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I told everyone I dumped him, problem is I haven't actually told him!

Q.   I have a little problem, well, it' not really small to me. I've told everyone I’ve dumped my boyfriend, because i really want to, and i will. Just finding it incredibly hard cause i love him, but the bad things outweigh the good by far (i posted...

A.   24 July 2009: You need to 'man up'. Because there are people out there who Marry out of fear instead of love, and they are the most unhappy people. It sucks being that way, and I know you don't want to hurt him or yourself, but there are things that you have to ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely

Q.   I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...

A.   23 July 2009: It sounds like you need some you time. Go out to a day spa, or take a trip out some where secluded where no one an get ahold of you. That works, because by the end of the day, if time doesn't go by fast enough and your just dying to get hom... (read in full...)

Would a song for your personal vows be a good choice?

Q.   I have a question. I know its not really pertaining to relationships but I was just wondering do any of you know if it would be ok to use a song for your personal vows?...

A.   23 July 2009: I don't see why not. Even though it says 'personal vows'. It should be coming from you. Coming from your own heart and not that of another, it doesn't get more personal. Maybe the song should be the wedding song. But it's really up to you... (read in full...)

Need some help with roleplaying

Q.   Everytime I roleplay with my boyfriend, I always mess up or kinda lose interest. I feel bad too because he loves to do it with me. How can I stick to the RPing and and have fun with it? ...

A.   23 July 2009: Depends on how you do it. Next time, or you can talk to him about it. About a planed organized RP, and make sure to have a safe word, because if one of you get unomfortable, you can say it and it all stops. If you lose interst, you should s... (read in full...)

Should we give our child the freedom to choose or enforce one of our religions on our child?

Q.   hi, umm so i found out a few weeks ago that me and my husband are going to have a baby, and i'm really excited but the only problem is that he's christian and i'm catholic. were both stressing out because we don't know what to raise our child, ...

A.   23 July 2009: I think that you should let your child decide on theit own. I was supposed to have a baby and my Boy Friend and I decided that we weren't going to be biast on coloring or room,clothes or toys based on the sex of the baby. I think you should j... (read in full...)

What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum alone?

Q.   My fiance and I had sex three or four times throught the day recently, one of those times (the first) a condom was used, the rest we didn't have any, so one was not used. My question is this: What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum ...

A.   23 July 2009: Yes it is true that if you urinate before you ejaculate of anytime during sex or masterbatation, it kills the sperm, but there is always a chance that there wil a few left alive. Here watch this. it might seem weird, but its full of informati... (read in full...)

She has a boyfriend, but we want to sleep together and I'm worried about the size of my penis. What should I do?

Q.   the girl i liked she said she liked me too but she has a bf an idk what to do. she said that it is ok that we have sex but neither of us have ever done it before. i like her alot an when we do finally have sex i want it to make her like me even ...

A.   22 July 2009: I think you should be more worried about the fact on how she's already dating. She just wants you for sex. It's not worth it.... (read in full...)

His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...

A.   22 July 2009: Hmm, instead of letting him be in charge, you should take charge next time. Or ask him if you two could experiment. See the thing is, sex should have nothing to do with a relationship. A relationship should be on a person to person level, not just... (read in full...)

Curious about certain in-law behaviour. Need input on this.

Q.   I need someone's input on this. My sister-in-law and a few of my wife's cousins have the tendency of getting up close to me to the point where their breast is rubbing up against my arm. For example, if we are at a party and I am taking pictures with ...

A.   22 July 2009: Well, this is weird. Maybe there having their mid-life crisis. I think that your reading into it to much, but theres really no such thing. Next time if they do it you should just say "Excuse me" and move a few inches away from them. Because if ... (read in full...)

I'm having stronger feelings for my girl friend... am I bi?

Q.   heyah everybody! im getting really confused lately if i am straight or bi or even just bi curious.. i know my best friend for years and i am begining to have feelings for her.. i had an awful hard time with guys they treated me really bad and s...

A.   22 July 2009: I know exactly how you feel! I was in 8th grade when I fell for mybestfriend. She was always there for me and what not. I think the best thing for you to do is to sit and really think about it. Think about what attracts you to her,becuase if i... (read in full...)

Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on

Q.   In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...

A.   22 July 2009: Hmm. I know what you mean. My parents were married for a long time, and they had constant fights physical and verbal, and then they tried to repair there marriage by having me, but it didn't work so well. In the end. You two are divorced and no... (read in full...)

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