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I am a lady in my 30's with 3 children and a few pets. I have experienced many a different awkward situation in my life and I have a lot of advice to give! Don't be afraid to ask! :)

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Was he trying to change me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had been having problems in our relationship for a while about his ex girlfriend who looks exactly like me, in which they hadn't been together in 15 years. Our relationship was absolutely amazing until we went to a party and his ...

A.   21 February 2009: reading about the kids too, i think this guy is defintely best left be, you're better off without him - children are resilient, they will be just fine - they know they have a mother who loves them and that will save them more times than almost ... (read in full...)

Anyone know what these pains might be?

Q.   hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get ...

A.   29 January 2009: this is a personal question but have you recently had unprotected sex? although it is a slim chance, you can still get pregnant on the injection and that is alway someting you might want to check - you may just be getting normal symptoms of a ... (read in full...)

I looked into his account to see he was in contact with the ex

Q.   Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i love him with all my heart and he tells me the same. However theres one thing that he does which really upsets me. He still talks to his ex daily, by this i mean he often has long text conv...

A.   29 January 2009: Heya, first of all many people that have been in your situation may have done a similar thing and read his online messages etc but that doesnt make it right...sometimes we can read much more into things if we dont know what was said or in what ... (read in full...)

Is he conflicted? Does he really want to just be friends or is he fooling himself and possibly me?

Q.   Question: What does all of this really mean? Is he conflicted? Does he really want to just be friends or is he fooling himself and possibly me? Background: I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have only been seeing eachother and no...

A.   29 January 2009: It sounds to me like you both get along extremely well but knowing that you're both divorced with kids etc may be the key here. He may well want all that comes with a relationship, we all get lonely, but he's ben through divorce etc too and prob... (read in full...)

Does this mean that he actually likes me?

Q.   Hi. I have a crush on a boy who has a girlfriend. I also just found out that he has a half-sister that I have for all my classes. She told me today and she also knows that I like him. Since she told me this she calls me suegra. He also knows by a ...

A.   29 January 2009: Maybe he does like you bt all the while he has a girlfriend you should steer clear and do yourself a favour. If he likes you he'll come to you in time. ... (read in full...)

Was he trying to change me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had been having problems in our relationship for a while about his ex girlfriend who looks exactly like me, in which they hadn't been together in 15 years. Our relationship was absolutely amazing until we went to a party and his ...

A.   29 January 2009: Sometimes a person has a specific type and just because you look like his ex doesn't mean that this was the sole reason for his being with you - if it was, he's a jerk and you're worth more than that. sometimes we just never know why someone has ... (read in full...)

Should I keep talking to him? Or distance myself?

Q.   I met this guy at the mall and we started talking. He asked me out on a date, now he doesnt have a car so ive had to go pick him up the times we've gone out. He is about to turn 22 and he is still in his party/club/drinking stage. I know he ...

A.   29 January 2009: I think that you know this guy may hurt you but you like him enough to get intimate with him knowing that it won't become anything more. By doing that you're either denying it to yourself that nothing more is going to happen or you're setting ... (read in full...)

My sister saw us making out!

Q.   My boyfriend came over over to my place. We went in my room (my parents weren't home at the time) and one thing lead to another we were making out like crazy. Until my sister (she's 9) came in without knocking. Let's just say she saw some stuff that ...

A.   29 January 2009: At the age you are you really shouldn't be home "alone" with your b/f as both of your hormones are flying about all over the place and one thing can lead to another rapidly and before you know it theres more going on than making out and not only are ... (read in full...)

Whirlwind of confusion

Q.   hello. i've recently been caught up in this 'whirlwind of confusion' with a guy i once used to talk to. well, when we were talking, it was for a couple of months. things were going pretty well - i was happy, he was happy, and we began to like each ...

A.   29 January 2009: I thimk that if you're having any doubts at all then you should save yourself a lot of grief by not getting back into the swing of that relationship. At that age, im assuming he'd a similar age to yourself, guys hormones are all over the place, t... (read in full...)

Sexy calendar good? Or cheesy idea?

Q.   Hey all! I am just looking for some male opinions here. My boyfriend is in Iraq right now, unfortunately. While over there he is not allowed to have any pornography. For a Valentine's Day gift I decided to create a whole calendar for him with ...

A.   29 January 2009: I think that it is a fabulous idea but as someone else suggested, it may well be tastefully done and he may well apreciate getting it, but does he want to put up a calendar where by all of his regiment get to see his girl half naked? Those things ... (read in full...)

I feel pressured to say "I love you"

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, we get on very well and I can see a future. The problem is that he is acting very needy and clingy and I feel under a lot of pressure to say I love you to him. He says it to me, but I dont want ...

A.   29 January 2009: It sounds to me like there are already strong feelings there for him, from you, else you wouldn't be worying yourself over the situation, but having an ultimatum like all or nothing at such an early stage in a relationship almost always pushes teh ... (read in full...)

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