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I told him I didn't like the idea of sharing a hotel room with two cute blondes, one with big breasts who he's slept with!

Q.   Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). ...

A.   26 October 2006: Do let him or her push you around, he should respect the fact that you are not compfortable and make other arrangments unless he is trying to sleep in the same room with her. He has lied and said they never had sex so hes' hiding something and i ... (read in full...)

We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!

Q.   dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks...

A.   26 October 2006: I think having a threesome is ok if you are secure in your relationship, but be careful. Make sure its not someone that either one of you knoe, that could cause problems. Dont do it at home. Some woman associate sex with love and that could cause ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and she's already had sex so why now does she want to wait til she is married!!!

Q.   This is actually two questions I need answers to. I asked my girlfriend the question about if and when we should have sex but she says she wants to wait until she is married. I think that's a bit hypocritical as she has been in a sexual relation...

A.   25 October 2006: Woman will say things out of anger and you are the one top deteremine whether or not that is the case. I know woman that wish they would have never lost their virginity and now that she is with someone who still has thiers she may just want that ... (read in full...)

Who comes first? The spouse or the kids?

Q.   Traditionally, I have always believed that in a relationship where children are involved; be it children from outside the relationship or not, your partner/ spouse comes first and the child second to the unity of the “adult” relationship further, ...

A.   25 October 2006: Im not saying that you should put off your happiness but know what ever happens with the man, those will be your kids for the rest of your life and nothing or no one can change that.... (read in full...)

How do you get a boy to like you? Any tips?

Q.   hi im 15... how do u get a teenage boy to fancy you?...

A.   20 October 2006: act as if you dont like him. Men want what they believe they cant have. Good luck... (read in full...)

I have brown discharge in the middle of my cycle...is this normal?

Q.   i have a bit of a problem im in the middle of my monthly cycle and have been seeing brown discharge. i have been on numerious contraceptive pills in the past because they havent agreed with me and have eventually found the right one and now im ...

A.   20 October 2006: When bleeding comes to a stop it becomes discolored. It's no longer really red. It may be a sign that your sycle is a little abnormal because of the contraceptives. Good luck... (read in full...)

We broke and decided to be sex buddies. But we stopped as he has a new gf, now! Why am I upset about this?

Q.   Hey Everyone, I've been friends with the guy for about 5-6 months. In the beginning we were getting to know each other and I decided that we should just stay friends because He seemed like he was the playa type. Anyway, four months later our frie...

A.   20 October 2006: unfortunately women relate sex to love and emotion and men relate sex to sex. You feel that way because although you werent really together, you both shared something. Now you see that as another woman has what was yours . Although he told you in a ... (read in full...)

Should I eventually tell my kids I was raped as a teen?

Q.   I was raped at the age of 14, my husband knows about this, and is very supportive of it, should i tell my children, when they are old enough?...

A.   20 October 2006: When I was 12 I was raped as a teen and so was my mother. I wish I would have know before hand to know what to look for. You should tell them, you'll feel better if they know. Good luck.... (read in full...)

How can I move on from him, been having an affair for a year, but he wont leave his girlfriend, but cant stay away from me!!

Q.   I was seeing a guy from work for about a year although he has a girlfriend of 3 years. They have a weird relationship and hardly see each other and he has always said to me and others that he has never thought she was the one but he has been with ...

A.   20 October 2006: dont be the other woman!!! Either he is with you or he's not. Put yourself in her position. You are not going to be happy and he is not going to be happy, and now there is a woman at home loving man thats not loving her. Even if he leaves her he'll ... (read in full...)

He's been violent and cheated and just treats me real bad in general!

Q.   bin with me partner 5 years i was 17 him 25, bin pregnant 10 times have 2 kids. he has been violent and cheated and hes just a twat in general.doesnt have the kids never done the night feeds and doesnt class what i do with the kids as being work. ...

A.   20 October 2006: Its easy for me to say leave him its not worth it, but you never know what you would do until your in the position. Voice your opion, let him know what and how you feel. Do not allow him to touch you. A man that hits you will kill you and whos to ... (read in full...)

I am having problems with my wife and the only thing that makes me happy is my lover!

Q.   Hi everyone: I (age 28) have been married for 3 years and never cheated on my wife before. 2 months ago, I kissed one of my co-workers who is 21 years old. AN unbelievable romance started with that kiss. I first started liking her and now we are ...

A.   19 October 2006: My first instict was to tell you, you shld be ashamed of yourself. But sometimes a person cant help who they love. Dont lead your wife on. Dont let her believe that the relationship is fine. Let her know what is going on and let he make the decision ... (read in full...)

He has issues with trust from his past...so how do I get him to trust me??

Q.   Any advise on how to get a guy to gain trust in you? I havent done anything to ruin his trust in me we have recently met. We both like each other but he says he has issues with trust due to his past. Im nearly 15 and he's 17. I dont want to be ...

A.   19 October 2006: I understand your concerns. Me and my bf started the same way and have been together for almost three years. There isn't too much you can do but be trustworthy. Eventually he'll come around, although sometimes men dont trust you because they are ... (read in full...)

Ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner?

Q.   ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner? ...

A.   19 October 2006: it turns me on when he watches. I dont mind doing it online though.... (read in full...)

After we broke up..he still flirts with me! Does he still have feelings for me?

Q.   my boyfriend and i just broke up about a month or two ago..we werent always kissing or making out or ne thing like that we would go to the movies flirt hold hands hug kiss u kno all that we went out for a total of 5 months we told each other we ...

A.   19 October 2006: I dont want to sound insenstive but he may only be trying to keep your sex relationship alive.... (read in full...)

Periods are 2 weeks late! Am I pregnant?

Q.   Ok, my period is almost two weeks late and this really isn't normal for me because the most I've ever been late is a day or two. I've taken two pregnancy tests, one when I was a week late and this morning. Both negative. I'm not stressed so I don't ...

A.   19 October 2006: I can understand your situation. For I have been in the situation before and turned out I was pregnant, even though I took multiple pregnancy test.I suggest getting into the doctor ASAP. It could be nerves, or your hormones could be a little ... (read in full...)

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