal cells we seen are caused by hpv." She didn't tell me if I had warts or if it was just ...
A. 26 May 2010: They lasered off the abnormal cells by the way. She did not have HPV or Warts.
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Is cryotherapy worth the cost?
Q. I went in for my regular female exam and ended up having to get a cervical biopsy. I got the results back from that, and all my doctor told me was "the abnormal cells we seen are caused by hpv." She didn't tell me if I had warts or if it was just ...
A. 26 May 2010: Hi there, your doctor does seem a little quick off the mark, and if you're worried then you may want to get a second opinion before jumping in at the deep end.
My sister had a pap smear last year that came back abnormal, she then went for a ch... (read in full...)
Wrongfully confessed?
Q. I have this friend who i have known for 10 years,he wanted to date me when we were younger but I kindly declined because he was involved with someone and did not break it off before pursuing me.We remained friends.Now so many years later I feel as ...
A. 25 May 2010: Unfortunately we can't help the way we feel and sometimes confessing our feelings is all we can do = in fact, sometimes we are compelled to do so even if we truly do not want to cause a break in either our own or their marriage.
By confessi... (read in full...)
I can't stop worrying about being pregnant, please help!
Q. Soooo, yesterday night, my bf and i were fooling around...i gave him a blow job and he finished by himself, then a little while later he fingered me. I read today that you can get pregnant this way, so i called a sexual health hotline and talked to ...
A. 25 May 2010: IT is technically possible to get pregnant in many different ways but highly unlikely in most of them.
Considering the fact that you realized the mistake at the time and acted fast enough to get the pill, you should have nothing to worry about - ... (read in full...)
Should I call him on his birthday?
Q. 25th of may is his birthday but I cant get the courage to call and i don't know If I should. We broke up on the 9th of may, he said he didn't love me anymore from one day to another (literally, cause the day before he grabbed my hands and looked...
A. 25 May 2010: I really hate to say this but I think you should let him go and not call him on his birthday.
While I know it is a sweet idea and may mean nothing other than a birthday wish, it has only been a couple of weeks since you broke up and he will sti... (read in full...)
How do I tell him how I feel?
Q. I'm in my first year at uni, and at one of the societies I got talking to a guy who's three years older than me. Since there are so many people I don't always get to talk to him, and when I do it's very very rarely just the two of us, but when I do ...
A. 25 May 2010: One thing you could do is to catch him on a day just before the summer and tell him that you're going to be really busy over the summer but would he like to meet up for a coffee if you can grab 10 minutes over that time?
Just ask him casually... (read in full...)
How do I regain his trust and interest in "us"?
Q. Well i have a problem, my ex broke up w/ me a few weeks ago he has a really bad perspective of me, he cant stand me. Until today he thought we might still have a future but now he doesn't believe that anymore. He tells me he wont ever change the ...
A. 25 May 2010: I am sorry that you're having a tough time right now and appreciate that you are having a child very soon with this man, but unfortunately trust and love, once lost, can take a very long time to regain and should not be rushed.
The only thing yo... (read in full...)
Wow! He wants to have sex with me but I feel I'm too young... Help!
Q. i was going out with this boy it lasted 2 weeks and then he dumped me. i re asked him out a few months later and he said yes and it was all ok but now he has asked me if i would have sex with him. (but not forcefully) i just laughed and changed the ...
A. 25 May 2010: You are very young and, while you aren't a "child" anymore, you aren't an adult either. If you have to question sex with someone then you're not ready - this goes for anybody at any age, and this is perfectly OK!
I first had sex at 15 and I en... (read in full...)
I can't let what my 'friend' did go, am I a stalker?
Q. I split up and got back together with my boyfriend in september last year, in the few months we weren't together a mutual friend of ours got a bit too friendly with him, flirting, sending love letters, generally coming on to him at every opportunity ...
A. 24 May 2010: I think unfortunately you're going to have to try and let this one go.
It is SO SO easy for us to have access to other people's lives online now a days that barely anything is sacred anymore.
In real life we wouldn't be able to access so muc... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship woes, please help?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship. We talk every morning, a couple times a day and every night before we lay our heads down. Last night he was out with friends until 3:30 in the morning.He never called me. I called as he just got home. This is ...
A. 23 May 2010: Hey there, I know EXACTLY where you are coming from with this issue - I was in a long distance relationship with my husband for years!! To make it worse, we were in entirely different time zones and so out schedules didn't match at all. We tried to ... (read in full...)
