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My bf gave me a black eye. My Dad wants to meet him

Q.   ok so my boyfriend hit me and gave me a black eye and i dont know whether to leave him or not because i'm kind of scared of him. My dad keep asking me to tell him where he lives because he wants to go round there but i dont really want to tell him ...

A.   25 December 2010: I know everyone says to just leave but if you love him, it is hard to do. Looking back, I should have left plenty of times. If I could do it again, I would just leave. I used to feel bad because I felt like I caused myself to get hit but talking to ... (read in full...)

Demanded my boyfriend gets a paternity test on a potential child..am I in the wrong?

Q.   Am I wrong for tell my boyfriend that we won't live together or take any big steps in our relationship until he gets a dna test on a child he doesn't know is his or not? We've been together for almost a year....

A.   25 December 2010: Ok, I just recently wrote my story on here so you should read it. My girl my boyfriend was messing before we got together told him she was pregnat. For nine months, I went through HELL! He would go over to "make sure she was ok" all the time. It ... (read in full...)

Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...

A.   25 December 2010: Yeah, penis in the vagina =not a virgin. I didn't bleed either the first time. Just make sure to use condoms and watch out for guys. All they want is sex. You're in the US so make sure you go to Planned Parenthood and if you continue to have sex, ... (read in full...)

Do I believe him? Or his ex?

Q.   hi my boyfriend ex got in contact with me cos she 7months pregant by him and she's a nut job saying that im only a rebound but infact he left her for me. but she said he never use to go out always moaned about it a never really drank. s...

A.   25 December 2010: I would say get out of the relationship. The girl is pregnant. If he is the father, you are going to have to deal with her while you're with him. Tell him to get a paternity test and if it's not his and he cuts her off completely, then you should ... (read in full...)

Husband cheated and other woman got pregnant, what should I do?

Q.   A year and a half ago, my husband had an affair. The OW got pregnant. We decided to separate because of this and I moved away. My husband's reasons for starting the affair are many, but one of them being that I didn't want children yet and he ...

A.   25 December 2010: I can only speak of my situation but it still hurts. I met my boyfriend when I was 18, he was 24. I did not want to be with him because I did not think he could be faithful to me. After a few months of dating, around Thanksgiving we were great. I ... (read in full...)

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