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Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?

Q.   I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going bac...

A.   20 May 2009: A little different for me, started a "friends with benefits" agreement with a friend of mine about fifteen years ago. We are now going on twelve years married and have two kids. We had the friendship first, but we were just "booty calls" for each ... (read in full...)

She has had a very, very promiscuous past and I struggle almost daily with negative thoughts about this woman I love. Any Advice?

Q.   My girlfriend “Kate” (not her real name for obvious reasons) is stunningly beautiful, extremely intelligent, witty, fun loving and full of life. She’s also brash, facetious, confident, fiercely independent, and honest to a fault. Kate is a realist. ...

A.   20 May 2009: Personally, I think you should be honored. You are truly dating your best friend. She trust you so much that she does not have to hide her past. I applaud you maturity, and think you should remember a few thinks each time she makes a comment ... (read in full...)

Does the amount of lovers you've had in the past matter?

Q.   Hi, I'm 24 and just broken up with my boyfriend. He made me feel pretty bad a lot of the time and one of the things he said which upset me was that I've slept with loads of people and I'm a slag. He used to count on his fingers the people he kn...

A.   20 May 2009: When you are 90 years old, are you or your husband/boyfriend really going to care about this...enjoy life, it is way to short. If someone has a problem with it, move on. Be safe though to make sure you live to be 90 :)... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is jealous of my sexual past and is becoming verbally abusive. Will he ever get over this?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we're great, no problems except for one which is big and is starting to make me go insane. I don't know how much longer we will last if we cant get this sorted. So the problem is that he is very jea...

A.   28 November 2008: You are lucky to find her. I have been married for 12 years to a wonderful woman that does not have the past you complain about, nor do I. While this is great at first, we both admit 12 years later that it would have been fun to have had a bit of ... (read in full...)

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