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Where is the best "place" to ejaculate?

Q.   My fiance' and I are both virgins and have agreed to not have sex until our wedding night (we want that to be a special time for the both of us). While I have never had sex before, I do understand quite a bit and have read up on several things. My ...

A.   24 January 2008: I would go along with what everyone says he and say let go and ejaculated into her vagina, especially as it is your first time. For me, when I ejaculate into my girlfriend, I get a strong sense of emotional closeness to her. She also likes me... (read in full...)

Will I cum the first time?

Q.   Me and my girl are ready for sex talk, about what it might feel like and what we actually do. I'm wondering how many times i need to move my penis in and out to come-is there enough friction with a condom on. also i want my girl to enjoy it....

A.   24 January 2008: Hey How long it takes will depend on you - there is no one answer! However, if you are worried about cumming too quickly, the condom will slow you down a little (so there's an extra advantage, aside from her not falling pregnant as a re... (read in full...)

What gives guys the most pleasure in foreplay?

Q.   I'd love to give my boyfriend great foreplay, to get him excited for whats coming next. But I want him to enjoy the foreplay a lot too, and not just the sex. I feel he might only be doing it, with the intentions of getting it over quickly, so we can ...

A.   11 January 2008: Hey there Obviously depends from man to man so you should encourage him to show you what he likes. For me, I like to take a long time over foreplay, pleasuring my partner and getting her very lubricated. However, during this time, while what... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I get very wet when my bf just kisses me?

Q.   I get really wet and ejaculate when my boyfriend even just kisses me, is this normal? ...

A.   6 January 2008: Yes, this is a normal sign of sexual arousal preparing you for sex.... (read in full...)

Who gets the best orgasms - men or women?

Q.   Im not sure if there is an actual answer to this, but do both sexes get the same amount of pleasure during sex? for example if they both reach their 'peak' orgasm. in other words, wat sex overall recieves more pleasure?...

A.   3 January 2008: In every way this is just a fun question, not a problem a such. All I can say, as a male, is that my orgasm is intense and very pleasurable, especially when inside my partner's vagina. It begins with a highly pleasing feeling above the base o... (read in full...)

Is there a chance I'm pregnant? I'm scared!

Q.   well im fallen in loove with my boyfriend so since im a virgin i decided to wait awhile before we have sex but one time when i was drunk he rubbed his penis on my vagina. like he was trying to put it in but he couldnt. im not sure if there was ...

A.   21 December 2007: I would think pregnancy is unlikely in this situation but let us know. Paul... (read in full...)

How to make my husband last longer during intercourse?

Q.   Dear cupid. I have a question about my husbands problem. We have an ok sex life but he only last a couple seconds its no longer then 5 min. We tryed all the sprays to last longer and even got him off befor sex but he still dont last long can...

A.   21 December 2007: Hi I would recommend similar to the anon poster. The key is the stop start approach. He can practise when masturbating to the point when he feels close, then stopping, allowing his erection to soften a bit by waiting a while, then resuming s... (read in full...)

How likely is it to get pregnant on day 9 of your cycle...?

Q.   Hey there guys... I know that there is a possibility of pregnancy during ANY time of your cycle..but I know there are more likely and unlikely times... I was wondering how likley it is to get pregnant on day 9 of your cycle...? bearing in mind spe...

A.   21 December 2007: Hi there Day 9 is certainly in the fertile range so higher risk that at other points in your cycle. Logic being that as you say, sperm can live inside you for max 5 day and if your cycle is regular and 28 days you may ovulate on day 14. Also, ov... (read in full...)

She had unprotected sex but he didn't ejaculate. Could she be pregnant?

Q.   Hi Cupid. This time it's not about ME. Today i got a call from a friend saying she had unprotected sex last night (first time). She isn't too worried about becoming pregnant as she thinks the guy she was with didn't come in or near her. Cou...

A.   20 December 2007: It's possible although if he didn't cum inside her the risk is much lower. While not recommended, I know many men, myself included, who have had unprotected sex and stopped before ejaculation and no pregnancy has resulted. This is not to advise the ... (read in full...)

Please help, pregnancy scare...!

Q.   The first of December was the day I was ovulating. Im not on BC and I had unprotected sex that day(12/01/07). I always get my period the 16th of everymonth...I haven't gotten it yet making it 4 almost 5 days late. Today (12/19/07) I took a first ...

A.   20 December 2007: Hi there, Firstly, i know how you must be feeling really anxious currently and that can't be nice for you. Assuming you don't want to be pregnant, I would think that the fact you took a pregnancy test and it came up negative is obviously good n... (read in full...)

Can a girl feel a guy ejaculate in her? Your experiences on the matter?

Q.   Can a girl feel a guy cum in her? What are your experiences on the matter? ...

A.   19 December 2007: My girlfriend tells me she can feel it, both the contractions of my penis and the consequence (sperm inside her vagina).... (read in full...)

When does a guy pre-cum?

Q.   Just wanted to know as this sounds dumb.. when does a guy pre-cum???? as me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but he stopped when he felt like he was cumming, but i know u can get pregnant from pre-cum...

A.   19 December 2007: Hi Most men release an amount of semen (pre-cum) before orgasm (cumming). It tends to leak out of the penis when the man has been sexually excited for a while and received some stimulation either my hand, or in your mouth / vagina etc. How long... (read in full...)

Where do guys like to be rubbed when they're given a handjob?

Q.   when ur tossing a guy off, does he like to be rub from bottom of penis to the top (so upwards) or from the top to the bottom (so downwards towards his pelvis)? ...

A.   19 December 2007: I would suggest you ask your guy to show you how he masturbates and that will give you a good idea of how he enjoys himself. Good luck.... (read in full...)

How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant?

Q.   Hi everyone... My boyf and I are trying for a baby and I came off the pill in July of this year. How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant? ...

A.   19 December 2007: Hey there I think in my experience it varies greatly from couple to couple. That said, I think there is certain scientific evidence to suggest that a woman is particularly fertile in the first month after she stops taking the pill / using oth... (read in full...)

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