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I woke up having sex with a friend of my FWB. I'm worried he will tell my FWB, whom I actually like!

Q.   ive been seeing a guy for about 2 years he used 2 live near me when he was at uni but moved this summer, me and him are good friends and very close, and when he was here we used 2 be with each other all the time, we used to be sexual too. he's move...

A.   25 April 2008: Another case of you wanted it but using the alcohol as an excuse. When will women stop using this excuse? OwHiTeLiOnO... (read in full...)

How do I stay sane when I'm in a dead end job? Keeping up the motivation is hard!

Q.   I've been employed with this department for over 8 years. It's a dead end job. I'll miss a few people here however, it's been time to move on to something better. I've applied with so many companies, departments, contractors, court houses...I've ...

A.   25 April 2008: Monster is the best site ever for jobs. I have got very good paying jobs with huge global companies thanks to that site. I recommend it to everybody that asks me about a job. As for staying sane it is obvious you need to get out of there ASAP. Try ... (read in full...)

Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?

Q.   Hi,im Naoko im 20 years old and when i was 19 i was raped... I just wanna know if im a freak Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?...

A.   25 April 2008: Hi, There is nothing wrong with you, actually you are doing what 99% of rape "victims" need to do, stop being in denial & admit that they enjoyed it. I have tons of friends that got raped & after some conversations I got them to actually admit to m... (read in full...)

How can I best help my wife after her past rape's ?

Q.   My wife feels like she was destroyed by two boys when she was younger. These boys caught her in a room by herself and took advatage of her. One was a brutal rape, but the others where when she was very drunk and she did not want it to happen but the ...

A.   25 April 2008: She is in denial, that is complete BS that her mind was slow to respond. She totally wanted it each & every time. Just forget about it & concern more with your future & how to spice up the sex life, get a babysitter, nice lil 3some will have you ... (read in full...)

Was I raped?

Q.   is i rape if you wake up to find someone having sex with you?...

A.   25 April 2008: You need to give more info. As the question stands I will have to say this was not rape or that there is not enough information to fairly judge whether this was rape or not. OwHiTeLiOnO... (read in full...)

Was this RAPE?

Q.   Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...

A.   25 April 2008: No this was not rape. He told you the plan, you went along with it, he told you what was going to happen, he did what he said he was going to do so how is it rape? Don't use the alcohol as an excuse. Learn to make better choices in life. Some common ... (read in full...)

Rape victim wants to be thought as virgin

Q.   Hey. When I Was 13 I Was Raped By A Guy And His Friends 3 Times And I Didnt Tell AnyyOne About It Although I Wish I Had Of Doe But Its Too Late Now. Well Any Wayy When Me And My Friends Are Talking About Boyfriends And Stuff At School They Alwa...

A.   25 April 2008: I'm not going to sugarcoat anything, you are not a virgin, you are a pornstar. It is not many women in this world that can say they have been with that many guys at once. So just stop being in denial, enjoy it, you lived it, be thankful that you ... (read in full...)

Why do many females, that have been raped--become sexually active after this crime agianst them?

Q.   Look Im at with young females so they ask me this question " Why does female became very sexaulity active after they been rape. So can someone please answer that question for me....

A.   25 April 2008: This is the deal. Young girls feel that they cannot express themselves sexually because they will be considered a whore. School & parents try to impose that they should be virgins & fear is implanted into their mind. When they get raped, besides ... (read in full...)

At 13, I was traumatized by two men who attempted to rape me! I'm having nightmares now...please help.

Q.   I was almost rapped by two men when I was 13, and I dont know how to get over it? I cant sleep, so how can I get some sleep without having nightmares?...

A.   25 April 2008: You are not giving enough info to give you truly insightful, deep meaningful responses to your particular situation. I think if you have a 3some with two good buddies of yours that it will help you get over it. Might sound crazy but yeah it'll ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend's past involved threesomes, 2x rape, or was this just 2 big mistakes? What am I to believe?

Q.   Hello there!! I have this little problem with my girlfriend. Only recently after her many lies she told me that she had two times on two different ocassions sex with 2 guys. But it gets much more complicated than this. The first time it happened...

A.   25 April 2008: Dude, Break up with her. If she owned up to it I would respect it, but I cannot stand when people use excuses that do not make any sense. Go get tested. OwHiTeLiOnO... (read in full...)

How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? He keeps contacting me!

Q.   How do I find the courage to tell my ex to stay away? I was with my ex for 18 years, we lived together for 10 years and have been finished for the last 3 years. My ex was always unhappy with the relationship, (especially the sexual frequency...

A.   25 April 2008: I must say I can kind of understand why his girlfriend might not like you. I have not met you either & I find you to be very misleading, deceiving & untrustworthy. When I clicked on your Question, I thought I was going to help a female that was a ... (read in full...)

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