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I'm scared that if say the wrong thing, he'll beat me again! Please help

Q.   dear cupid i've been seeing a guy for almost 3 months now , and on saturday, he beat me.. i dnt how to forget the images of when he beat , i love him and dont want to leave him, i love him too much, how do i go about getting things back to n...

A.   24 August 2009: Auntie Myrtis is about to get reallllyy serious - This man is an abuser! He will never change! He gets his kicks from watching you suffer and grovel! Basically he hates women and is taking it out on you! Please don't continue to be a punching bag ... (read in full...)

My partner keeps having sex with me in my sleep, even if we have had sex before sleeping!

Q.   my partner and i have a very active sex life, we have been together 14 years, we still have sex 3-4 times a week, however he goes through phases, of having sex whilst im sleepin, my partner is quite a dominate man, and ive let him be, when i start ...

A.   22 August 2009: Auntie Myrtis has all the answers..... Hon, this man is a control freak as evidenced by the fact that this happens when he is feeling insecure about himself. If you liked it, well, fine. But you don't like it and he is not respecting your wishes. ... (read in full...)

How do I prove I love him more?

Q.   hey i just have a quick question. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months. and sometimes when were together i tell him i love him, and he says he loves me more. the thing is i dont see how thats possible so i argue and say no you d...

A.   3 August 2009: Auntie Myrtis steps up to the plate to state the obvious: "Prove it" means he wants you to have sex with him and is afraid to say the words. You're thirteen, for Pete's sake. He's shy, you're shy, and you both have NO business having sex. So stop ... (read in full...)

The pulling out methord. I don't want to get pregnant. Help!

Q.   ok... my boyfriend and i had been fooling around during this weekend. we had sex when on the night i arrived, then the morning, well he withdraw just before he would burst out inside me. but the bad thing is that we had sex again the night before i ...

A.   3 August 2009: Auntie Myrtis knows what she's saying when she tells you that you are taking dangerous chances..... The only thing good for pulling out is a train, which usually pulls out of the station on time. Penises cannot pull out on time, and here is why: ... (read in full...)

Why does he keep using delaying tactics to avoid paying what he owes me?

Q.   My ex and I recently met. We had 2 "unfinished businesses" to finish. One got done but the other not. He owes me some cash. The meeting was 2 months after the break-up, he was all over me..crying and begging. Prior to that, he told me he'll pa...

A.   31 July 2009: Auntie Myrtis knows all about guys like this. So listen up: Hon, he doesn't want you anymore. Oh, he'll have sex with you if you'll let him. But letting him isn't going to make him fork over the money. You're like a gnat to him, always hover... (read in full...)

The programs on tv just make me want a baby!

Q.   Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when hav...

A.   30 July 2009: Auntie Myrtis is an old hand at yearnings like this, so listen up: OMG, girl, you talkin like a crazy person! It's hormones. Nothing but hormones. These are chemicals created by your body and they cause you to do good things sometimes, like b... (read in full...)

My wife has just gotten too darn fat to be attractive anymore

Q.   I'm in my late 40's and have been married for nearly 26 years, most of which have been happy however my Wife has become increasingly overweight and put simply I no longer fancy her physically. She makes no serious attempt to lose weight and get fit ...

A.   30 July 2009: Here's something a lot of people don't understand: In order to become sexual (i.e., get an erection) a man must feel attraction to a woman. If fat is one of the things that turns him off, he can't, um, rise to the occasion. That's a fact, Mac. No ... (read in full...)

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