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My name is Kirsty-Marie Day

I am here to help every one who needs/wants help,

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My boyfriend is too critcal of me, but not of his ex... how can I fix this?

Q.   my boyfriend has become increasingly critical of the things i do, no matter which way i do something he finds a way to critisise it, however he panders round his ex (mother of his child) and this really grates. The critisism is starting to bring me ...

A.   11 August 2008: The best thing i think you can do it confront him about it. If he denies it tell him hes does as he might not be aware of it. Tell him how it is making you feel. And as for him not ding it to him ex the mother of the child it may be just to be civi... (read in full...)

I'm only still with him as it's impractical to leave. What can I do?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for 15 yr. we have two kids' and about 2 yr ago he was injured on a job and was on workmans comp., well that case ended and then he opened up a new case for total disability or more money? anyway he has not been working ...

A.   11 August 2008: the best thing you to do is have a chat with your husband about this. It will be the best thing for you and your children. Having you bring them up in an environment where you do not love your husband anymore will teach your children to do the same... (read in full...)

I took the advice of someone and made a move on a woman I like very much, she said she only wants to be friends, how do I change this?

Q.   Over the past 2 weeks I have really fallen for someone who works down my local. I spent a couple of hours talking to her and drinking with her Saturday night after her shift, and I really thought she felt the same about me. The owner of the pub told ...

A.   11 August 2008: The only way of a possibilty of her opnion changing is time. You have not ruined your chances of being with this gir because of your friend. Because you have asked her now she knows she knows you like her. What you can do to change her opinion is t... (read in full...)

I have a good friend, who I want to keep as a good friend, but he is showing signs of affection, that I do not want to return, how do I get this across to him that I just want to be friends?

Q.   Well, Theres this guy1 and he has a girlfriend, and i have a boyfriend, and i love this boy to bits we been together nerle 3 months, and i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, but guy1 is breaking up with his girlfriend, and we have so muc...

A.   11 August 2008: The best thing to do is tell guy1 that you are really good friends but that is all you think and want because you have a boyfriend. And you love you boyfriends, also they are good m8s so he should know if he feels anything he has to keep it to ... (read in full...)

I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend

Q.   I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend. Can anybody out there relate? We've been together 5 years and lived together for 3. I know I sound absolutely awful, but I keep thinking about how awkward the whole thing will be. We live together...

A.   10 August 2008: Well break-ups are never easy and especially if its been a long time. However, the longer the wait and worry the harder it is to come around to tell your partner. Break-up with someone is always awkard no matter where when or what time. Most peopl... (read in full...)

He is constantly thinking I am cheating or lying! When I'm not!

Q.   I would really like some answers on why my boyfriend of over a year, constantly thinks that I am seeing someone behind his back or talking to someone, when I have never given him any reason to think those things....

A.   10 August 2008: Many males and females have this problem to think something is going on with someone else and their partner behind their back when there is nothing going on at all. My advice is to confront your partner and ask him why he thinks this. Also ... (read in full...)

What is normal breast size for my age?

Q.   is this bad im 13 and i wear a 34C cup size in my bra im just wonderin is there any other 13 or 14 year olds who also wear a 34C or higher...

A.   10 August 2008: For each women the growth of breasts is different. In your case you are and early developer. Your question was is there any other 13 or 14 year olds who also wear a 34C or higer and the answer is yes there will be plenty more people. As said ... (read in full...)

I kissed my best friend, I love her - we're ignoring our feelings!!

Q.   My best friend and I made out once and since then I cant stop thinking about her and I love her. We spend a lot of time together and there is some kind of tension that make us nervous and aware of certain feelings but we dont act on it or talk about ...

A.   10 August 2008: I would bring it up as you say you cannot stop thinking about her. Try to talk to her about it and you will find out what will or could happen between you and her. Try to tell her how you feel and see where it goes from there. Maybe after this talk ... (read in full...)

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