Husband said there were rumors at work about affair, boss knows nothing, was this for cover?
Q. my husband told me that rumors have been spread around his job about him having sex with a co-worker at work. He told me that his supervisor knew about the rumors.I later asked his supervisor about the rumors and he had no Idea what I was talking ...
A. 23 May 2010: It is very hard to tell what is going on here - the supervisor may well have said something to your husband and might now not want to confirm this to you in case he is being out of line. On the other hand, he may not have said anything to your ... (read in full...)
Wife cheating in chat room? need help
Q. Well me and my wife have been together for 8yrs this june.Well she has exchanged pics of herself online b4 and i know that and we patched that up i thought.Me and her talked and we both got the point that she is a stay at home mom we really cant go ...
A. 23 May 2010: Well, it is difficult to tell whether your wife has actually done anything wrong this time or whether your past experience has led you to make the assumption this time around that she has.
I would certainly sit down with your wife and try and ... (read in full...)
Cheating - general consensus, variety of questions
Q. I have a few general questions on cheating that I'd like to get feedback on... If your spouse cheated on you, would you stay with them? Would you leave? If you had children with them and they cheated, would you stay with them? Would you fo...
A. 23 May 2010: 1. I don't know if I would leave, I think it would depend on the reason for the cheating and if I felt that I was a cause of if it was just too much.
2. As above. Children would NOT factor in my decision to stay. You can't save a marriage... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the distance in my relationship?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 10 months now. I live in the UK and she lives on an island south of the UK. I went over there last summer and we met at a party. Since then we have seen each other on a number of occasions ...
A. 23 May 2010: Ok, I will tell you from personal experience that distance really REALLY bites the big one when you're in a relationship with someone you love - I met, and married, a guy I met online!! He lived in the USA and I lived in the UK! I was still ... (read in full...)
Are men attracted to overweight women?
Q. hey aunties and uncles. I'm going to be direct with this question because I've always wanted to know. is being overweight a real turn off for boys and do they get attracted to overweight girls? I myself am not overweight or anything but I am curious ...
A. 23 May 2010: As a woman who is 6 foot tall and overweight I have to tell you that I have NEVER found it hard to find a man.
Some men absolutely LOVE curves on a woman and the men that I have dated have said emphatically that they do not like skin and bones on... (read in full...)
I am confused, he has a girlfriend, but flirts with me, how do I handle this?
Q. Hi, i posted about this guy some time ago but now truth has been revealed and i am even more confused than ever. First of all it is honest to say that i like him. Very much. He makes me smile and laugh everyday and it was long time ago last time i ...
A. 23 May 2010: I have been in a very similar situation, with a guy whom I was very close to and friends with for a long while. We were very close and we had a wonderful time in eachothers company - we laughed, cried and just had a ball together. Thing is, he was ... (read in full...)
I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down
Q. I'm 19, I've gone a year without sex, and I feel pretty upset over it. It seems like such a terrible thing to say to your friends; "Well guys, I've not had any for a year, now". I've been in relationships, but they haven 't worked out, and so I'm ...
A. 23 May 2010: I have to say that sex is not the be all and end all in life, but I know how it can be if you have a high sex drive and you're not having sex. However, not having it for a year is never something to be down about and you shouldn't feel any doubt ... (read in full...)
17 and pregnant. Can my parents stop me from moving out?
Q. I am 17 years old and I live in Kentucky. I am pregnant. Can my parents stop me from moving in with my baby's father? Thank you. ...
A. 22 May 2010: As far as I know (and I am not a person of legal knowledge) you are bound to your parents until the age of 18 in Kentucky.
However, it may be worth seeking legal advice on the matter seeing as you are expecting.
I am sorry I cannot be of muc... (read in full...)
Advice after weight loss, please?
Q. I guess I would start with this: About a year ago I weighed almost 200 lbs and now that I am down to 145, I am noticing a lot more about myself. Normally I just noticed the stretch marks and fat that my body had decorated itself with, but now I ...
A. 22 May 2010: First of all, I want to congratulate you on your weight loss. The lines and veins you may be seeing may well be varicose veins - the only way to be sure is to check with your doctor.
There are lazer techniques to aid in treatment of this issue bu... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 21 May 2010: I hate to have to be the one to say this but I really think that it may be time for you to accept that this relationship is over.
