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Just found out my husband of 8 years is a member of 100 online pornography sites!! Now what?

Q.   Three weeks before I was to get married I caught my soon to be husband trolling for sex on the internet. He promised nothing other than curiosity was happening and I forgave him. Now here we are 8 years and 2 kids later and I catch him with an ...

A.   29 September 2008: Most men go on porn sites, I don't think it's that bother. Maybe something in your sex life isn't going right and it's getting him down? Maybe you should talk to him. If he's only looking at porn, I don't think it's that much to worry about, but ... (read in full...)

My best friend likes girls and now she's attracted to me! How do I respond to this?

Q.   I have a best friend and she likes girls. She told me she had a crush on a girl and I advised her to tell her and see where it went from there. A couple of days later she told me that she was sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure how to react to ...

A.   29 September 2008: ALWAYS a horrible thing to hear, whether or not it's homosexual from a best friend. I wouldn't personally, as I don't like the word "friend's with privileges" and I've had that used on me too many times and it's more a way to use you. But if you a... (read in full...)

Losing your V card: does is hurt?

Q.   Okay, before the question, i would like to give you some background onto the situation. I am thinking of losing my virginity, im 18 and i have a boyfriend. We are not in a hurry to lose our virginity to each other, just thinking about it. We kn...

A.   29 September 2008: I lost my virginity and bled a lot. And he was on top of me. But, it didn't hurt. I think you should relax a little on this subject, because even if it does hurt, it will only hurt for a while at the most for most people. And I'm sure if it hurt... (read in full...)

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

Q.   Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...

A.   28 September 2008: Thank you for the replies guys! Michelle, I'll remember to update. : D I don't want to talk him. He started to ignore me, so I blocked him through all internet things he can contact me through, (although he still has me on myspace, and he hasn'... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's healthy, I'm only 13. I feel supid, it started when I was using the bathroom at home!

Q.   i know its stupid neither not good, but i usually get horny a lot. and i jock on my self. i dont know what to do to controlled my self but its hard. i need help with that, i cant stop watching porn and . sometimes it hurt my feeling. i dont know...

A.   28 September 2008: You're only 13. It's natural. Boys your age start getting sexually mature then. Masturbation is practically learning about your body. It's nothing bad. Many guys watch porn to get a relief. I wouldn't worry about. : ) P.S It's not stupid. :) A... (read in full...)

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

Q.   Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...

A.   28 September 2008: I also forgot to add, I have those weird montgomery tubercles on my breasts. ... (read in full...)

My friend to wait for her call, but in the end she didn't call me, I am very annoyed and want to get revenge!

Q.   recently my freind invited me to hang out and said she would call for me (come round my house and meet me) within the next half an hour.i waited for about 40 mins and still no sign of her so i walked to house to see where she was to find out from...

A.   28 September 2008: I think you should just confront her and ask her why she did it, and explain how it made you feel. I don't really think you need to get 'revenge.' ... (read in full...)

Why are fine-looking women so worried about their appearance? Do women have some kind of competition or acceptance problems with each other?

Q.   Alright, I just wanted to express my opinion. From a male perspective, and not that of a guy who looks around hungrily for sex. Women seem really image conscious, a little too much I'd say. I mean it's surprising how much women actual...

A.   28 September 2008: Okay, an answer coming from an extremely vain woman. I fret over my dress size, my make up, my hair. I'm happy with my breast size, but I know a lot of girls that are very unhappy - for example, my sister. I think it's mainly for male attenti... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

Q.   Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...

A.   28 September 2008: It's not a bad thing. I used to date an 18 year old at 12. Age gaps don't really matter, as long as it's love. And not just being used. Love is all that matters. Just don't let him use you. And if he does, he'll get into a lot of trouble with the... (read in full...)

I can't remember if he wore a condom or not, my period was very light and short, now I seem to be having pregnancy symptoms, but I can't go to the doctors on my own nor can afford a pregnancy test, help!

Q.   Hi, I'm a very confused person at the moment! I would be very happy if you would reply nicely with advice and not actually insulting, because I am only 16. A very confused one at that. So, I had sex roughly on the 28th August.. I can't remembe...

A.   25 September 2008: I don't remember. But the thing is, he had one. And I told him he didn't have to wear it, but as long as he told me first and then I could go get emergency the next day. But he said he'd wear it.... (read in full...)

I can't remember if he wore a condom or not, my period was very light and short, now I seem to be having pregnancy symptoms, but I can't go to the doctors on my own nor can afford a pregnancy test, help!

Q.   Hi, I'm a very confused person at the moment! I would be very happy if you would reply nicely with advice and not actually insulting, because I am only 16. A very confused one at that. So, I had sex roughly on the 28th August.. I can't remembe...

A.   25 September 2008: Thank you everyone.. I will take this all into one big decision.. as for maybe being under drugs or alcohol.. no it wasn't that. I don't touch either of them. ... (read in full...)

I can't remember if he wore a condom or not, my period was very light and short, now I seem to be having pregnancy symptoms, but I can't go to the doctors on my own nor can afford a pregnancy test, help!

Q.   Hi, I'm a very confused person at the moment! I would be very happy if you would reply nicely with advice and not actually insulting, because I am only 16. A very confused one at that. So, I had sex roughly on the 28th August.. I can't remembe...

A.   25 September 2008: I don't know if I'm meant to reply to my repliers here, but nudge me in the right direction if I'm wrong! @Temmye17;; Thanks though.. it is a bit scary though. I still think I'm like 12! Doesn't feel like it should happen to me.. But there wa... (read in full...)

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