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He spat on my vagina to lubricate it! Now I don't want him to touch me!

Q.   While making love, my vagina was a bit dry so my partner spat into my vagina to lubricate it. i feel so degraded by this i cannot bear him to touch me since. Am i over reacting?...

A.   16 August 2009: people watch porn, and I've seen that more then once. Maybe he seen it in a porno, though it was hot, thought you'd think it's hot and gave it a try ...don't get mad at him for watching porn...... (read in full...)

Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?

Q.   Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...

A.   3 August 2009: hah...I did see many doctors.. my family doctor told me to take a gravol.. I was sick yesterday and this morning and its not getting any better, still no answers..... (read in full...)

My sexuality...

Q.   Hi, I like women but for some reason I only get an erection if I think about men, am I gay? Also I had sex 16 times with my brother's friend, it's sooo... but the thing is I need your help, please I beg you, I need help with my sexual contentment. ...

A.   29 July 2009: well.. is your brothers friend a guy? because if he is it seems to me that you could be gay..also seeing as how you only get hard thinking about men...you said love micheal and you write like a 10 year old girl..it was soo.. what? ... (read in full...)

Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?

Q.   Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...

A.   29 July 2009: ..I also looked up Campylobacter food poisoning and Iam not too sure that its that...Thanks though... (read in full...)

Should I try a new hospital for possible answers?

Q.   Hey, just so you know I am from Canada and have had a pregnancy test that was negative I've been feeling really sick for the past two and a half weeks. My symptoms are: nauseous but only in the morning however NOW its starting in the evening as w...

A.   29 July 2009: thank you! And it was a blood test ... (read in full...)

Should my baby be circumsized?

Q.   I am 8 months pregnant and I am having a baby boy.. I don't know what to do about circumsizing??? His father was not circumsized and is currently not in our lives due to being controlling and abusive.. I have read the pros and cons of either way but ...

A.   11 July 2009: Its cleaner and better looking, I know that one day when and if I have a baby boy, I'll make sure he gets it done. I guess its just up to what you want really..... (read in full...)

Masturbation help!

Q.   I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...

A.   10 May 2009: man, if i were you i would invest in a good dildo and use it its not a sin.... (read in full...)

Am I too short to be loved...???

Q.   Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, n...

A.   10 May 2009: p.s go into masonary labouring or something it'll fill out your neck and muscles and make up for you being short. you know girls like big necks and all and stong backs... (read in full...)

Am I too short to be loved...???

Q.   Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, n...

A.   10 May 2009: my boyfriend is 5'9 and I love him... hes 21 you dont have to be tall to be loved or "sexy" my boyfriend is sexy hah... (read in full...)

Does the areola size really matter?

Q.   ok so heres the thing, im happy with my body and i like how things are portioned overall but theres one problem. My breasts are a 36C and i like the size but my areola [the part around my nipple] on them are like 2 inches and kinda dark sometimes ...

A.   14 November 2008: the body is a beautiful thing no matter what! and you should learn to love the size of your areolas because they are the only ones you'll have! it has been said that you have to truly love yourself before anyone else can, that being said, ch... (read in full...)

Girls... -what are your views on male virginity?

Q.   A question for females only, what are your views on male virginity?...

A.   17 October 2008: well.. theres not very much to say about it. everyones a virgin at somepoint, some loose it sooner then others. Athough It think male virginity is weird... Its just not quite the same as female virginity although in a sence it is. Now Im real... (read in full...)

Do I have genital herpes or am I just being a hypochondriac?

Q.   I have been looking online aat my symptoms and fear I may have genital herpes. I have small painful bumps on the inside of my vaginal lips. They don't seem like blisters and haven't popped like the website said they would. Also I have gotten sick ...

A.   3 September 2008: If he had a cold sore its pretty likely that you now have is on you vag.... (read in full...)

I told a serious lie four years ago to make friends, now I'm concerned they'll find out about it!

Q.   Okay Basically when i started year 7 i found it hard to make friends. I told a serious lie at the time thinking it would make me more liked and get me more attention. I really regret it now. I am now going into year 11, and my closest friends still ...

A.   28 August 2008: what is you lie, we need insight here.... (read in full...)

My girl has an odor down there, is it normal?

Q.   Hi, uhm, this a kind of embaressing question, or rather problem. When i lick her "you know what/where" it kinda smells, realy bad, its a kinda anticlimax and sometimes i cant stand it. I have seen porn videos with guys licking girls without ...

A.   8 August 2008: Im a female and its suppost to stink that badly, she may not clean herself properly so maybe you could incorporate a shower to your regular sex routine. ask her if she wants to start in the shower and move from there (and you could clean her while ... (read in full...)

My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!

Q.   So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined ...

A.   11 June 2008: you should meet him before you plan on actually saying yes people can be quiet diffrent then the way they potray them selves on the internet( phone texts) its in your best intrest to meet this man. if he turns out to be the same man offline as h... (read in full...)

I get horny during my period. My boyfriend won't...

Q.   hi everyone quick question when im on my period i get super horny and i want sex but my bf wont have sex with me bc im bleeding how can i convince him 2 have sex with me? plz can anyone tell me what 2 do he wont go into the shower with me when i ...

A.   6 June 2008: Maybe in the shower, yuou could suggest that, its not messy because it'll just wash away good luck ... (read in full...)

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?

Q.   well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...

A.   6 June 2008: I think that as long as you lend your support (emotionaly not financialy) then things will work out. However is she mature enough to handle a child at this moment? and is her boyfriend willing to be in this childs life forever? I dont think th... (read in full...)

My friend has an eating disorder and I don't know how to help her

Q.   A friend of mine has been struggeling with an eating dissorder for 3 years. Ive known her since grade school and it hurts me to see her this way. The only thing is she doesen't know that I know. Her Ex boyfriend (current at the time) came to me...

A.   6 June 2008: Thanks I know all of that Im just asking how I should bring up the topic thats all. Im sorry its just I dont need the low down on what the disorder is because I know and I already know all the other things about it as well. I want advice on how t... (read in full...)

How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?

Q.   I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...

A.   25 May 2008: If a boy likes you foor your boobs hes not worth it. Boobs aint' everything "snap snap"... (read in full...)

Why is he so scared to finger me?

Q.   my boyfriend is really scared to finger me! why is he so scraed we finally kissed about a weekago sence then weve mad out and everything but why is he so scared to finger me??...

A.   25 May 2008: your 12, maybe thats why.... (read in full...)

He has me on a 7 pm curfew! And he blames me for what he does to me! Am I doing the right thing planning to leave him?

Q.   I'm now 21 years old. I was barely 19 when I MOVED IN with my boyfriend. Things have gotten worse since I turned 21. He has me on a 7PM curfew! If I'm a few minutes late he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Hes even locked me out for ...

A.   25 May 2008: Yes, theres nothing in it for you.... (read in full...)

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