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What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?

Q.   I don't really need advice, I'm just curious. What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?...

A.   7 May 2008: He told his mom that i wasnt his lover, i wasnt his friend, i wasnt his confidant, i was his wife. He said there was nothing more beautiful than that.... (read in full...)

What are some girls "turn on" spots?

Q.   Hey, I'm wondering what are some girls "turn on" spots? Like all I know with my girlfriend is neck, knee/thigh's, and ears. Are they're more that I could try out?...

A.   1 May 2008: I agree with the others. I go nuts when he touches me on my hips right where my legs bend when i sit. He knows i will instantly be in the mood. Try gently touching her all over, every inch, while blindfolded. Get to know what you cannot see.... (read in full...)

Why would a man who loves his wife and family keep me around? I want us to be together!

Q.   I have known a wonderful guy for over 20 years -we have been having an affair for 15 years. I have loved him all this time. He has been married with kids all this time - I've been married and divorced twice. Although we have never discussed this, ...

A.   1 May 2008: You know he is not leaving his wife so why do this to yourself. Does the wife know about you? How does she feel? If you are unhappy then end it. You deserve someone who wants only you. I was the wife in a 5yr affair. It was devistating to me to find ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

Q.   My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...

A.   30 April 2008: The affair continued for another 2 yrs after he moved back home because she threatened to tell the kids and would not leave us alone. I talked to her and so did he. Finally we told the kids and we have not heard from her since. Is that enough back ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

Q.   My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...

A.   30 April 2008: what i said was that after an affair he wanted anal all the time. I never said it was after 1 or 20. This is the biggest problem so i posted it first. If he never gave me oral sex or any sex again oh well. I love him and sex is not that important. I ... (read in full...)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

Q.   My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

A.   30 April 2008: First of all this is not a fake question. I did not post them together because they are two seperate issues. Yes they both involve sex but they are not the same and i wanted specific answers to specific questions. Other than the fact that he enjoys ... (read in full...)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

Q.   My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

A.   30 April 2008: Maybe because of what he did with his sister in his mind it is only for kids. I know he used to love doing it even if we did not have intercourse after. Now he wont touch me until he is ready to cum then he will rub me until i do first.... (read in full...)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

Q.   My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

A.   30 April 2008: Thank you all so much for your help. To answer rcn, no his brother has not been punished for what he did to my husband. He was arrested for doing the same thing to his son and that is when my hubby told. His brother was set to be deported and ICE ... (read in full...)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

Q.   My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

A.   30 April 2008: He was molested as a very small boy by his brother who would rape him and cum in his mouth and beat him if he vomited. Because of that he hates bjs. For the first 9 yrs we were married he had no problem with going down on me. Then he said we were to ... (read in full...)

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

Q.   I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

A.   30 April 2008: Sex with anyone that is not your partner is just not safe. Your husband deserves to know so that he can decide for himself what he wants to do. Please tell him, as painful as it will be for him he needs to know.... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

Q.   My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...

A.   30 April 2008: He says it is his demon that he enjoys flirting with. He started doing it after an affair where she said she couldnt cum unless it was anal. From there that is all he wants. He never wanted it before her.... (read in full...)

I'm in too deep with a married man, what should I do?

Q.   I am seeing a married man even though I do not want to. I am sorry it is a bit long. He is so kind, does my laundry, buys the groceries, helps a single women with all the things a husband really should do, I gave up trying to tell him not to bothe...

A.   30 April 2008: My husband was involved in a 5 yr affair. He tried to leave her many times over the years but she would not let him leave. She was blackmailing him. She kept telling him that she would tell our kids what he was doing. Finally he quit, changed his ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

Q.   My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...

A.   30 April 2008: We end up doing it 2-3 times a week and have been for the last 8 yrs. I try breathing exercises or thinking of good things. He takes it slow and is very gentle and patient with me. He has offered to let me use my dildo on him but that is gross. Am i ... (read in full...)

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