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Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband

Q.   this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat ...

A.   18 December 2005: Anyone can be found in this day and age. Ever heard of Lexus Nexus??? ... (read in full...)

Married for 12 years, no sex, sleep in seperate beds... I want to leave for my lover but what about the kids?!

Q.   We've been married for 12 years and have 2 children but have slept in separate rooms for about 5 yrs (since kid no 2)and sex is just a 3 letter word. Thru work I've met a woman of similar age, with partner but no kids, who I've fallen madly in love ...

A.   18 December 2005: If you're going to leave your wife, do it while your kids are young. Despite what most people think, younger children adapt much better because they haven't yet had the opportunity to realize how a divorce will affect their own little lives. I ... (read in full...)

My husband tells me he loves me and doesn't want a divorce... but he won't leave his girlfriend!

Q.   My husband and I have been separated for nearly 3 months now and despite all that has happened (he cheated and became very nasty) I am still in love with him, miss him and care very much for him. Over the time we have been getting closer again, b...

A.   18 December 2005: When are you going to realize that you deserve only the best that life has to offer? This is certainly not the best. Stop wasting your time on this fool and free yourself for something awesome to come your way.... (read in full...)

He doesn't know what's wrong and we never talk any more. Should I be worried?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for almost five months. He was really sweet to me and perfect until one day, like about 2 weeks ago, he got weird. He just says he doesn't know what's wrong. He says he still loves me and not to worry, but we barely ...

A.   18 December 2005: He's found someone else that he wants to get to know. You would be wise to move on.... (read in full...)

I'm tired of being my husband's maid and "mother"!

Q.   I have been married for almost three years now and I am not attracted to my husband like I used to be. It's not because of his looks, it's the fact that he has become so lazy. I have to constintly clean up after him and nag him to get anything done. ...

A.   18 December 2005: Kick his lazy arse (and his dog) out to the curb next garbage day. Nothing's going to change... you've already tried to talk to him. He obviously needs to see some real action on your part. The longer you keep picking up after him the bigger a pig ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has had 32 previous sexual partners

Q.   I am 27 and have been going out with a 26 yr old girl for just over 2 months, and I really like her. She is interesting, attractive, sexy, clever and funny, and I am in love with her. I was planning on telling her this last weekend, but in the ...

A.   26 November 2005: Each and every one of us is the person that we are because of the many experiences we have been through up to this day in our lives. You have wonderful things to say about your girlfriend... she is interesting, attractive, sexy, clever, and fun. ... (read in full...)

We were seeing each other just for sex and pleasure...now I've fallen in love with him! Do I tell him?

Q.   Mike and I have been friends for 10 years. Over the past year, we have been with each other for sex and pleasure. Neither of us has seen other people and because we are both work-a-holics, we try to get together whenever we can. I am very much in ...

A.   26 November 2005: After 10 years of friendship, and a year of non-committed fun, no one in their right mind could ever call you clingy or pushy. ;-) I'm sure that you have already considered the various scenarios that could pan out, should you decide to open u... (read in full...)

He seems very inconsiderate..should I marry him?

Q.   I used my credit card to rent a car for to go on a 6 hr trip that my boyfriend needed to do, work related. He asked me to rent it for one day and go with him. I did but now he is rushing us to go back because he does not want to pay for another day. ...

A.   26 November 2005: Since you used YOUR credit card to pay for the rental car, it would seem to me that your boyfriend is actually being somewhat considerate of your financial situation by insisting that you get the vehicle back to avoid having to pay for another ... (read in full...)

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