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Will weed destroy my son's life?

Q.   I found a small bag of pot and a 'pipe' in my son's room. He's 16 and he is smoking every day. He admitted to me he did this. And he said "don't worry...all the kid's do it" I am so worried about the long range effects and how this will ruin his ...

A.   8 February 2008: The worst thing that can happen is laziness and he may be unmotivated. I personally smoke weed everyday, and those are the only side effects i encounter. Don't attack him for it, because it's not going to stop him at all, not even a chance. Just let ... (read in full...)

This seems so right but we both know it is so wrong but can't end it.

Q.   I need some help.I have a friend, a dear friend who has always been there for me and I have fallen in love with him. We are both married although my marriage is abusive and generally unhappy. He and his wife work away alot and she isnt always t...

A.   8 February 2008: You see I would have to ask how old your children are. Any younger than 8, and you should think about splitting with ur spouse, You seem to be more worried about yourself and your children. Kids between the ages of 9-13 are affected horribly by ... (read in full...)

I feel insecure without a bf and am not over my ex. Please help.

Q.   I feel really insecure without a boyfriend and recently i found out i have 5 admirers the thing is i dont like a single 1 of them yet im still not over my ex. He went out with me for a day dumped me then went out with me again for a day then dum...

A.   8 February 2008: Come to New York, i'll go out with you. lol. No, all im saying is that you don't have to feel insecure about being single. I have been single since August and I am fine with it. Maybe other people are different, but you should worry about your ins... (read in full...)

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

Q.   I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

A.   30 January 2008: Im all for abortion, so i would suggest that, and u need to learn how to be a bitch. Dump the pothead. And start being aggressive to the jerk. show him who is boss, and if not leave his ass.... (read in full...)

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

Q.   i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...

A.   30 January 2008: You should find new friends. As much as I am one who haa partook in this act. I don't approve of it. Your friends are sluts hunny.... (read in full...)

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

Q.   My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says ...

A.   30 January 2008: Many girls/women have done this to me so it seems logical. She loves you and is trying to keep you around.... (read in full...)

My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?

Q.   My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...

A.   30 January 2008: Forget about her. Get rid of her. If you feel that strongly then it's going to be long and hard, but don't worry youll get through it.... (read in full...)

We only ever go out on dates with his friends, the spark has gone! Please help!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months. We were set up by a mutual friend of ours. But since the first 2 dates we now always go out with four of his other friends (2 couples). The only time me and him actually get to have a co...

A.   26 January 2008: Well somebody needs to realize that things are supposed to be separate. You are supposed to have ur friends and he supposed to have his. Sure mixing is fine, but you need to let him know you have needs. Tell him to grow up and please his woman, im ... (read in full...)

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