I have issues with jealousy. He appears to be talking to another woman an awful lot. Should I worry?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. We have 3 beautiful children. I have a problem with jeolousy. I have accused him in the past for cheating on me (knowing he never has.) I have searched his wallet, cell phone and truck. I have never ...
A. 18 June 2007: Do you trust your husband? Has he been a good husband and father? I'm worried that years of living with a jealous person might push him away.
Show him trust and love and you'll likely receive good things back. Accuse an honerable man of not b... (read in full...)
Does he love me or not? I'm confused!!!
Q. I loved one boy and he said me that he dont love me.Now after 9 months we are best friends.I find out that I still love him.I didnt tell him.But few days ago he told me that he loves me on very romantic place and on very romantic way.We were holding ...
A. 18 June 2007: He doesn't know what his feelings are for you.
Don't pay any attention to what he says, instead pay attention to what he does. Does he give you love? Does he show you love? Does he respect you?
Judge if he loves you based on his actions, ... (read in full...)
He doesnt come home. Should I kick him to the curb?
Q. Should i stay with my boyfriend the father of our new born son? He cheated on me right after our son was born. There are nights he does not come home. But i dont feel as we have given it all we have, as he does not see a problem or try to change. Am ...
A. 18 June 2007: He might change someday, but it doesn't sound like he will any time soon. It sounds like you should move on, but do so in a way that can allow you guys to have a good relationship going forward. Afterall, he still is the father of your son and ... (read in full...)
What is going on with him? And why hasnt he asked me out?
Q. There is this guy from my workplace who had been showing an interest in me since before Xmas. He would always stare at me and smile when I walked in the room. He would also sometimes rub my shoulder. Although I was always polite and professional ...
A. 15 June 2007: Some guys are great at flirting when they don't think there is a chance anything happening with it, and then the freeze up when they find out that something could happen.
Don't be upset with him, he's just a little shy. Be more subtle with you... (read in full...)
Am I too suffocating with my guy? Any advice?
Q. Im 19 years old girl.its been good 4 years that im dating .i really love him.my boyfriend has been really restrictive in the past may be because of which i have become the same. now i dont even like his best friend who keeps misguiding him,and now ...
A. 15 June 2007: I agree with your sister and the previous reviewer. You're trying to control him, and the more we try to control someone the more miserable it makes us, cause it just doesn't work.
Should you let him do wrong? Yes of course. I mean you can ... (read in full...)
Lost all my friends because of my partner! I am so alone..what can I do?
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 8years, their is a 14 year age gap between us. When we first got togerther my close friends disaproved of our relationship which meant i lost allot of them. the freinds i did have left were mainly men which my ...
A. 15 June 2007: Start doing something for yourself... Anything. Try to reconnect with your old friends or start some activities to make some new frieds. You might not feel like it right now, but its the only way to really pull yourself out of the whole your in. ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself feel good?
Q. I needed some advice, I try to make myself feel good by buying new clothes, makeup etc. but I just feel that nothing ever looks good on me, I become fussy over the clothes and often just return them. I'm a size 10, but I just don't think I look good ...
A. 15 June 2007: Exercise. Although most people will tell you to do aerobic exercise, and it is great, but the biggest bang for the buck, in my humble opinion comes from lifting weights. Don't worry you won't get huge and bulky, but you will find that its very ... (read in full...)
I've not dated in a while, so I'm in need of tips on how to get a guy to notice me!
Q. in basic terms i guess my question is how do you get a guy to notice you? i havent had a date in several years and i am going to be moving soon and i want to kind of start over w/ the whole guy thing. ive been told by friends that im a great ...
A. 14 June 2007: I'm sure your quite pretty. Its just that our culture makes everyone feel unattractive compared to what we see on TV and in magazines. If your in reasonabley good shape (not obese) i can safely say that at least 80% of men will find you physically ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend forced me to have sex, but Im sure he didnt mean it, what should I do ?
