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I doubt anyone has ever been in such a situation with his girlfriend

Q.   Before everyone begins with the "nah bro, dump her dump her" stuff, read it completely, and put yourself in my situation, and atleast TRY to understand how I feel. I'm with a girl right now, and quite frankly, she is amazing. Whether we're talking ...

A.   18 March 2008: Actually its just the opposite. I am the cheater. The first time I cheated on my then fiance, was about two weeks before we married. Then again a couple months later with someone else I promised I would NEVER sleep with. Then again. And again. And ... (read in full...)

I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?

Q.   I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?...

A.   18 March 2008: First of all, Congrats Pops! As long as there's no complications, you can have sex during pregnancy. However, don't be mislead by the lady folks that have answered your questions. You ARE ABLE to have sex if you wish. However, because your wifes ... (read in full...)

She hates the ejaculating inside of her, but only after 4 years she tells me this!! I feel hurt and disoriented.

Q.   I have been seeing a woman for over four years and have had what I thought was a great relationship. We have recently been talking about marriage. However, last week after sex she told me that she absolutely hates the fact that I ejaculate inside ...

A.   7 March 2008: Yooooo......are you making too much of this??? I THINK NOT. If you love this girl, which it sounds like you do, then all should be ok. If she is able to cum all over you, then why can you not cum all over her?? I think thats a bit screwed, and I ... (read in full...)

He smokes pot when he's with his friends, and I hate it!

Q.   I hate the fact that I want advice on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Unfortunately, we only get to see each other on the weekends because we are both in college and live about an hour away from each other. But we talk for ...

A.   7 March 2008: Well, I honestly can't help you make the decision what you should do. The decison is ultimatly yours. I guess I can tell you what I tell both of my friends. "I think you both should move on. Its obvious that your priorites aren't the same. And both ... (read in full...)

How can I go about getting closer to my real mom withouth upsetting my adoptive mom?

Q.   My Mom had me when she was 16 and I was adopted by her older sister because she had plans for her education and career and a baby at 16 didn't fit into her plans. I'm not really on the greatest terms with my adoptive Mom at the minute and I'd like...

A.   6 March 2008: See, sometimes it turns out ok, and sometimes it doesn't. I think trying to have a better relationship with your real mom, without pissing off your adoptive mom, is a lose-lose situation. She feels as though she is the one that has raised you. ... (read in full...)

He smokes pot when he's with his friends, and I hate it!

Q.   I hate the fact that I want advice on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Unfortunately, we only get to see each other on the weekends because we are both in college and live about an hour away from each other. But we talk for ...

A.   6 March 2008: Thats a bad situation. I have 2 friends, they have 3 kids together. He has been arrested for domestic violence once already. He just served his time for the charge. For the past 4 years, hes whooped the shit out of her. Although, I have to say, she ... (read in full...)

He gropes me in public and then laughs

Q.   I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of two months keeps squeezing my breasts and laughing hysterically. I don't know why he does this I find it rather embarrassing and degrading. He does it infront of his friends and while we're outside. I have ...

A.   5 March 2008: Maturity thing? It sounds like hes the one that is immature. If you have talked to him about it, and he continues to do it, then he has no respect for you. It may also be a control thing he is trying to show you he has over you. Either way, he ... (read in full...)

I have not heard from him for three weeks

Q.   thankyou for your answers wveryone. my original post was on 17th jan. titled should i forget him or will he realise what he has lost.. just posted an update . could someone please advise. not heard anything from him for 3 weeks now and i have ...

A.   5 March 2008: Don't try to contact him. Leave him alone. If its meant to be, it will. Give eachother space. Otherwise it may not work how you want it too.... (read in full...)

Torn between two guys, what to do?

Q.   There is the two guys that i like one of them i work with and see all the time he hasnt got a girlfriend and is a little older then me. the other has been seperated since september and has two kids i see him every week and can see myself falling ...

A.   5 March 2008: Go with the guy with no kids. No previous relationships with kids, no strings. However, if you chose the other guy, with the kids, I hope you like kids, and are looking for a ready made family, and a LOT of responisiblity. Not that there is anything ... (read in full...)

Should I give him an ultimatum about his using drugs?

Q.   My boyfriend is a complete pothead. I've tried getting him off of it but he ends up in such a state I just let him do it cause he gets the shakes and sweating and stomach cramps. The thing is I thought you smoked marajuana in a cigarette type thing ...

A.   5 March 2008: I would lose him, it's obvious that pot is far more important than you. He is probably going to keep using you, as long as you are going to enable him to do so. He don't give a damn about you, even though he may say he does. I think you should move ... (read in full...)

She prefers anal sex, completely rejecting vaginal intercourse. It makes me feel dirty but I accept this because I love her. What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend only wants anal sex and I really don't feel comfortable with this. I am a strict Christian I do not believe that this kind of sex is either appropriate or godly. I only go along with it because I love her but it makes me feel very ...

A.   5 March 2008: If only one of you is satifified and there's no compromise. There's no relationship. Lose her.... (read in full...)

Should I spend the rest of my life with someone who won't satisfy me?

Q.   I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot ...

A.   5 March 2008: In the United States, the law says a person your age cannot legally consent to having sex. I can tell you a hypothetical answer...You should see the person for who they are, not Prince Charming. If you love him as much as you say you do, then not... (read in full...)

Can you give a 15 years old advice on safe foreplay?

Q.   OK im 15 and i know i'm not ready for sex. I am not stupid and am so scared about pregnancy. So i am going to wait a year but i want to do 'everything else' if you know what i mean. I have done some things but i just hate the fact that once you have ...

A.   5 March 2008: If you have to ask the world for safe ways to foreplay, I think you should not be doing it. If you have to ask, means that you will continue to ask and eventually it could lead to unwanted pregnancy. The safest thing I can tell you, is don't pu... (read in full...)

How can I accept my pregnancy and the idea of adoption? Is there any other option?

Q.   i'm celeste...i'm 13 going on 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant. i found out way too late. me and my boyfriend used a condom but it must have split without us realising. the first thing i said was i wanted an abortion. but they wouldn't give me ...

A.   5 March 2008: No, you will never be completely ok with the idea of adoption. Maybe you will be just a bit more open minded after reading my response. But it may also be better than alternatives. From birth to 3 months of age, were the most terrible times of... (read in full...)

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