If one person in the relationship is pulling away then there really is nothing much you can do to hold on to that ... (read in full...)
Am I cheating on my boyfriend, or is this harmless fun?
Q. Im really confused! Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks and i really like him. Thing is ive been speaking to a guy online for about 18 months, and we've recently got back in touch, exchanged numbers and that. Am i cheating on my bo...
A. 21 May 2010: I think you have to ask yourself why it is that you feel the need to ask this question.
If you really are intent on not meeting up with your friend of 18 months then that is all well and good, but you are still flirting with him!!
Flirtin... (read in full...)
Missed birth control, negative pregnancy test, but still not quite right, please advise?
Q. Hi everyone so im a little confused. I am on birth control and doing a little bit of exercising. Last month i had missed 2 or 3 pills. I never usually miss.. but my dog had got to my pack and had a few so i just skipped them thinking I would be OK ...
A. 21 May 2010: First of all I would just like to say that there is a risk of pregnancy even when taking birth control. When you miss just 1 or more birth control pills your risk of pregnancy becomes greatly increased.
In this instance you have taken several ... (read in full...)
Are we still Virgins?
Q. Ive had sex with my guy, But he was using a condom every time we did it. I never got bleeding. Nor did he. So am I still a Virgin? and is he still a virgin? ...
A. 20 May 2010: If you have had vaginal intercourse and his penis entered you at all (with or without a condom)then nope, you are no longer a virgin and neither is he. There does not have to be any bleeding involved.
... (read in full...)
In a relationship, but thinking about another man!
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and i love him but we fight alot. I have dreams very often about a guy who i liked even before i got into the relationship and i think about him all the time and im pretty sure he has some kind of ...
A. 20 May 2010: I think you need to first address any issues in your current relationship that might have you feeling as though you are not fulfilled enough that you even consider thinking about another guy.
Regardless of your feelings for someone else, you must... (read in full...)
Sex with a big guy - any positions for more body contact?
Q. I've just started a new relationship and the sex isnt exactly satisfying. I think it might partly be because of his size. He's very tall and though he's not fat he is quite chunky and wide. I like to be physically close to a guy when we are havi...
A. 20 May 2010: I think the best thing you could do here is to talk to him about your concerns - if he realizes that you want to try other positions and that you're not worried at all by him crushing you or anything, perhaps he will relax a little more and be able ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend and don't know what to do
Q. Ok, so heres the deal I love my best friend (female) and I have done for a few years now to be honest. I'm really not a confident guy, but about 18 months ago I finally grew a pair and asked her out. I was so sure that she would say yes and ever...
A. 20 May 2010: Unfortunately when people decide to cross that friendship line is it almost impossible to get back to the way it was before without a few trials and tribulations on the way.
She may very well have some deeper feelings for you but doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure I don't hurt him during a bj?
Q. my boyfriend has asked me to give him a blowjob, i dont think i am ready to yet, but i have been wondering, what would make him enjoy it to the max? And what do i do to make sure i dont hurt him?...
A. 20 May 2010: One of the simplest things to do here is to make sure you only go through with it when you are both ready to. Make sure you are relaxed and comfortable with the situation.
The only real way to know if he is comfortable is to go slow and to see w... (read in full...)
What to do when a friend thinks your a lier and doesn't believe you?
Q. What do say to a friend that doesn't believe me? Hello, and thanx for the help. Okay so i have these two friends one of them has been my friend for almost 2 years and the other for barley a year. So the problem is that my friend that i know for ...
A. 20 May 2010: I know this is going to sound harsh but to be very frank with you here, if you have friends who are willing to tell lies about you and friends who are willing to believe those lies without confronting you or the source of those lies, then perhaps ... (read in full...)
Love in absentia
Q. After several months of mutual attraction between myself and a very nice man, we met up and discussed establishing our relationship. Asked if I wanted to take our friendship further or just remain good friends. We decided to take this further. We ...
A. 19 May 2010: When you met up and discussed if you'd like to take it further, was it him asking you or a joint thing?
Have you spoken since? ... (read in full...)
Why did his relationship status go from single to it's complicated?
Q. well i have been dating my significant other for about 6 months and he had his status as single until recently when i looked and saw that it said, "it's complicated" now i don't have any idea how i'm suppose to take that and i don't know if that is ...