Q. I love my boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 22. I told him I wasn't ready for sex until I'm 18. He said he feels the same way and would never force me to do what I didn't want to. Well, that was a lie. He got drunk one night when I was over at his house ...
A. 14 June 2007: Lets call this what it is. Rape.
You may not be the first person he's done this to. He belongs behind bars, and frankly that would be the best thing before he does this again. However, it sounds like your not going to get him in trouble,... (read in full...)
He needs space before the next step and I am so confused!!
Q. My boyfirend of three years has asked for some time. We are supposed to move in together this December and i am starting school by his house this summer. He said that he loves me but just wnats to be sure that this is it. We still talk a little on ...
A. 14 June 2007: To some degree he is just afraid of this next level of committment.
Currently, you live an hour away, soon you'll be going to school next to him, and then living together in just a few short months. I think he's feeling that things are going a ... (read in full...)
Self-conscious about being called fat
Q. Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident ...
A. 13 June 2007: That is crazy. No 5'4" and 138 is not fat. People are either being vendictive or are trying to make themselves feel better at your expense.
Eat well and exercise as we all know to do and in the mean time, erase this thought from your memory. ... (read in full...)
I really need some advice. I'm so confused right now and it's driving me nuts because I can't think of anything else.
Q. I really need some advice. I'm so confused right now and it's driving me nuts because I can't think of anything else... I am in love with this boy, and have been since september. He's all I think about but, this is where it gets complica...
A. 13 June 2007: There are things that men just can't talk to each other about. So a woman becomes a cherished friend because he can share things with her that he can't with his guy friends. This deep personal sharing brings intimacy, but the guy doesn't ... (read in full...)
I'm currently pursuing a divorce because of his lies and the fact he wont cut off ties with this woman even though they dont work together anymore
Q. please could someone tell me im being paranoid.ive been married 8 years a few months ago i was in the shopping mall and a woman stopped to say hi to my husband.i asked him who was that and he told me she was a co worker and that was the end of ...
A. 12 June 2007: I've known a couple of families who had similar situations and were able to patch things up. He might not be having an affair (sexually speaking), but might be in a partying mode right now.
You need to be respected and he needs to get his act ... (read in full...)
Who should I pick...the woman that I promised to stay with or the woman that I am in love with...?
Q. I Have been in a relationship for over 5 yrs with a woman that is 20 years older than me, I love her but I don't think i'm in love with her. I have a house and her family loves me but our mutual friend is someone that takes my breathe away...we,ve ...
A. 12 June 2007: If this other person did exist where would you be now? Would you be in love and deeply committed to this person you've been with for the last 5 years? Or would you be looking elsewhere for love?
I hate that people are often in relation... (read in full...)
Why would I fear rejection when entering in to an argument with someone?
Q. Why would I fear rejection when entering in to an argument with someone? Often this is the same reason i try to keep my mouth shut or avoid conflicts with people i am close to or get along well. The issue that are sensitive include, loss of respect ...
A. 12 June 2007: Yes, i conflicts can lead to seperation if not handled properly, but so can not expressing yourself.
I think any fear is genuine, but why does it exist? There could be several reasons. However, i would guess its simply having a lack of secur... (read in full...)
I told him that with over 100 women on his phone it was taking the pee.
Q. i have been with my man for 5 years. we have had our ups and downs like everyone else. he is 10 years older than me. i found out a few years ago that he was using chat rooms. i didnt mind him having conversations with other people at first, but then ...
A. 12 June 2007: I know you've invested quite a lot of time and effort into this relationship, but you have to end it. Most men until they reach an age of maturity (around 90 years old) do most of their thinking with the little head rather than the big one. There ... (read in full...)
I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: Who cares about being normal... just be yourself.
I think your shyness is the barrier. I'm sure you have real obligations to work and your gran, but you can always find a few hours to get yourself in social situations every week if you want to,... (read in full...)
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