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Will his drug habit affect a baby?

Q.   Hey there. I was just hoping for some advice. My fiance and I are trying to get pregnant, but I'm concerned because he does have a history of weed/coke usage in recreation. He says he will quit for me to make sure the baby is healthy, but I don't ...

A.   3 December 2007: Pgissyd, Interesting reading. I can attest, though, that I have known literally dozens upon dozens of cannabis smokers who have gotten pregnant or gotten someone pregnant. So, I wouldn't lull someone into a false sense of security by suggesti... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I'm masturbating "properly" can you help?

Q.   When I was young, I literally had no idea 'how' masturbation was 'meant' to be done. I wasn't aware of the conventional method, so perhaps in my naivety I just did what felt good. When masturbating, I would lie on my back and with the palm of my h...

A.   30 November 2007: You're fine. Everything sounds normal. If you're worried, though, go to your doctor and get a physical. You don't have to explain your "method," just have him do a routine check up.... (read in full...)

How can I stop this male escort from blackmailing me?

Q.   i had sex with another man..he was an escort..i paid him money..now he is blackmailing me for more money..which i gave him ..and now he wants more money from me..and he threatens to tell others about this experience if i dont pay him...it can ruin ...

A.   30 November 2007: I think the best way to deal with this individual is to beat him to the punch. By that, I mean that you need to come out about what you did. This will disarm the male escort--he'll have nothing with which to blackmail you. I know that will be ... (read in full...)

Will his drug habit affect a baby?

Q.   Hey there. I was just hoping for some advice. My fiance and I are trying to get pregnant, but I'm concerned because he does have a history of weed/coke usage in recreation. He says he will quit for me to make sure the baby is healthy, but I don't ...

A.   30 November 2007: I'm going to have to disagree COMPLETELY with Pgissyd and say that you can certainly get pregnant if your boyfriend is using. Cannabis, in particular, has no effect on fertility. That being said, you both need to be clean if you're ready to have ... (read in full...)

Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Q.   Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...

A.   29 November 2007: I lost my virginity at the ripe old age of 21. I was straight-edge through high school and college, meaning I didn't drink, I didn't smoke, I didn't do drugs and I didn't have sex. I didn't really miss not doing any of those things at the time, but ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried that I do not have pubic hair yet?

Q.   Hi I'm 18 but my penis hasn't grown and i don't have any hair around it and i haven't started shaving. my voice has broken but because of all this im a bit self concious about myself and ive never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. do you hav...

A.   29 November 2007: If I was in your shoes, I would be seeing my physician. When is the last time you've had a physical? Everyone develops at their own pace, but 18 sounds a little old to have no pubic hair. See your doctor. Perhaps you have a hormone imbalance of some ... (read in full...)

I really love her, but is her emotional blackmail a good reason to stay with her?

Q.   Hi. I’m having a real crisis of the heart here. Let me explain. I’m not really sure if I’m happy in my current relationship and I think we need a break. My g/f and I have been together for a year now and we moved in together approximately tw...

A.   29 November 2007: Thanks for the replies—I feel a little better already. I don’t really have a follow-up question, but I thought I’d give a bit more insight. As many of you have noticed, the truth is that I don’t really want to leave this woman, or hurt her with ... (read in full...)

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