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Can I get him back? Do men change their opinion on somebody?

Q.   Hi there! First of all thanks for the answer I can have :) I have known this guy for 2 months already, we went out at the beggining for a couple of days (have sex, being public together) and after a week of being intimate he dissapear. From ...

A.   11 June 2009: If he was into you, he'd be with you. The more you push at a person the more they want to get away. Why would you want to be with someone who treated you (or any woman) that way? Get some self-respect and find a man who will treat you right. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?

Q.   I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few time...

A.   11 June 2009: You need to ask yourself why you need all this reassurance. If he loves you, he'll show it by the way he acts, not the things he says or texts. You need a project to focus on so you aren't so worried. Go volunteer at a shelter or at a school, it ... (read in full...)

What do I do if they go out?

Q.   the one i love, the one i would die for is now in love with my best friend, and my best friend is in love with him. iam so upset she says to me on msn that iam selfish and a sl_t. shes the one selfish i am so in love with him and after every thing ...

A.   11 June 2009: You're under 20, you have no clue what love is. Your friends will be different in 10 years. Take a deep breath and remember that drama is not your friend. ... (read in full...)

I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!

Q.   My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...

A.   11 June 2009: I'm sorry he was not honest with you, but there's nothing you can do to make someone like you. Quit checking up on him, the more you badger him the more he'll try to escape it. You need to not pitty yourself but honestly evaluate how the ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!

Q.   Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...

A.   11 June 2009: Then he's not into you. Someone who asks you to be dishonest is not going to be honest with you. I'm sure there are tons of other fellows your age who would be delighted to introduce you to their friends and take you out. Get off the internet and go ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to exclude her?

Q.   I told my friend I was going to a social event this weekend. She asked if I wanted her to go with me and I made a joke about her cramping my style as I am going with 2 men friends. They asked me and they dont know her and I'm just a bit conscious ...

A.   11 June 2009: You are not wrong to exclude her, she is wrong to have invited herself. She should have understood that if you wanted her along, you would have invited her. Also, it's understandable to not want to see the same friends everyday, if she's hungup ... (read in full...)

Dating on the phone for a year and she won't meet me!

Q.   Hi,well me and my girlfriend have been dating over the phone for a year now.and i belive we fell in love and from the bottom of my heart i truly love this girl she is everything i have ever wanted.but the biggest problem is the fact she wont meet ...

A.   11 June 2009: There is no such thing as dating on the phone. You can't fall in love with a person without spending time with them, over the phone you end up falling inlove with your picture of them. This sounds like some teen-internet drama. Get off the internet, ... (read in full...)

Break up because of no sex?

Q.   If your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you is it a valid reason to break up with her after you have tried communication?...

A.   11 June 2009: It depends on her reasoning. If she's doing it to string you along, then yes, break up withher. If she has a valid reason (even if you don't agree with it) and you enjoy all other facets of the relationship, then no, you shouldn't break up with her. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over an abusive ex-boyfriend?

Q.   Hello...here's the story- I went out with a guy for 4 years who I loved with all my heart and when we were together the first two, things were okay but he always had a really bad temper and things started getting bad in our relationship- he would ...

A.   11 June 2009: I hate to be blunt (actually, I love it, but you might not) but I would place a large amount of money on the fact that you still like him because you have nothing else to do. Abusive partners tend to isolate their victim, now that he's out of the ... (read in full...)

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