A. 19 May 2010: I'm sorry that you're in this situation and I hate to say it but nothing good ever seems to come from online websites, especially ones like that, dating websites and even Facebook.
If you have been dating this man for 6 months and his status h... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband hasn't had sex with me for the past 2 months!
Q. I am 28 weeks pregnant and my husband has not had sex with me for the past two months. Should I be concerned? What is going on? I confronted him about this issue and nothing happened. He does not seem to care....
A. 19 May 2010: While some men find a pregnant wife extremely sexy, Some men find it difficult to have sex with a woman that is pregnant for all sorts of reasons such as hurting the baby - even though this won't happen! Men go through changes as much as you do when ... (read in full...)
Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?
Q. Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...
A. 27 April 2010: Well, it really depends on the people, their background, their parentage and their lifestyle/beliefs.
While it is not necessarily seen as "appropriate" behaviour, it is not necessarily inappropriate behaviour either.
Some sisters and brot... (read in full...)
Bf cheated in the past and all I can think about is him doing it again.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months... i knew him for year before though, and i knew him as a cheater... when we first started dating he cheated on me twice... now that months has passed by i thought i can forget but i cant... i keep thinking ...
A. 27 April 2010: You know, you can't go through life worrying that he is going to cheat on you because what will inevitably happen is that you'll push him away and the relationship will indeed become a self fulfilling prophecy and fail.
When someone cheats o... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone is playing "hard to get?"
Q. Mod note: OP's own title This may seem like a dumb question but any advice would be helpful. What are the signs someone(in this case a female) close to you, who you are interested in, may be playing hard to get??...
A. 27 April 2010: It is never really easy to tell if someone is playing hard to get or if they are genuinely just not interested.
Anyone who plays hard to get and doesn't get the attention they were expecting might eventually change their tactics, which would wo... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my girl's health during phone sex!
Q. Okay... im very concerned for my girlfriends safety.. We've been together a while, and have been having phone sex for about the past month. So here's why ive been concerned. 2 nights ago while having phone sex after she was happy with what i ...
A. 4 February 2010: Unfortunately there is really no real way of knowing what the problem could be without her consulting a trained medical physician.
She may well be unused to the sensation of orgasm, which could be sending her into overload, but the fact that she... (read in full...)
Could I be falling out of love ?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years now, and things have been great. clearly there have been ups and downs, but it's generally good. Recently tiny things have been getting to me, and make me so annoyed at him. I always tell him when i'm...
A. 25 January 2010: You know, I don't think that falling out of love really ever happens, I think it is more of a case of the love changes or we get "comfortable".
When people are together for that long a period of time, they get to know one another on every le... (read in full...)
Should I just get it over with and tell them both that my best friend is the father?
Q. I'm eight months and three weeks pregnant with my best friend's baby. My best friend is obviously a guy and it was a stupid, drunken, completely irresponsible night. And... I've been dating another guy for a year and five months now. Yes, I cheated, ...
A. 25 January 2010: Get this out in the open now, before the baby bonds with the wrong man.
The truth always outs itself eventually and who knows, perhaps the baby IS the man you're with's baby - condoms are not always 100% effective.
Tell them both NOW. Chance... (read in full...)
My testicles are beginning to ache/feel numb from masturbation. Should I be concerned?
Q. I've been uncontrollably horny lately through what i think is stress. i dont have a girlffriend at the moment, so i masturbate. usually if i'm comfortable i'll do it once a day or every other day. in the past 3 days ive done it 3 times a day and not ...
A. 25 January 2010: I think that you should ease up a little bit. You really CAN have too much of a good thing, so try and lay off for a while - you might be doing yourself more harm than good mentally as well as physically as the more you do it the less you'll ... (read in full...)
She avoids me now that she has a new bf! What can I do?
Q. My gf avoids me what to do...? I love her more then myself but she hates me. Now she is in love with a new bf....
A. 25 January 2010: If she is with someone else, she is no longer your girlfriend. I suggest trying to move on and find somebody new, who can care about, and love you, as much as you do them.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
She avoids me now that she has a new bf! What can I do?
Q. My gf avoids me what to do...? I love her more then myself but she hates me. Now she is in love with a new bf....
A. 25 January 2010: If she is with someone else, she is no longer your girlfriend. I suggest trying to move on and find somebody new, who can care about, and love you, as much as you do them.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
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