I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!
Q. Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...
A. 23 February 2007: I know how you feel sweetie. It never feels good to be hurt, but you have to realize it's in your best interest right now. Have things gotten easier for you yet? Sorry about the delayed response, but I haven't been on the site for a while. You ... (read in full...)
My bf has been secretly visiting 'swing' clubs and cheating on me! What should I do?
Q. Hi i recently found out my boyfriend of 4 years has been frequenting swinging clubs for the past few months and having casual sex. Im heartbroken, but I feel like an idiot as i thought he loved me. When i confronted him he said it was a once off...
A. 5 February 2007: Leave him girl!!! I think that the #1 rule breaker for any relationship is cheating. Once a person cheats I don't see any way of ever being able to trust that person fully ever again. I know it's painful but you have to move on. Believe it or ... (read in full...)
I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!
Q. Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...
A. 29 January 2007: Well sweetie, unfortunately it sound like you need to suck it up and move on. I know it's not easy, especially when you've had your heart broken, but as you said, she has cheated on you once already, and married or not I believe that it's ... (read in full...)
I feel like she could find someone better than me. Is this normal?
Q. Im scaried of losing her even though shes told me "she loves me". I believe that she loves me. I think i have a number of annoying things about my personality and i can't shake the feeling im not good enough for my girlfriend and that she will leave ...
A. 29 January 2007: It's not your fault that you are insecure. It's easy for people who are not insecure to judge, but unless they've dealt with the helpless feeling of insecurity they will not be able to relate as well as someone who has. I have had my share of ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I have done the right thing or not by dumping him!?
Q. Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't ...
A. 29 January 2007: Girl, move on!!! I know it hurts, but if this guy REALLY loves you he would not be texting or calling his ex period. If he is sneaking behind your back now and trying to justify it, then he will always be a sneak. The truth is, if he can If he ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed by my gf's crass comments to other people. How do I deal with this?
Q. My girlfriend is quite eccentric and very over the top and I cringe so much when she speaks now. Before I could cope with it but now I cringe too much when she speaks. For example when she speaks with her friends she calls them stuff like 'Whor...
A. 29 January 2007: I think the important question here is; Can you live with her being like that for the rest of your lives? If not, I would seriously consider breaking this relationship off now. The deeper you get in, the harder it is to get out. See, I've heard ... (read in full...)
The only time he tells me he loves me, is when he is drunk! Does he mean it?
Q. i am friends with a guy and lately have ended up sleeping with him a few times. I wasn't sure at first how much i liked him, was it just friends or did i like him more. When i asked him about it he just said he wanted to be friends, he wasn't ready ...
A. 29 January 2007: This is a tricky one. I think that the reason for this varies for different people. My father was an alocholic and growing up around him was not easy. My brother and I always complained that the only time he was really nice and played with us and ... (read in full...)
Im 14 and 9 Weeks pregnant!!! I want to keep it but dont know how!!!
Q. I'm 14 years old and am 9 weeks pregnant. I saw an ultrasound of the baby recently and heard it heart beat. I was wanting to keep the baby but dont know how to do it at my age. If anyone can help me with this it would be appreciated. ...
A. 29 January 2007: Hey sweetie,
It's totally normal at your age to be scared and confused. This is a very serious matter because you are dealing with a life other than your own. There is a living being in your body and you have to decide what's best for you and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!
Q. My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...
A. 26 January 2007: Even as a woman I can totally understand where you're coming from. CD206 has a good point, if you love her, you should love her no matter what she looks like. However, your concerns are natural. When I met my husband I was fit and looking ... (read in full...)
I just want to know, what is love?
Q. I just want to know, what is love? I am sorry if this may sound like obvious to many people, but I don’t know any more what love means. I lost hope of love!! I thought I did know that, when I spent close to 2 years with my ex-partner, even...
A. 26 January 2007: I honestly believe that every relationship is different. The word "love" describes an emotion and it has different meanings for different people, some people simply love differently. It would be easy for us to sit here and judge your ex based on ... (read in full...)
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